Wedding Planners

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Joyfully Co 

5.0

Anaheim, CA
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $10

Joyfully Co. was founded with the heart and mission to serve every bride and groom joyfully as they plan for the one of the biggest transitions of their life. With event design, styling, and coordination as our forte, we provide our services to make the planning process as smooth and painless as possible for our couples. Knowing that no couple is the same, we cater to each unique vision and inspiration that they have to conceptualize all the details in order to make their dream wedding a reality.

Awarded Best of Zola
Choosing Joyfully Co. for our wedding planning services was the BEST decision we made throughout the entire wedding planning. Blaire was a phenomenal wedding planner in that she was incredibly flexible, patient, and helpful throughout the entire process. My husband and I changed our minds about a hundred times on hotel venue vs small elopement and even went back and forth between several venues. Blaire was never impatient with us and truly wanted us to have the best day. The wedding day itself was perfect. I could not have hoped for a more organized, effortless, and stress-free experience. Throughout the day, Blaire and Sharon checked up on all of our guests and made sure their needs were met. They checked on us and asked if we needed anything, they handled all minor issues flawlessly and kept us informed so we felt none of the stress. Absolutely will be recommending Joyfully Co. to all of my family and peers for their weddings. Thank you again for a phenomenal experience, and I look forward to working with your team again for future birthdays and large parties!
Elsie N., 2 months ago
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Mostest 

4.9

New York, NY
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $295

At Mostest, we encourage celebrating more while stressing less. Servicing 20+ areas nationwide, we would be overjoyed to make your big day as seamless as possible! We’re here to help you celebrate more. More occasions. More fun. More presence. More memories. Oh - and NO working on your wedding day. We’re here to vibe with your wedding vision and then turn it up to 11. On your wedding day, you’re the star. Just show up, be fabulous, have the best time ever. Leave the rest to us. We’ve got you - always.

Awarded Best of Zola
Working with Tiffany was an absolute dream. Her attention to every detail and dedication went far beyond our expectations, making our wedding day flawless!! From coordinating with our vendors to managing fast / last-minute changes, she made sure everything was perfect. We couldn’t have asked for a more professional, thoughtful, and accommodating planner to bring our vision to life. Highly recommended!
Breanna F., a month ago
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Ruban Bleu Weddings and Events LLC 

5.0

Dallas, TX
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $800

Ruban Bleu Weddings and Events LLC is a wedding planning business based in Frisco, TX. These professionals bring sophistication and glamor to new heights and aim to design an unforgettable experience for you and your guests. The expert team of planners at Ruban Bleu Weddings and Events LLC loves to witness the moment when couples say 'I do.' With your love story as their guide, they approach each event with a deep respect for your time and the seemingly small details that make you and your partner original. They use their diverse experience in the industry to capture your sense of style and authenticity.

Awarded Best of Zola
We were blown away when we first stepped into our reception space. It was more beautiful than we could have imagined! Shamecha, Tiffany and the whole Ruban team worked so hard to make our special day look and feel magical. Having this team as part of our wedding day ensured that everything moved along seamlessly, and we were able to enjoy our day without worrying about a thing. Thank you to everyone at Ruban Events who made our wedding dreams come true!
Sarah W., 6 months ago
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Forever Moments 

5.0

Bealeton, VA
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,000

Our Mission Statement: As a Master Certified Wedding Planner, I will cater to your needs for wedding planning, event management, and event design. We, at Forever Moments, strive to bring joy and peace of mind to your wedding day by creating a professional and comfortable environment to achieve goals together as a team.

Awarded Best of Zola
Forever Moments provided us with excellent, dedicated, and reliable wedding planning services. Their communication style was clear, easy, and thorough throughout the entire process. The wedding planner kept us, the photographer and the couple, on track and on time. When the florist was unavailable, she helped to rearrange the decorations. She even sewed the bride's dress when it was ripped, going above and beyond to ensure our special day went smoothly. I would highly recommend Forever Moments to any couple planning their wedding.
Quang T., 22 days ago
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oso events 

5.0

San Jose, CA
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $4,000

Our wedding planning business was born out of a love for all things dreamy and romantic. We understand that every detail matters when it comes to planning your wedding. That's why we're committed to paying close attention to the small things, while keeping the big picture in mind. Our hope for all of our clients is for them to feel the love and care we've put into building oso events. Your special day matters to us, and we always want to go above and beyond to make it exactly what you envisioned. Our goal is to ensure that you feel comfortable every step of the way to make informed decisions and to make the process as stress-free as possible.

Awarded Best of Zola
We first learned about Oso Events in the summer of 2022 while remotely planning our California wedding from the East Coast. From the very first introductory call, they blew us away with their professionalism, punctuality, warmth, organization, and excellence. Without them, our wedding would not have been nearly as amazing as it was! They found us fantastic vendors in the Bay Area like the food, HMUA, DJ, and server staffing company, organized our wedding day schedule, held regular video calls with us, got quotes from vendors, kept track of our budget and payment schedule with weekly updates, arranged set-up of the ceremony and reception venue, made sure our vendors got day-of tips, and more! The only thing that could be improved is that there was a specific deadline for event liability insurance that I and the planning team all missed initially. No harm was done though! The mistake was caught in time before it affected the event, and all went well! Michelle and Raymundo excellently identified what our energy levels as a newlywed couple would be like in the week leading up to the big event, and the day of the actual wedding. Raymundo directed our impromptu ceremony rehearsal, helping our officiant and party mark their places and signaling where/when we should stand and walk. Michelle checked in with the bride and the groom consistently throughout the night of the reception, asking if we needed water, food, or other drinks since we were often distracted by the festivities. They maintained effective communication leading up to and on the day of the wedding. Their decorations at the ceremony and reception were absolutely gorgeous and exactly what we wanted. At the end of the night, they managed takedown, and made sure all of the personal decorative items and remembrance photos we brought were conveniently all in the same box for us to take home. Through the yearlong process of planning, they dealt with last-minute logistical changes with incredible poise, and truly grounded us, allowing us to enjoy the day with free minds. The team even accommodated two of our guests who tested positive for COVID last-minute by setting up a separate table for them in the outdoor venue. We couldn't recommend them more highly. Not to mention, their BobaHolics boba bar was a huge hit and the photo booth was a lot of fun. We got a lot of mileage out of the sustainable decor inventory, which prevented us from having tons of wedding stuff on hand that we'd accumulate and need to resell after. The entire range of services offered by Oso is incredibly helpful and will make any event an absolute hit. We have loved working with the team and we’re so grateful they decided to take us on as clients at the start of their wedding planning journey.
Sharon C., 3 months ago
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The Get Together Events Co. 

5.0

Madison, TN
  • Offers 2 services

The Get Together Events Co. is your month-of wedding and event coordination company, offering affordable planning services, peace of mind and damn good times to New York, Nashville, Chicago and beyond. No two events are the same, so the The Get Together Events Co. process is uniquely crafted to suit each of our client’s needs…

Hiring The Get Together Events Co. as our Month-Of Coordinator was the best decision that we made when planning our Wedding. Lauren and Grace quickly came up to speed on all of the details of our Wedding Weekend and did not waste time coordinating with our vendors. Between their in depth planning documents and Weekend Homework, they covered every last detail and kept us at ease. Grace was our Onsite Manager day-of. She was lovely and executed our vision perfectly (and then some)! We highly recommend TGT to anyone looking for a personable and highly organized team to bring their special day to life.
Kelsey R., a month ago
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Star Rose Creations 

5.0

Elmwood Park, NJ
  • Offers 6 services
  • Starts at $950

Miranda has always had a passion for styling, creating weddings and events. Her expertise of executing an individual's vision is one of a kind. Her dedication and compassion to her clients speaks volume. She doesn't treat her clients as if it is just a business transaction but rather she creates a relationship with her clients that they hold on to dearly. She is known for great communication, understanding and the willingness to work with her clients to the best of her ability.

Awarded Best of Zola
Working with Miranda, Raquel, and Kylie was a true pleasure. Kylie assisted us at our rehearsal the day before our wedding, practicing the ceremony to ensure we understood the process and best practices for each bridal party member. Miranda and Raquel were there for us on our wedding date, helping set up decor, running to get breakfast for the bridal party, and being the point of contact with all our vendors. At one point, as the bride, I was getting overstimulated with all the pictures being taken in a short amount of time, and Miranda/Raquel had my back by making sure I had water and 30 minutes to center before our ceremony. I'd recommend Start Rose Creations to family and friends for any event.
Alexis A., 4 months ago
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CherishYour Vows 

5.0

Hollywood, FL
  • Offers 6 services
  • Starts at $1,200

Hi I am Lisa with Cherish Your Vows! 5 Years ago I started this dream after getting Married to my Dream Guy & unfortunately we didn't have the greatest experience. I started my 1st career in 2000 in Corporate Events as well as Accounting for 15 years but I found my true calling...We decided we wanted to make dreams come true for other amazing couples to have the best Stress-Free experience possible! My wonderful Husband Jason helps with every event even with his full time Med Spa Business. He is a Photographer /Videographer. I am not only a 3 Tier Planner, I am a Florist & Designer & Officiant. Let us make your dreams come true!

Awarded Best of Zola
I loved working with Lisa and her team, they were really caring not only to the bride and groom but also to all the vendor including myself. She was always in top of the wedding timeline and all the wedding arrangements specially the flowers were stunning. Keep up the amazing job!
DJ Duni, 4 months ago
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Events by McKenna 

5.0

Beverly Hills, CA
  • Offers 5 services

Our Weddings and Events company was born after nearly ten years of planning and coordinating by McKenna Folmar. She has traveled across the world making sure each and every event she was at was organized, stress free for the client, and done beautifully. She has coordinated hundreds of weddings and is known for her calm, cheerful, and efficient approach to events. ​ Perfect for Weddings, Upscale Work Events, and Parties in Your Life. Book McKenna for your next gathering if you want to enjoy your party and not have to worry about a single detail.

Awarded Best of Zola
Boy oh boy did I take my time with hiring a day of coordinator. My dad tried to convince me to just rely on family for running the day of. He almost had me too, but after meeting with McKenna and booking her, my stress levels dropped so much. She handled the day of so seamlessly! There's no way my family would have had the time to do what she did. I laid out mine and my now husbands vision and expectations for the day and McKenna went above and beyond to make sure it happened. My dad even said she was his favorite vendor that day, a true necessity. Pro tip: if you're a DIY bride, organize your decor in bins by section/station with a packing list and any explanations that might be helpful. Bonus points if you include inspiration photos.
Taylor P., a year ago
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Greenhouse Events 

5.0

Brooklyn, NY
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $100

At Greenhouse Events, we take a heartfelt, grassroots approach to helping our clients—plain and simple, with love. We infuse each experience with enthusiasm and creativity, guiding you, your family, and friends through the adventure of planning one of the most important days of your lives. Our passion lies in making this journey as smooth and memorable as possible, with a calm and dedicated touch.

Awarded Best of Zola
Angel made our wedding planning experience truly exceptional! From our first meeting with her, it was clear that their approach is grounded in love and a genuine passion for creating beautiful, stress-free events. She was patient every step of the way and she guided us throughout our wedding planning process. She was attentive, responsive and creative. She helped us from big obstacles like acquiring florals with her in house team to little things such as which dish would fit our atmosphere better. Angel effortlessly guided us, our families, and friends through every step of the planning process, ensuring that our day was as perfect as we had always dreamed. Our scheduled meetings with Angel always put our worries at ease and she answered our questions with detailed and helpful response. I will refer her to anyone that needs wedding planning.
David C., a month ago
Rachel Behar Events 

5.0

Brooklyn, NY
  • Offers 4 services
  • Starts at $6,500

Life needs to be celebrated. Whether it’s your company’s holiday party, a milestone birthday, or The Big Day, we will provide guidance every step of the way. Staying true to your vision, we’ll ensure everything from brand launches to intimate gatherings turn out beautifully—even better than you imagined.

Awarded Best of Zola
I can’t say enough good things about Rachel and her team - they made our dream wedding come to life and it was better than we could have even imagined!!! From the very beginning, Rachel asked all the right questions to get to know us and our style and she helped us pick vendors that fit exactly what we wanted. She was always so patient with us and never pressured us into making any decisions that we didn’t want, always reminding us that it was our wedding and we could pretty much do it however we wanted! I asked for her opinion many times along the way, for everything from style to logistics, and she always gave us honest answers to help us make the best decisions for our wedding. Rachel and her team really shined when it was finally time for our wedding weekend - all of our guests stayed on site for the weekend and Rachel and her team were there the whole time. When I say that everything went perfectly… WOW!! It was true magic. She made sure that we didn’t need to lift a finger or worry about anything so that we could enjoy every moment of it. It was the best weekend of our lives and if I did it all over, I would 100000% work with Rachel again.
Alison T., a year ago
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J & S Weddings 

5.0

Mulberry, FL
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,400

We are Jake and Savannah Stutzman, owners of J & S Weddings, LLC. We are a husband and wife team ready to make your wedding dream a reality! Savannah is our Certified Wedding Planner that will help assist you in creating an incredible wedding experience. Jake will thoroughly manage all your contracts and payments, easing you of all stress regarding deadlines and details. As a Certified Wedding Planner, Savannah comes with experience, resources, and a community of vendors to help make your dream day run smoothly. This team is all about making sure YOU are happy with what will take place on your special day.

Awarded Best of Zola
J & S Weddings was the perfect wedding planning team for us. From our first meeting, we were impressed by their attentive, confident, and positive communication style. They were truly passionate about making our special day a success, and their efficient, hands-on approach ensured everything went off without a hitch. On the day of the wedding, J & S Weddings' team served as our day-of coordinators, seamlessly executing our plans and making sure every moment was perfectly orchestrated. We're so grateful for their expertise and hard work in helping to make our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Kendyl R., 22 days ago
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Wilder Mind Events 

5.0

St. Petersburg, FL
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $1,850

Wilde Mind Events offers a range of packages to clients, letting them choose the services that best suit their needs. From day-of coordination to full-service planning, this expert organizer is here to help you. She also offers destination wedding planning services, letting you make the world your oyster for your dream destination wedding.

Awarded Best of Zola
We were initially introduced to Wilder Minds Events after one of our friends recommended them to us for wedding planning. Aside from deciding on my husband, choosing Wilder Minds event planners was the best decision I made for my wedding. We started working with Delaney and right off the bat I knew we made the right decision—Delaney was attentive and quick to respond to any texts/calls/questions we had, although I didn’t know exactly how right my decision was until much later. About a week before the wedding we were faced with some extremely difficult decisions to make because of hurricane Helene. Our reception venue didn’t have power 24 hrs before the wedding and Delaney stepped up and was ready with several alternative options, providing us with peace of mind and reassurance every step of the way that she would do everything and anything within her power to make this wedding everything we had dreamt of it being. We ended up completely switching venues several hours before the welcome party started, and everything ended up being absolutely beautiful and unforgettable—all thanks to our amazing, kind and caring wedding planner Delaney and the wonderful, dedicated venders she had connected us with. I cannot thank Delaney and the Wilder Minds event planners enough for saving the best day of our lives. My husband and I are both genuinely sad that our time planning with Delaney is over and we will miss hearing from her on a regular basis very much.
Michelle K., 3 days ago
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Weddings by Jay 

4.9

Denver, CO
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $1,700

Hello there! My name is JayLynn. I am a romantic at heart, a lover of LOVE and a collector of daydreams. My journey in this one of a kind industry started a decade ago. I have experience as a bridal and wedding gown consultant, in the cosmetic and jewelry industry, and as a bridal model. My versatile background empowers me to be a knowledgeable resource and to add value to my clients experience through all stages of the planning process. I am a licensed, certified and insured event planner with coordination experience across all industries- Weddings have just captured my heart!

Awarded Best of Zola
As a wedding photographer, I have the pleasure of working with many coordinators, but JayLynn stands out as one of the best. She is professionalism and attention to detail is incredible . JayLynn's organizational skills ensures that every aspect of the a wedding day rans smoothly, allowing me to focus on capturing beautiful moments without any logistical concerns. Her ability to anticipate needs and solve problems on the fly is truly remarkable. JayLynn's calm demeanor and clear communication creates a stress-free environment for everyone involved, including the couple, their families, and the vendors. She is always available to answer questions and provide support, making the entire day enjoyable and seamless. Working with JayLynn is such a pleasure, and her dedication to her craft is inspiring. She plays a crucial role in making any wedding day perfect, and I highly recommend her to any couple looking for an outstanding wedding coordinator. JayLynn's expertise and passion for her work are unparalleled, and I look forward to collaborating with her on future events.
Alisha Brown, 3 months ago
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Kimberly’s Ever After Planning 

5.0

Scottsdale, AZ
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $2,000
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My name is Kimberly and I’m a Disney bride. After having many postponements due to Covid, I finally got married! However, I realized there were many moments during my wedding day, I wished I could have “cloned” myself. There were so many little things that needed my attention and being the bride, I wasn’t able to attend to them. I had to have either a bridesmaid or my mother handle it, which wasn’t ideal. I wanted everyone in the moment and enjoying the day with me. That’s the moment I realized I needed to prevent moments like this from happening to other wedding couples.

Awarded Best of Zola
I had a wonderful experience working with Kimberly's Ever After Planning for my recent wedding. Their communication was quick, professional, and fun, making the planning process efficient and enjoyable. The quality of their work was nothing short of perfection - they provided a truly high-quality, professional service that exceeded our expectations. Kimberly herself was an exceptional coordinator, helping us plan every detail of our special day. I would highly recommend Kimberly's Ever After Planning to any couple looking for a wedding planner that delivers exceptional results.
Sabrina, a month ago
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BW Studio+Events 

5.0

Berwyn, IL
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $3,500

BW Studio+Events is a Chicago-based event coordination and planning group serving Chicagoland and surrounding suburbs. The Studio focuses on intimate weddings with unique flair and lots of personal touches. Blair founded BW Studio after hosting a number of non-profit events and finding herself completely immersed in the process. Once she realized her knack for event organization and planning, the studio was quickly born.

Awarded Best of Zola
Working with Blair was probably the best decision we made during the process of planning our wedding. My husband and I both work 9-5 corporate jobs, and we knew that we needed to bring someone onto our “wedding team” that would help keep us on track with all of the milestones during the wedding planning process. From the get-go, over our 15-month planning period, Blair was always transparent about timing and was a master of following up regarding timelines, without ever badgering us or coming across as controlling. She spent over an hour discussing budgets with us and our families early on, to make sure that everything we planned stayed in the budget range that we’d all agreed upon. This was especially helpful during our venue and vendor selection process. She helped us find that blew our socks off, and also found us the most wonderful florist (@thelocalpetaler) who was able to provide us way more bang for our buck than any florist we’d be able to find on our own - a huge advantage. While we had our venue already picked out, Blair was able to recommend a food and beverage package with an available catering company that fell delivered us fantastic food and a premium beverage package that fit our budget. 

Leading up to the wedding, Blair was also a master in helping us coordinate our wedding day planning including family photos, transportation e.g. coordinating our bus between multiple hotels and the venue while making it easy for us to just focus on ourselves. The peace of mind that Blair brought us throughout the planning process, week of, and day of our wedding made having our wedding a cakewalk rather than a headache. Spending the money to hire Blair was the best decision we could’ve made for our wedding!
Kelly B., 2 months ago
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Something Blue Planning + Coordinating 

5.0

Ofallon, MO
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,000

Something Blue was founded by a mother-daughter duo who have a passion for bringing a couple’s wedding vision to life. We are organized and experienced, full of creative ideas and innovative solutions, and we will keep your day running perfectly smooth. We help with wedding prep, creating a detailed wedding day timeline, decorating, managing vendors on your big day, tearing down, and every detail in between.

Awarded Best of Zola
Working with Something Blue Planning Coordinating was one of the best decisions I made while planning my wedding. Their team was incredibly helpful, kind, and patient every step of the way. I would wholeheartedly recommend their services to any engaged couple looking for assistance pulling together the event of a lifetime. My family and I were able to enjoy wedding planning and our wedding day because of their help. They are wonderful!!
Phoebe, 3 months ago
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Bustle and Bloom 

5.0

Tampa, FL
  • Offers 4 services
  • Starts at $1,500

Bustle and Bloom is a boutique style wedding planning company, with a team of 4 incredible planners, based in Wesley Chapel, FL and servicing all of Tampa Bay. With over 8 years in the industry, We know that planning your day can be met with equal parts excitement and anxiety when the checklists are never ending and not in your normal wheelhouse. Good news - this is our jam! Making memories that are worthy of a lifetime while making the process enjoyable is what we love. Let us help you walk through walking down the aisle. Either step by step, or bringing it over the finish line for you. We've got a package to fit your needs.

Awarded Best of Zola
In February of 2024 (and the year leading up to), I had the pleasure of working with Rebecca from Bustle and Bloom for my wedding, and I can't recommend her services enough! I’ve literally told all of my friends getting married that she’s the one to hire FIRST. Initially, I hired Rebecca as a wedding coordinator for day-of, but she graciously took on the role of a mini planner when I needed more help. Her patience and grace in dealing with unpleasant guests/vendors were truly commendable and appreciated as the bride and I didn’t have to handle much on the wedding day. Rebecca managed everything seamlessly and truly seemed like my best friend for the day, ready to assist with anything I needed or any issues that arose. My now husband still talks about her all the time… she brought him a snack tray during photos and instantly became his BFF too. We loved our day with B&B by our side. I also hired her for our floral needs. Rebecca's floral design was stunning and perfectly complemented our desired overall aesthetic. The fact that she provided both planning and floral services made the entire process so much more cohesive and stress-free. Her ability to bring my vision to life was remarkable, and she handled every detail with such poise and professionalism. Thanks to Rebecca and the Bustle and Bloom team, my wedding day was everything I dreamed of and more! If you're looking for a wedding planner who is not only talented but also genuinely cares about you and your special day, Rebecca is the one to choose.
Stephanie T., 4 months ago
Breezy Day 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,100

Thanks for visiting Breezy Day, we are so happy you are here! We are a sister team in San Diego, committed to helping you make your engagement & wedding day a breeze! WE CANNOT WAIT TO GET TO KNOW YOU!

I used both the wedding coordination and floral services from Breezy Day and both services went above and beyond, making our wedding day perfect. Courtney was our wedding coordinator and she made the process so much easier. I was so stressed about the wedding planning process until I met Courtney, I wonder if we would have even had a wedding if I didn’t meet her to be honest! From the initial phone call, she explained the wedding planning process and reassured me that we could have a great wedding within our limited budget. She had a list of vendors she recommended which I picked all of my vendors from and it made the process of selecting vendors so much easier. Courtney was always able to help answer my questions throughout the whole year of planning and always responded in a timely manner. Then, on the day of the wedding, Courtney made the entire day so smooth and it went just as planned. I cannot recommend Courtney and the wedding day of coordinator services more. I don’t know what I would have done without her! The florals from Breezy Day Weddings were also incredible. They were more beautiful in person then I even expected. I chose the a la carte options from the Shoppe and the florals were so beautiful. Heather was great and very responsive when I asked questions about the process. The florals were seamlessly delivered to the venue on the day of the wedding and Courtney set the centerpieces on the table for me and placed the florals on the cake and it was so stunning. The service from both the day of coordination services and the florals were 10 out of 10! I cannot recommend them enough. They were affordable, professional, efficient, friendly, reassuring, and just amazing all around. If you’re getting married, you need to hire them for your wedding! Thank you again, Courtney and Heather!
Nikki Goodridge, 3 months ago
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Emily Nuzzo Events 

5.0

Palatine, IL
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $3,000

Hi there! I am Emily and I am so excited you found your way here. I have a passion for curating one-of-a-kind weddings that showcase a couple’s individuality. It is important for me to get to know couple’s personally, what makes them excited about their wedding day and how I can alleviate any planning stress (ew, we don’t want stress). Consider me your right-hand gal, your “planner in your pocket”, your sounding board and the gal that will make sure your wedding day is flawless!

Awarded Best of Zola
The title says it all... Emily is IN-CRED-I-BLE!!! We worked with Emily for well over a year on our wedding and she handled anything and everything that we needed help with. Whether it was finding vendors/venues and contacting them, handling paperwork, setting up calls, tours, etc., Emily put our mind at ease with it and took care of it. She's also incredibly personable and fun to talk to! By the time our wedding came, it was bittersweet because we had looked forward to our weekly calls with her! On the day of our wedding Emily was a superhero..... She helped set things up, make sure everything ran smoothly, helped tear down at the end of the night, and packed our car with decorations and things we had brought for us so we had nothing to worry about. We HIGHLY highly highly (I'll say again) HIGHLY recommend hiring Emily for ANY event, but definitely hire her if you're getting married!! We recommended her to all of our friends—she truly helped make our wedding an incredible experience!!
Marlena E., 3 months ago
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Erika O'Brien Events 

5.0

Tampa, FL
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $1,800

Hello there! My name is Erika and I am a full-service Certified Wedding Planner based in Tampa, FL. I've been in the event industry since 2016 and started my business in 2022. I am certified through The Certified Wedding Planner Society.

Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I chose to work with Erika as our wedding planner after scouring through Zola and reading many reviews. We initially chose her because she had good reviews and her day-of price point was within our budget. Upon our first meeting with Erika, we knew we had made the right choice. She did an awesome job of getting to know us as a couple and really took the time to understand our vision for our wedding. Despite choosing the "day-of" option, Erika met or checked-in with us frequently throughout the wedding process (about once a month to start and then 2-3 times right before our wedding day). One thing we particularly loved about her is that she ensured we remained on schedule for booking various vendors throughout the planning process. This was incredibly helpful, especially as we got 2-3 months out from our wedding. The day of our wedding, Erika was incredible. We had a few hiccups, as does every major event, but she was able to handle everything with great demand and ease. We as a couple had no idea anything had gone awry. We also made some last minute scheduling changes in the midst of our reception based on some scheduling challenges and Erika was able to take charge and pass out the information to anyone who needed it. None of our guests had any idea that any changes had been made. Overall, our experience with Erika was incredible and we would strongly recommend her for any wedding or event. She is professional and does a phenomenal job of helping everyone feel at ease throughout the entire process. We cannot thank her enough for helping our vision for our wedding come to life.
Meagan T., 6 months ago
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Events in a Crunch 

5.0

Austin, TX
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $900
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Events in a Crunch creates intentional and fun-filled community events your guests will remember for a lifetime. We work “in a Crunch” to bring your unique vision to life by planning fun and affordable ways to share your story. We offer wedding planning suited for every budget that celebrates you, your culture & your passions.

Awarded Best of Zola
We are so thankful we found Events in a Crunch as our day of planner for our wedding - Adaobi and her team made the process much easier. We had planned to manage the day-of ourself using friends & family, and we are so glad we didn't! We did the middle package "Crunch Planning" which starts 4 months out. Adaobi helped us manage the budget and find vendors that worked within our budget that still fulfilled our vision of the day. The day of help was tremendous - they worked with the vendors to confirm details, ensuring furniture and games arrived & were set-up as directed. They also made sure the various tables were set-up just as we had laid out. Even the little details like sneakily fluffing my wife's dress just before we walked down the aisle - very appreciated. We had a wonderful day and highly recommend Events in a Crunch!
Kimberly B., 4 months ago
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Marino Made Events 

5.0

San Antonio, TX
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $1,500

We are passionate about creating events that articulate who you are and celebrating what makes you unique. We want to ensure that your event day makes you feel seen and celebrated to the highest level!

Awarded Best of Zola
Planning a Texas wedding from NYC was no small task, and I can confidently say that hiring Krysta as our wedding planner was the best decision we made. From the moment we brought her on board, she became an absolute rock in our planning process. Her quirky and lovely personality made the entire experience enjoyable, and her ability to stay laser-focused on tasks while getting them done quickly was a game changer. Krysta was there to guide us every step of the way, and she seamlessly took the reins about four months out from the wedding, allowing me to finally breathe a little. She worked flawlessly with all our vendors, even helping us find and communicate with them. Despite the distance, she was more than willing to meet in person whenever I was in town, and she was always on top of texting me back, especially when wedding anxiety hit. The day of the wedding, Krysta came in full force with her team of assistants and made sure every detail was set. With over 20 vendors and staff involved, there were countless moving parts, but Krysta handled it all like an absolute pro. Any mishaps were dealt with swiftly and gracefully, to the point where I didn’t even have to worry. As a Type A bride, she was everything I needed—she respected my need to be involved and, at the same time, was always five steps ahead when it came to questions or ensuring things ran smoothly. Even after the wedding, when we had some issues with vendors, Krysta provided unwavering support. She jumped on video calls with us, backed us up, and continued to hold our hands through the post-wedding process until we were fully ready to move on. Krysta and her team are the reason our wedding was perfect, and we will forever be grateful. We love you, Krysta! Thank you for being the rockstar wedding planner that you are!
Jennifer L., 13 days ago
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Johnnie & Co. Events 

5.0

Atlanta, GA
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $2,500

Based in Atlanta, Georgia, and Charleston, South Carolina, Johnnie & Co. Events is a boutique wedding and event planning and design firm that serves clients that have the highest of standards. We serve clients nationally. You have a vision for your wedding, but not the time, energy, and expertise it will take to accomplish it. That's where Johnnie & Co. Events comes in.

Awarded Best of Zola
Johnnie went above and beyond when it came to delivering our dream wedding. Johnnie came in on a very tight timeline, sourced amazing vendors, coordinated a seamless day, and designed an absolutely beautiful wedding. She designed our florals, both my bouquet and our tablescapes, and everyone loved both. She was an amazing planner and coordinator. Our other vendors even commented on how great her communication was leading up to the wedding day. She calmed my nerves at every turn and made the day a breeze. We felt so blessed to just have fun and celebrate with our guests on our wedding day while Johnnie was seamlessly making everything happen. I’m even grateful for the moments when she would slyly hand me something to eat during the reception, because I don’t think I would’ve had a bite if not for her. She was truly a lifesaver for our wedding. I’m so glad we found Johnnie. If you need a planner, coordinator, or designer I highly recommend Johnnie & Co. Events.
Kaitlin G., 2 years ago
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Sleeping Bee Designs 

5.0

Frederick, MD
  • Offers 4 services
  • Starts at $1,900

Aside from my love for all-things-events-and-weddings, I am a cat mom, dog mom (to the best dog ever, truly), goofy type-A (yes, we exist). I love everything coffee, purple, and vintage; I almost never go somewhere without red lipstick. And you’ll probably see me somewhere in downtown Frederick at least twice a week.

Awarded Best of Zola
We booked Sarah as our Month-of Coordinator and it was probably the smartest decision I've ever made! Not only did Sarah smoothly execute my vision for the reception and ceremony decor, but she really made sure the day ran smoothly and I trusted her completely. She was prepared and on hand for anything we needed... including sewing me into my reception dress when the zipper broke beyond repair. I highly HIGHLY recommend Sarah for your planning and coordination needs!
Shariffa, 2 years ago
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Fete Events 

5.0

Carlsbad, CA
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $495

Let me share with you about the Owner & Creative Designer of Fete Events. Originally from Los Angele's Carolyn Mercado has a warm personality that makes you feel at ease when working with her. With her extensive experience in Fashion Merchandising, Design, Styling, Business Mind & Event Coordinating Carolyn took her experience and vision to create her own company, Fête Events. Carolyn’s combination of energy & organization makes each of her events stand out among the rest. She combines her corporate training, design background with her amazing attention to detail, which creates timeless and unforgettable unique celebrations.

Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment I spoke to Carolyn during our initial phone consultation, I was filled with ease and knew she was the person I could trust in the process of coordinating our special day! Carolyn’s calming and positive demeanor was such a Godsend in the otherwise overwhelming process of making many small decisions leading up to the big day. Communication with Carolyn was such a breeze and she was available through text and several phone call meetings where we would talk through ideas and details. I shared my ideas with her, and she immediately understood my vision and helped so much in executing everything we wanted in our wedding day and more. Carolyn coordinated with our vendors on the month of the wedding to ensure that everyone was on the same page. She helped our day flow so effortlessly and even between several locations from the hotel where we got ready, to the church for our ceremony, to our reception venue, and eventually after party. She added personal touches to the experience that were so special to us. Carolyn is truly such a joy to work with and made us feel so cared for during the whole wedding experience. We were in the best hands. We highly recommend Fête Events to anyone looking for a wedding planner who combines professionalism with a personal touch. Her dedication and expertise ensured that our day was nothing short of perfect, leaving us free to enjoy every moment without worry. Carolyn exceeded our expectations in every way, and we couldn't have asked for a better partner to help bring our dream wedding to life.
Melina S., a month ago
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One Fabulous Event 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Offers 4 services
  • Starts at $1,200

One Fabulous Event is an event planning, coordination & design service based in San Diego that focuses on each client’s individual needs with personal care and attention. We understand that it is your “event” & that in order for your event to be planned and executed the way you envision, you need an experienced, detail oriented and sensitive event planner to share in your vision and carry it forwar. Our goal is to bring your vision to life, to closely with you to understand your needs & desires. No matter what your need, One Fabulous Event can meet your every request and ensure that your event is Fabulous!

Awarded Best of Zola
Thank goodness for Angela!!! She truly was the glue to all the moving pieces of our wedding. My now husband and I are from Orange County but we knew we wanted to have our special day in Coronado. Having Angela made this process so much easier with all her vendor recommendations, San Diego location expertise, and willingness to answer as many questions as I asked. Whether you are super organized or need the help, Angela does an amazing job narrowing down all the nitty gritty details in away where it is bite size and approachable so you never get too overwhelmed. I’m so grateful for her and I felt such a peace on our wedding day with her by my side!!
Sierra M., 5 months ago
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Katie O' Weddings & Events 

5.0

Latham, NY
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $3,500

At Katie O’ Weddings & Events, our goal is to make every client sparkle. This means brighter smiles, louder laughs, and more excitement than you have ever experienced. Sparkling is about being fully immersed in the moment; it’s about being completely present, completely joyful, aware, and moved by all the positive energy and love surrounding you.

Katie and her team worked with us over nine months to ensure the wedding of our dreams was realized. They kept us on track with all the necessary, decision timelines, recommended our vendors, and visited a number of venues with us. Every minute of the day was orchestrated by the team flawlessly. One of the best moments was when they revealed the venue to us. It was magnificent. We cannot thank them enough.
Tracy M., 4 months ago
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Ally Turner Events LLC 

5.0

Keller, TX
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,000

My name is Ally, and I am the founder of Ally Turner Events LLC. I offer a variety of wedding planning and coordinating services in the DFW metroplex. As a mom and former teacher, multi-tasking and coordinating chaos are my specialties. I am here to be your right-hand (wo)man so that you can sit back, relax, and soak in every moment of your special day.

Ally Turner Events LLC was an absolute dream to work with for our daughter's wedding! Their communication style was open and thoughtful - Ally was always one step ahead, taking care of things before we even realized they needed to be done. She would often say "Just let me do it. You enjoy the wedding!" and she truly delivered on that promise. The quality of their work and value was unmatched - everything was executed flawlessly, and we felt it was worth every penny. Ally was a true asset, helping unload the decoration trailer, setting up everything according to our daughter's wishes, and keeping the wedding running smoothly from start to finish. As parents of the bride, we could not have expected more. Ally is simply the best!
Marsha W., 16 days ago
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Dhalia Events 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Offers 6 services
  • Starts at $3,600

Dhalia Events is an award winning event production company & was recently named "Best Planners in the Northeast" by LuxLife Magazine. Our magic is borne out of an insistence on creating bespoke, highly personalized experiences. We focus on the uniqueness of our couples by encouraging them to be their most authentic and raw selves. We've commissioned events for large brands such as Volvo Cars and worked with top tier social media influencers to plan their events. Our team has also worked regionally and internationally producing gatherings including destination weddings & corporate retreats. Our couples book us for the following reasons:

Awarded Best of Zola
Dhalia and her team were just amazing to work with! From our first conversation until execution, they were profession, kind and thorough. One of the best investments and decisions we made for our wedding day
Irene O., a year ago
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Lilo Weddings 

5.0

Broadlands, VA
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $85

My name is Jennette and I would love to be a part of your special day! I got into wedding coordinating on accident! One random day a few years ago, one of my friends asked if I would assist her in a few of her weddings. From that day on, I have been working weddings and my interest in them grew! My company is named after my beloved doggie, Lilo. She is a boxer mix hound, and she is surely a sassy one! She is lively, fierce and isn't afraid to have a good time. My vision for Lilo Weddings is to deliver a stress free and memorable event while working side by side with amazing vendors on the couple's wedding day!

Jennette was such a gift to us! She handled coordination for 2 months out and day of our wedding. She was incredibly organized, enthusiastic, and flexible. Our venue wasn’t your typical wedding spot and Jennette listened to our vision and truly made it come to life. Her professionalism, organizational skills, and genuine care for our special day were evident from the start. Jennette’s warm personality and attention to detail made the entire process enjoyable and stress-free. Even our parents and wedding party continue to talk about how amazing she was! We highly, highly recommend Lilo Weddings!
Lisa M., 3 months ago
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The Day Of Company 

5.0

Brooklyn, NY
  • Offers 1 service
  • Starts at $2,000

The Day Of Company offers Day Of Coordination for couples who have made (or are in the process of making) all of the plans for their wedding but would like a professional Coordinator (who also happens to be incredibly pleasant to work with) there that day to ensure those plans come together. From steaming dresses & garments to managing vendors (without being bossy) to answering questions from anyone and everyone to wrangling people for photos or transportation and so much more – we make sure all of the moving parts are managed, setup is executed, logistics are handled, items are placed and our clients & their families are enjoying the day.

Awarded Best of Zola
We instantly connected with Joanna because she was so warm, friendly, organized and, as an added bonus, got married at our venue, too! Booking her was some of the best money we spent on our wedding, as she stayed on top of our vendors and also provided us with things like vendor recommendations and honest advice on what to spend on and what to skip. On the day of, we had Angela help run the show and she was incredible at keeping me calm, making sure we stayed on track and consulting us for in-the-moment decisions that would benefit us (and we would've never thought of ourselves, like leaving the seats directly across from us at our head table open and putting flowers there instead of bridal party members so that we weren't blocked by people in photographs!) Both Joanna and Angela were spectacular and integral to our wedding being as smooth and successful as it was. Can't recommend enough!
Victoria O., 10 days ago
Before the Vows 

5.0

Chattanooga, TN
  • Offers 2 services
  • Starts at $1,850

Hi, I’m Jenny and I am the founder and owner of Before the Vows! I am so glad you are here! Planning and coordinating weddings and events is a dream come true for me and something I do not take lightly. It is a true honor and privilege to be a part of the most important day of your lives. At Before the Vows, our mission is to make each and every one of our couples feel heard, celebrated and loved. Every wedding is “opening night “ for us, meaning that we handle each wedding with the utmost attention and care. The genuine connections we form with our couples are what drive our business and make us love what we do.

Awarded Best of Zola
I don’t know how anyone could get married without Jenny and her team! From our very first meeting her enthusiasm and love of weddings was clear. Before the Vows provided professional and knowledgeable coordination service for our wedding day. Jenny and her team did everything in their power to bring all our visions to reality for the big day. Their communication was quick, clear, and efficient throughout the planning process, which we greatly appreciated during an often hectic time. They created a detailed timeline that was easy for everyone to follow (tailored to bridal party and vendors) and took on communicating with all vendors so we could focus on other details. This level of service and organization was extremely valuable in making our day truly magical. On the day itself, Before the Vows handled all vendor relationships and troubleshooting so we could relax and enjoy celebrating with friends and family. I could truly relax and enjoy the day knowing the BTV team would be able to handle any issues that arose. We'd highly recommend their timely, professional services to other couples planning their big day.
Rebekah S., 3 months ago
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Jason Mitchell Kahn & Co. 

5.0

New York, NY
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $10,000

Jason Mitchell Kahn and his team plan weddings for brides, grooms and those who don't identify with titles. Jason began working full time as a wedding planner after the 2014 launch of his new book GETTING GROOMED: THE ULTIMATE WEDDING PLANNER FOR GAY GROOMS, published by Chronicle Books. He's been featured in the NY Times and Brides Magazine has named him one of the Best Planners in the country. Jason brings to weddings his passion for drama honed from his career and education in theatre. Jason approaches all weddings with his playwriting background: What is the couple’s version of their most beautiful story to be told?

Awarded Best of Zola
Jason was a pleasure to work with from start to finish. Professional, comforting when needed (and it is needed!), practical, experienced....really the whole 9 yards. My wife and I cannot recommend him enough...If you have the opportunity to work with Jason, you should!
matthew s., 2 years ago
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Love & Laughter Weddings 

5.0

Philadelphia, PA
  • Offers 5 services
  • Starts at $2,000

At Love & Laughter Weddings, we specialize in curating luxurious, effortless experiences for discerning couples. With over 20 years of collective expertise, our bilingual team is committed to crafting bespoke weddings that embody sophistication and ease. We proudly serve an elite clientele across our primary locations in Philadelphia, New York City, San Francisco, San Diego, Denver, Washington DC, Puerto Rico, and beyond.

Awarded Best of Zola
We hired Evelyn as our wedding coordinator and she far exceeded our expectations. She made us feel relaxed during the planning process and efficiently communicated everything she needed. When it came to the day of our wedding, she was punctual and on top of everything, never hesitant to get something done so that we didn't have to worry at all. Our wedding was a blast, we the smoothness with which it operated was all thanks to Evelyn's professionalism and efficiency. We couldn't recommend her enough!
Tres F., a month ago
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The Coordinated Collective 

5.0

Arlington, VA
  • Offers 2 services
  • Starts at $2,200

Working out of Arlington, VA, the Coordinated Collective provides day-of coordination for couples who have otherwise organized their own wedding. Aiding couples in the District of Columbia, Eastern Pennsylvania, Maryland, and Virginia, the women of this company have a wealth of knowledge and experience organizing weddings in all sorts of venues and design. Owned by Ja’el Mendez, this team of experts brings the final touch needed to make sure you get hitched without a glitch! The initial planning is done by the clients, meaning that couples choose their own vendors and have the freedom to design their own wedding.

Awarded Best of Zola
I would highly recommend the Coordinated Collective. Katie was incredible from start to finish. We could not have done it without her organization, patience, thoughtfulness and consistent communication. She was always calm, helpful, thought of all the questions we didn't know to ask and managed everything beautifully on the day. I would recommend these folks to anyone.
Morgan K., a year ago
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Just A Girl Events 

5.0

Providence, RI
  • Offers 6 services
  • Starts at $1,500
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Just a Girl Events, helmed by seasoned industry expert Charlene DeLuca, brings over 25 years of full-service event planning experience to clients across New England. Based in Providence, RI, our mission is to transform your dreams into reality while eliminating the stress of planning. With a focus on seamless execution and personalized service, we ensure that every event is not just memorable, but also enjoyable for our clients. Let us handle the details while you enjoy the excitement of bringing your vision to life. We plan, you party.

Awarded Best of Zola
I worked with Charlene on an event and the second we spoke I knew it would be a match made in heaven for this event. Making my job easy is from the detailed event timeline and layouts. Was super easy to work with adjusting the layout of my gear for best performance. Made sure that I was taken care of as far as food and beverages throughout the night. If you could imagine a perfect event, Charlene made it happen! Let’s work again!
Ricky , a year ago
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DMV Weddings and Events 

5.0

Frederick, MD
  • Offers 3 services
  • Starts at $1,900

DMV Weddings and Events specializes in wedding and event planning in the DC Maryland and Virginia area. I work hard for each of my clients, helping them plan and host their upcoming event free of stress and with confidence. Whether planning a magnificent Wedding, an entertaining Corporate Event, or a get together or party that you want to be fabulous and run without a hitch get in touch to learn more about my services.

Awarded Best of Zola
The team was incredible and pivotal to making our day run successfully. Maddie was so easy to work with and communicated so well and fast. She has such a great relationship with vendors in Frederick which made it so seamless. Rachel handled our wedding day of and she was awesome! She was so on top of everything which allowed my wedding day to be relaxing, fun, and stress free. We are so grateful for the team and couldn't be happier with the way our wedding turned out!
Francesca M., 3 months ago
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Oasis Coordination 

5.0

Philadelphia, PA
  • Offers 2 services
  • Starts at $2,500

Hi! I’m thrilled that you found Oasis and I know you won’t regret it. Working alongside new friends to make their event run smoothly is one of my favorite things in the world. Since 2019 (officially), I have had the privilege of working with the best families and couples to run seamless events, and helping others is my absolute joy. Let’s get to know each other!

Awarded Best of Zola
Where do I begin with the Oasis team… From the initial video chat to the day of our wedding, I knew Oasis was the perfect fit for us and our big day. Leading up to the wedding, Jewell's calm demeanor helped me to relax and focus on what was important. She created a realistic and helpful timeline, communicated with the vendors, and toured the venue to understand my day of vision. On the day of our wedding, Jewell and her amazing team (Becky and Margot) made sure every little detail went as planned. I have been told countless times that despite there always being hiccups on a wedding day, ours was seamless. Thanks to the Oasis team, we had the best day and were able to focus on what mattered. They dealt with vendors, created timelines, set-up and cleaned up, helped zip-up dresses.. You name it and the team was there to help. Although I originally did not budget for a coordinator, I am BEYOND glad I found a way to have them. I have recommended Jewell and her team to all new brides and will continue to do so. I am eternally grateful for Oasis and the team and I can't thank you enough for helping to make it the best day ever!
Peggy B., 2 years ago
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Dream Co. Weddings & Events 

5.0

Valencia, CA
  • Offers 7 services
  • Starts at $1,000

(Formerly Weddings & Events Made Easy) If you don't know how or where to begin wedding or event planning , don't worry! If COVID has taught us anything, it's how to plan a wedding on a budget, birthdays during a pandemic, parties over the internet, and more. We'll give you the tools you need at an affordable price. Offering virtual and in-person services. Our wedding and event planning is local, discounted, and customized. We’re her to support you during a stressful time in life. We’ve got you!

Awarded Best of Zola
We chose Lullette Kaufman for our big day. She handled everything from ceremony mics, event layout and positioning suggestions for the dance floor, helping select songs, and of course the wedding toasts. We played a mix of jazz standards, Motown, oldies, and some modern hits. Lullette hit the nail on the head with all of them and knew how to read the crowd. Thank you L, highly recommend!
Sean M., 19 days ago

About wedding planners

How much does a wedding planner cost?

On average, a full-service wedding planner can cost between $3,000 and $10,000. It depends on where you live and where you’re getting married. Planners in areas with high costs of living, like New York City and San Francisco, may charge upwards of $20,000. If you’re having a destination wedding, consider using a planner local to the area—you’ll avoid paying extra for travel, accommodations, and meals. Day-of coordinators cost less. They may have a flat fee between $1,000 and $5,000, or charge hourly. Always ask about pricing up front so nothing comes as a surprise later.

What do wedding planners do?

Think of wedding planners as jack-of-all-trades experts when it comes to weddings. Many offer different levels of service to meet your needs. If you just want day-of coordination, for example, your planner will be there to make sure your ceremony and reception go off without a hitch. This may mean setting up vendors or directing your wedding party and guests to make sure everyone is where they need to be at the right time. On the other end of the spectrum, full-service planning may involve:

  • Starting the planning far in advance
  • Budget management
  • Coordinating with your venue
  • Recommending vendors and negotiating contracts
  • Staying on top of trends and making suggestions
  • Ironing out all-important last-minute details
  • Running interference with family members if conflict arises
  • Making a schedule and ensuring everything runs smoothly
  • Executing on your vision, from the rehearsal dinner to the reception

Should we get a wedding planner?

Planners are great resources and can make planning your wedding much less stressful. If you’ve got the budget, a wedding planner is well worth the investment. Planners offer different service levels at varying price points. Choose the amount of help and cost that makes the most sense for you. At the bare minimum, you need someone (hired or delegated) to help manage the event day-of so you will be able to enjoy yourselves without worrying about too many logistics. If you decide to enlist a friend or family member to take on this role, keep in mind that this person will need to prioritize your needs over their own, and will no longer be attending or enjoying the wedding simply as a guest.