Lodge and Retreat Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

Lodge and Retreat Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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Ashling Acres 

5.0

Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,900

When you get married at Ashling, you get the entire property to yourself. From your rehearsal to your day-after brunch, it's all yours. We handle the tent, tables, chairs, and bathroom trailer. Plus we have a wedding coordinator on-site for you, along with unique accommodations for 20 people. You choose your caterer and DJ, and we make it happen.

Ashling Acres is one of my favorite properties to cater at. From the professionalism of the owners, to the stunning grounds and views it never disappoints. The lodging and amenities are first class and very well thought out. I highly recommend!
Michael Latreille, 2 months ago
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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 230 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills mountains. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouse ​onsite ​is a gorgeously appointed sanctuary for you and your family, and sleeps up to 20 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews. Blenheim is located a little over 2.5 hours from NYC.

Blenheim Hill Farm went above and beyond to make our wedding day truly unforgettable. The setting was absolutely beautiful, with the rustic charm and natural surroundings adding a magical touch to the celebration. The staff was incredibly responsive, always there to address any concerns promptly. One thing we truly appreciated was the attention to detail shown by the team. From the decor setup to the meticulous care in service, everything felt personalized and tailored to our vision. The food provided by Blenheim Hill Farm was nothing short of incredible. Our guests raved about the delicious and artfully presented dishes - especially the chicken appetizer. The menu was well thought out, offering a diverse selection that satisfied every palate. We couldn't have been happier with how everything turned out. Another aspect that stood out was the seamless coordination between the various vendors involved in our special day. It made the planning process much smoother and ensured that every element came together seamlessly. We highly recommend Blenheim Hill Farm for any couple looking for a picturesque venue with top-notch service and fabulous food. Our wedding day was truly made perfect by their dedication and professionalism.
Martha A., 7 days ago
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Windham Manor 

5.0

Windham, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Windham Manor is a breathtaking new wedding venue located in the beautiful Catskill mountain town of Windham, NY. Our serene 45-acre property features a beautiful, newly renovated twelve bedroom Victorian mansion, which can accommodate up to 24 overnight guests. The stunning home features an on-site gym; spa; full service kitchen; ADA accommodations; private bathrooms; incredible views; and more. It's the perfect space for a welcome reception, rehearsal dinner, brunch, or a small wedding. The property also boasts a newly-constructed luxury reception barn, which can hold up to 300 guests for dinner and dancing. It features a covered patio overlooking a small waterfall and pond; a large bar area; a bridal suite; a stone fireplace; and so much more. The space includes farm tables and chairs. Should you choose to hold your wedding ceremony indoors, the barn is the perfect space. We also offer various outdoor ceremony locations throughout the property - one more beautiful than the next!

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Windham Manor was the perfect wedding venue for us! Susan and Barry (the owners) were incredibly responsive and went above and beyond to make our day absolutely perfect. I was nervous about everything being in done in time (we were one of the first weddings) but the barn and surrounding area looked absolutely perfect and all of our guests said it was the most beautiful wedding they had ever been to. Having the house on site was the perfect place to get ready and everything ran so smoothly! We were able to host the day after brunch at the house as well. Our photographs of the wedding are amazing and we will always remember our special day at Windham Manor. We highly recommend Windham Manor to any engaged couple looking for the venue of their dreams!
Brittany and B., 3 years ago
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The Maples Estate 

5.0

Schoharie, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $31,500

Seriously awesome extended weekend weddings for unconventional, creative and adventurous couples! Why squeeze your wedding into one day when you can celebrate all weekend long in gorgeous upstate New York? With three full nights included in our wedding packages you have so much time to celebrate! We provide an extended wedding experience that allows our guests to immerse themselves into the weekend with a customized itinerary in a comfortable environment. We host all your wedding events in one place, so you never feel rushed and can wake up rested on your wedding day. Chances are you value quality relationships, love getting creative, exploring the outdoors, and enjoy meaningful experiences. You are likely pretty laid back and are looking for a space where you can fully enjoy your wedding with plenty of time to celebrate. You also want your guests to leave in awe of how awesome your wedding weekend was! Plan your destination wedding with us!

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I could go on endlessly about how amazing the Maples Estate, and Katie and Louis are but I’ll try to keep it brief! From our first interactions with Katie, which was via a virtual tour, my husband and I knew there was something special here. We immediately booked an in-person tour, and once we stepped foot on the property we knew this was where we would get married. The estate itself is stunningly unreal. In the middle of the mountains, beautiful views all around, wild flowers in abundance, a beautiful river, the pavilion is a dream, and so many options for your event locations - all of which are magical. Our wedding party stayed with us in the house and we all felt so comfortable. With 17 of us in total it was awesome to have the space to be together comfortably as we played games or shared a meal. The getting ready room is beautiful, it is a fun space to prepare in and the photos will be epic. We added on partial planning to our contract, so we worked with Katie throughout our wedding preparations. Katie is fantastic! She made us feel so comfortable, which made it easy to collaborate. Katie made our design board, every time I shared it with a vendor the response was “oh my gosh did you make this?!” Katie’s design skills are amazing, organization is on point, she is calm and quick to respond, and her list of vendors is expansive and everyone we worked with was just as amazing as Katie and Louis. If you are thinking about the Maples Estate, go for it! We had a wedding that was so uniquely us and that was because Katie and Louis gave us the space to do so. At every point Katie embraced our ideas, embraced our family and friends, and allowed our relationship to be reflected in an amazing weekend. We are so grateful and lucky to have found them! We are rooting for a couples reunion event or something so we can visit them soon.
Hannah, 10 months ago
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Gilbertsville Farmhouse 

5.0

South New Berlin, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $70,000

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

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Where do I even begin. I called Sharon at Gilbertsville Farmhouse 8 days after Dave proposed to me. I was a bride on a mission with a vision and I knew (even after just looking at pictures online), that this was the place that would host the most special weekend of our lives. Sharon - first and foremost thank you for absolutely everything. You have a vision for design like no other and a heart of gold that shines through. To say that we love you is an understatement and I feel like we will be family forever. (Me and dave will be back every year don’t you worry). Brandon…where do I even start with you!?! Thank you for dealing with my type A personality and excel sheets seamlessly. I don’t know why things happen the way they do but I know for a fact that you were supposed to be apart of our big weekend. Thank you will never justify how we feel about you and like I already told you l, I’m never deleted our group chat because we are in fact best friends. Every couple is lucky to have you and I thank god every single second for the over the top and outstanding emotional support you provided to us. (LOL) KATIE! You are just magic, this place would not be the same without you there. I don’t know how you do what you do with such ease but I truly smile at the thought of you. I don’t want to brag but one of my favorite moments (besides the little dress flashing) will be you walking me down the aisle. I don’t think many people will be able to say that and I am honored. Chef Dakota - I will never be the same after eating your masterpieces (yes masterpieces). Food brings people together and that is exactly what you did. (That salmon - I could just die). GFH team - my goodness I love you all so much. The wedding blues are worse than normal because your team is not normal they are EXTRAORDINARY people. I will never forget this weekend and all the hard work you put into it to make sure our day was perfect, regardless of the weather. Maggie and Duke, I miss you more than you know. We love you all so much. Brides and grooms don’t hesitate on this magical place. RAIN OR SHINE they show up and show out for you. I literally walked down the aisle in the rain and I couldn’t have imagined it any other way. Side note: Queen Victoria - I’ve only seen a snippet of the photos you took and if they were the only ones I ever got I would die happy. Family forever. The Sampsons
Alexandra M., a year ago
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The Barrack's Inn 

5.0

Sackets Harbor, NY
  • Up to 230 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

We are an upscale wedding venue with both inside and outside seating located directly on picturesque Lake Ontario with our 1600 square foot dock over it. The Barrack’s Inn stone center building was the first building built in the War of 1812 to be the bakery. It is on the historic national register. Inside we can seat 150 people, while outside we can seat an additional 100 people. We are happy to make any and all food requests and we feature all-inclusive packages which include: flowers, table decorating, music, photography, cake and desserts, ceremony, favors and all food and beverages.

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The Barracks Inn strives to provide the most personalized, professional, and phenomenal service to everyone who has the privilege of working with them. Kim is absolutely committed to work alongside her customers to create events which reflect them all in a beautiful and distinctive way. She is an artist in her field and crafts an atmosphere that is a picture perfect depiction of every group. She and her staff treat every single person as if they were family, and you can really feel the love she puts into her work. Her generosity never fails to amaze me, as she will spend countless hours working alongside clients in order to understand exactly what they want, going to any lengths to create it for them. She truly works to learn about her customers, and make anyone’s dream come true. When discussing events with each other, she always has a twinkle in her eye that makes me so proud to be able to work with someone so passionate and devoted to making other people happy. Any couple, family, or group thereof will share in this pride alongside me to create memories they will cherish for a lifetime.
Moments By Mary, 2 years ago
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Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel 

5.0

Watkins Glen, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Imagine yourself celebrating with family & friends at one of the most picturesque locations in the Finger Lakes, where exquisite catering and meticulous service combine to create magical, memorable events. Host an intimately-scaled outdoor wedding on our lushly landscaped waterfront patio with the sun setting over Seneca Lake as your backdrop. Or celebrate in sophisticated style in our elegant Harbor Ballroom. Our professional wedding consultant will make sure that no detail is overlooked and will advise on the array of delicious dining options, from plated sit-down dinners to elaborate buffets. A professional wedding consultant guides the process every step of the way, from choosing the perfect blooms to selecting from various priced menu options. The hotels' expansive landscaped waterfront grounds and elegant interiors lend themselves to on-site ceremonies and extended celebrations making for true destination weddings.

Aside from the beauty of the lake and the hotel, this place did it all for us. Any extra things we wanted for the wedding or reception just needed to be dropped off and the event coordinators took care of the rest. The coordinator we met with was great with communication through email. We really enjoyed our dinner tasting - the food was amazing! The coordinators made the day run so smoothly. The room for the cocktail hour was set up wonderfully. Table settings are included with the package and the candles looked perfect. We felt secure in knowing we could easily move the ceremony inside with any weather concerns. The landscaping/greenery is so well taken care of, it looked fantastic for our ceremony outside on the patio. The hotel staff set up, serve, and clean up - it made for a very relaxing weekend. Our hotel room was incredible also. The hotel was generous with leaving little surprises and gifts for us when we arrived to our room. It was all worth the price.
Emily C., 10 months ago
Forest Lake Camp 

5.0

Chestertown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

When you decide to celebrate your wedding with us, you will have a 823-acre property, 25 acre private lake, 20 miles of private hiking and biking trails, the athletic fields and all camp buildings exclusively available to you and your guests, you also have the beauty and majesty of the Adirondack Park surrounding you. Located an hour north of Albany and just a 10 minute drive from either the south or north exit on I-87 we are perfectly located for your guests to find but also hidden away at the end of a private road, giving you a secluded, private experience. Plus you have the opportunity to design how you will spend your time on the property.

Our wedding weekend at FLC: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZQxgrn833c | Getting married at Forest Lake Camp was the best decision we've ever made! We wanted to get married in the mountains, but still have a full wedding reception with our friends and family and a rocking band (The New York Players). FLC gave us the ability to have it all -- and over an entire weekend! We kicked off our wedding weekend with a relay race down at the lake (highly recommend this as an ice breaker! Our guests were all friendly by the time we made it to the Friday BBQ.) Chapel View was absolutely stunning for our ceremony site and the dining hall looked beautiful for dinner. We rented a tent for the band and dance floor on the patio and had the time of our lives dancing and celebrating all night. The afterparty location at the dance pavilion was perfect as well. We brought in a wood fired pizza truck (Orapello's) that kept everyone fed and happy until the late, late hours of the night. It's the absolute perfect spot for an outdoorsy couple with friends and family that are ready to embrace the adventure of a rustic setting and nontraditional venue. We loved it all. Also, Carlos is a superhero -- I don't think that man slept a wink our entire weekend. We are so grateful for the whole staff & can't wait to return for alumni weekend for years to come!
Heather, 2 years ago
Anne's Washington Inn 

5.0

Saratoga Springs, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

We are excited you are considering Anne’s Washington Inn as a potential venue for your celebration! Situated on four acres, conveniently set amid the arts, culture and natural beauty that define Saratoga Springs, Anne's Washington Inn is the perfect setting for weddings, rehearsal dinners, and bridal brunches. Consisting of two Victorian country houses, with a total of 18 overnight rooms, our accommodations welcome and pamper your guests. Victorian decor with traditional accents follow you throughout bright, cheery rooms enhanced by antique furnishings, fluffy comforters, tapestries, sparkling mirrors and sunny windows. The key to your wonderful weekend is that when you reserve our dining room, grounds and all 18 guest rooms, you and your family and friends are the only people at the inn, giving you exclusive use of our venue.

As a floral designer working in and around Saratoga NY I am always thrilled when a bride tells me they have selected Anne's Washington Inn as their wedding venue. Why you ask? Because they do weddings right! Conveniently located in charming Saratoga Springs AWI oozes warmth and hospitality. Genuine hospitality, that extends past the patrons to the vendors as well. I sure sign of true professionalism! Big enough to accommodate and small enough to care AWI will not disappoint. Come experience the charm! -Roxanne Branches and Blooms Floral Design
Roxanne, 2 years ago
Greek Peak Mountain Resort 

5.0

Cortland, NY
  • Up to 280 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in a majestic mountain valley, Greek Peak Mountain Resort is the perfect location for a wedding in any season. We offer various settings to make your day just as you imagined, whether it is Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall. Do you envision your day in an elegant wedding tent? Greek Peak has a brand new elegant wedding tent situated in beautiful picturesque surroundings. Would you prefer an indoor reception? We have a ballroom complete with a veranda on our mountain side. If your vision is an outdoor ceremony by a lake, we have that as well. Whether you imagine a winter wonderland wedding, or a wedding amidst beautiful autumn colors, or one surrounded by the beautiful green hills of the region, Greek Peak Mountain Resort has it all. Your wedding day should be everything you dreamed of! At Greek Peak Mountain Resort, we will help you design and customize what you have always imagined for your perfect wedding day.

I never would have thought about having my wedding here, at a "ski resort." We are not skiers. What drew me here was a picture!! The inside of the Tent (seasonal location) was breath taking!! We were scrolling and clicking on EVERY venue listed. NOTHING had that "oh la la" appeal. My FH went to bed and I kept looking. Then, I came upon GP. The next evening I showed him and he said, "If you want it then let's make an appointment!" So I reached out and left a message. The Wedding Events Coordinator (Chelsea) got back to me in a timely manner and we set up a meeting. She showed us around to their other locations on site. Then we went into the Tent. And it was ABSOULTELY BREATH TAKING when we were inside!! It was definitely LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!!!!! Chelsea talked to us about what GP has to offer, as far as wedding packages, etc. We booked GP by the end of 2021; and we just got married last month! In order to have your date, the venue and at the exact location on premises you want- you need to book ASAP!! Chelsea is an EXTREMELY busy woman with a lot on her plate!! I do think she needs an assistant especially around wedding season!! Lol!!! Chelsea does a wonderful job by herself, even though she does have a "team" that does wonders too!! She helped us through the whole process and gave some personal insight. She's very thorough with every single detail. She was AWESOME to talk to, deal with and plan with!!!! The food was AMAZING!!! Our guests couldn't stop raving about their appetizers during cocktail hour, the main meal for the reception (we picked out Country Side Glam Buffet), their cocktails, their rooms, and just the ATMOSPHERE itself is enough! The staff also plans meals for food allergies- a lot of other venues don't cater to this! Inside the Tent, it didn't feel like you were in a Tent. Don't judge a book by it's cover! Lol! We were the only wedding there on our day, so that definitely made it feel more special and enjoyable! We enjoyed working with Chelsea, the staff and Greek Peak!! The prices were extremely affordable! Some of my family and guests didn't REALLY want to travel 1.5 hours (minimum). After the wedding, they understood why we chose to have our wedding at Greek Peak. We, our families and friends, and other guests would HIGHLY RECOMMEND GREEK PEAK for a wedding, a getaway, a honeymoon. You name it!! Thank you so much Chelsea, Greek Peak's staff & Greek Peak!!!!! Our Wedding Day was PERFECT!!!!!!!!
Heather H., a year ago

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How much do wedding venues typically cost in De Ruyter, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. De Ruyter, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $4,500 and average $5,000. All-inclusive packages start at $1,500 and average $7,500.

What types of venues can I find in De Ruyter, NY?

De Ruyter offers a wide range of venues, including Hotel and resort, Ballroom and Barn and ranch.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in De Ruyter, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include Hayloft on the Arch, The Lincklaen House and Curtis Manor Oswego NY. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in De Ruyter, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (74% in De Ruyter do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (77% in De Ruyter do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in De Ruyter, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 450. The average venue in De Ruyter can seat 130 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in De Ruyter, NY offer?

The venues in De Ruyter, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Clean up, Set up and Wi-Fi. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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