The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills mountains. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouse ​onsite ​is a gorgeously appointed sanctuary for you and your family, and sleeps up to 20 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews. Blenheim is located a little over 2.5 hours from NYC.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Our wedding at Blenheim Hill was nothing short of amazing. From the moment we went on our first venue tour to wedding weekend, the staff of Blenheim Hill was communicative, professional and organized. The roadmap they use is a great resource that helps keep you organized through the wedding planning process. We loved having a full weekend at the farm. The service, hospitality, food and drinks were amazing. We dealt with a rainy wedding day and the staff worked with us to ensure a perfect ceremony and reception. We could not have asked for more!
Meaghen D., 3 months ago
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Hayloft on the Arch 

5.0

Vernon Center, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

At Hayloft on the Arch we are more than just a DIY venue. We offer extensive coordinating with any package you choose. That means, throughout your planning process we are here to call on with any questions regarding vendors, the timeline, the floor plan of your event, etc. And the day of? Aunt Suzie can rest - we have it all under control! You drop off your decor & we set it up to your specifications. We are on site from the first person who arrives until the end of the event & your belongings are repackaged, making sure your day runs smooth & on schedule.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Requires outside catering services
Alisha was so helpful in making our day perfect. She did most of the set up and all of the tear down! The venue is breath taking, you will not regret getting married here!
Calista A., 6 months ago
Arlington Acres 

5.0

Lafayette, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

We're more than just a wedding venue. When you choose Arlington Acres, you're continuing the 150 year tradition of creating memories on our family farm. From your first tour, you'll notice the difference in the care, passion and personal attention we provide all our couples.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had our wedding at Arlington Acres and couldn't have been happier with the venue and staff. Katie and her team were extremely responsive throughout the planning process, answering all our questions thoroughly and creatively troubleshooting any issues that came up. Their communication style made wedding planning feel effortless. The rustic open space allowed us flexibility in decorating and arranging the event exactly how we envisioned. Katie went above and beyond day-of to make sure everything ran smoothly so my husband and I could relax and enjoy our special day. By the end, the Arlington Acres staff felt like family, contributing so much warmth and care. We highly recommend this venue for couples wanting a beautiful, rustic setting with accommodating, detail-oriented coordinators devoted to creating your perfect wedding.
Amanda C., 6 months ago
Greek Peak Mountain Resort 

5.0

Cortland, NY
  • Up to 280 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in a majestic mountain valley, Greek Peak Mountain Resort is the perfect location for a wedding in any season. We offer various settings to make your day just as you imagined, whether it is Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall. Do you envision your day in an elegant wedding tent? Greek Peak has a brand new elegant wedding tent situated in beautiful picturesque surroundings. Would you prefer an indoor reception? We have a ballroom complete with a veranda on our mountain side. If your vision is an outdoor ceremony by a lake, we have that as well. Whether you imagine a winter wonderland wedding, or a wedding amidst beautiful autumn colors, or one surrounded by the beautiful green hills of the region, Greek Peak Mountain Resort has it all. Your wedding day should be everything you dreamed of! At Greek Peak Mountain Resort, we will help you design and customize what you have always imagined for your perfect wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Provides catering services
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Greek Peak Mountain Resort (The Lookout) was an excellent choice for our wedding venue. The staff was incredibly organized, thorough, and knowledgeable throughout the entire planning process. They offered to handle almost everything for us, from providing their own decor to setting up items we brought in. On the day of the wedding, the staff was amazing - they constantly checked in to ensure we had everything we needed and even cleaned up and organized our belongings for us to take home the next day. The venue itself was beautiful, and the service we received was top-notch. We are so grateful to the team at Greek Peak Mountain Resort for helping make our wedding day perfect.
Jessica G., 3 months ago
Harvest Moon 

5.0

Smithville Flats, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,800

The Black Barn is where the forest will write your love story. A stunning black barn surrounded by 45 acres of old world forest. A rustic gathering pavilion, three glamping sites and luxury RV. Moss, Firefly's and wildflowers just add to the experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Awarded Best of Zola
Cassandra and her team at Harvest Moon Venue went above and beyond to make our wedding day perfect. From start to finish, Cassandra was professional, friendly, thoughtful and caring, ensuring every detail was attended to. The venue offers endless possibilities for a breathtaking and memorable event. Cassandra decorated our glamping site so romantically with champagne, gorgeous wood signs with our names, and more special touches. She was overly accommodating, confirming everything was ideal for us throughout the process. The venue itself provided a gorgeous, natural backdrop for our special day. We couldn't have asked for more and highly recommend Harvest Moon Venue to any couple searching for the perfect wedding location.️️️
Helen B., 5 months ago
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Ashling Acres 

5.0

Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,900

When you get married at Ashling, you get the entire property to yourself. From your rehearsal to your day-after brunch, it's all yours. We handle the tent, tables, chairs, and bathroom trailer. Plus we have a wedding coordinator on-site for you, along with unique accommodations for 20 people. You choose your caterer and DJ, and we make it happen.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
The highlight of Ashling Acres is that its undoubtedly meticulously maintained to perfection. It's the epitome of elegance and versatility, capable of transforming any occasion into an unforgettable experience. It's not just its breathtaking aesthetics but also the impeccable service and seamless planning process. The owners are a dream to work with, embodying professionalism, warmth, and genuine care every step of the way. Their dedication to ensuring that every detail is executed flawlessly is evident in every interaction, making the entire planning journey a stress-free and enjoyable experience.
Home Town Events, 8 months ago
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Wolf Oak Acres 

5.0

Oneida, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,450

Our private climate controlled and handicap accessible 8,000sf venue is set amid rolling green pastures, and intoxicating vistas of the rolling hills, streams, waterfalls, and meadows. Enjoy the fresh air and pristine views from 206 acres nestled on the banks of the Cowasselon Creek, in Madison County’s picturesque countryside. ​​ Our spectacular setting will give you uniquely creative photo opportunities, as well as, a one-of-a-kind destination that offers you complete privacy for your next gathering. It offers the perfect backdrop for your intimate ceremony, reception, shower, corporate picnic, wedding or other celebratory event, along with an unforgettable experience. ​​ ​Pairing romance and charm with simple luxuries and privacy, the estate will offer a secluded slice of paradise. We look forward to sharing the special spirit of our land with you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
I'm a wedding photographer that works multiple times a year with Katrina and Russ at Wolf Oak Acres. Not only is their barn and property absolutely gorgeous, but they're one of my very favorite venues to work with and at. They are such kind people and I've observed them many times bending over backwards for their couples to help them out. They've also bent over backwards for us as photographers. If the barn and property are what you envision for your wedding, don't look any further. You'll have the whole package deal with Katrina and Russ!
H Hawkins Photography, 4 years ago
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Gilbertsville Farmhouse 

5.0

South New Berlin, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $70,000

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
I will never have the words to accurately describe what our wedding weekend at Gilbertsville was like. To say it was a dream would be an understatement. First things first, we booked this place in the dead of winter - like actual snow on the ground - because even without knowing what it looks like in season we knew it was unreal. From then on, the process leading up to our wedding was nothing short of pleasant and exciting. The team - Sharon and Gina - are extremely responsive and never make you feel like your questions are too small or trivial, they understand how important the day is to you and are in the process with you. Our tasting with Shane and his team was just another incredible day that solidified we made the right choice. I've been to plenty of weddings but Gilbertsville's food is so spectacular and nowhere near just the typical churned out wedding chicken and steak. Then our wedding weekend came and we never wanted it to end. The property itself it's just so incredible, even the adults were reverting to childhood when they saw all the animals and the glamping tents. Katie and George took such good care of us throughout the weekend and were always positive, happy, helpful and matched our vibe of just being in a good mood. I truly don't have enough good things to say about this place as a wedding, or the people who work here. HUGE shoutout to Gina, Sharon, Katie, George, Shane and everyone else who gave us a memory we'll never forget. HAVE YOUR WEDDING HERE
Lindsay, 2 years ago
Dutch Harvest Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Dutch Harvest Farm sits on 50 picturesque acres along the east side of the Cayuga Lake Wine Trail (Route 34B) in Lansing, NY. The Farm is bordered by tall mature trees that create a wooded-wonderland but not to be out done by the cascading falls running the length of the property into Cayuga Lake. We are conveniently located only 15 minutes from downtown Ithaca, the Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport (ITH) and an hour from Syracuse Hancock International Airport (SYR). ​ Our 7,000+ square foot event barn offers many layout options that let you design the event your way. The barn can comfortably seat 280+ people inside for a reception and there is no need for a tent with plenty of ceremony options such as the enclosed loft, attached porches, custom pavilion or our lavish gardens. You have plenty of layout options - it's your day, plan it your way! ***Date availability, pricing information or tour requests must be submitted on our website***

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Requires outside catering services
Awarded Best of Zola
I have had the pleasure of photographing at the Dutch Harvest Farm and it is such a beautiful backdrop for a wedding. The barn is so spacious and perfect for any wedding or event. Laura has been so helpful and accommodating, and I look forward to working here more in the future.
Danielle, 4 years ago
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Osmica at Spring Trail Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

As the premiere sustainable wedding venue in the Finger Lakes, we focus on creating unforgettable memories for you and your guests, AND being kind to the planet. We truly believe that you can leave a small footprint on your big day. We provide a bespoke experience for all of our couples. We strive to support your vision, while helping you navigate the logistics. You will have exclusive use of the rustically elegant barn, farmhouse and land during your rental period, and we will be by your side the whole weekend to help manage your vendors and address any concerns. We are not a wedding factory! We host a limited number of weddings each season, so we can give your event the attention it deserves. Our stunning countryside views and historic farm buildings offer unique opportunities to create a charming and inviting venue for an intimate gathering or lavish event only a short drive outside of Ithaca, NY. Let us capture your imagination and help make your event dream a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Highly recommended ! We are so over the moon happy that we were able to celebrate our rehearsal dinner at Osmica farm for a little over 100 guests. Can’t say enough wonderful things about our experience! Our families were so impressed by the natural, rustic and inviting feel of the farm! The owners, Allie and Kurt were truly a joy to work with! They were so responsive and helped us so beautifully plan every detail of our day! They helped us with our table decorations, beautiful flower arrangements and other rentals! The list of the vendors they provided were also so nice and responsive and easy to work with. They truly made our experience completely stress free! The farm has the most stunning sunset and lots of space indoors and outdoors for kids and adults to enjoy lawn games. And the most meaningful thing is that Allie and Kurt were so friendly and introduced themselves to our guests, everyone loved them. They were available and ready to help from the first to the last minute. We will definitely visit and stay at their beautiful bed and breakfast in the future.
Negar T., 3 months ago
The White Gazebo Inn of the Finger Lakes 

5.0

Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

One of the most distinctive historic properties in the Finger Lakes, the former White Gazebo Inn B&B, is now open for seasonal events, celebrations and Weddings! This historic regional property is an ideal setting for bridal showers, weddings, and receptions! The White Gazebo is home to an original Victorian gazebo built in 1853, as well as a picturesque period barn, sprawling pastures, and quiet woodland privacy. The regal, historic home includes a private terrace and patio for gathering and reception cuisine, and extensive grounds for walking, or just sitting and sipping wine and enjoying the bounty of the Finger Lakes. Flowers bloom all around! The Inn is a charming, cozy historic home with a recent addition with key amenities- It sleeps 10-12 with a Master Bedroom suite, a cozy family room, and a utility room perfect for staging. The upstairs has two bedrooms and a shared bathroom with windows facing the historic gazebo. The Inn is negotiable with a wedding or reception booking.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Has a warm and cozy vibe
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
The White Gazebo Inn holds a special place for us. I was at the time the greeter for Christine and hosted the wedding event for my son. The property is a lovely fit for a small wedding. We found it to be the perfect spot for our special day.
Terri E., 3 years ago
Izzo's White Barn Winery 

5.0

Cayuga, NY
  • Up to 135 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Izzo's White Barn Winery is a family owned and operated, New York State licensed farm winery. We are located in beautiful Upstate New York, between Syracuse and Rochester in the award-winning Finger Lakes Wine Region. At Izzo's you have the benefit of holding your private event not only at a winery but also in our rustic one-hundred-year-old barn. The “White Barn” is a blank canvas and flourishes between late May and early October. With the options that we offer we have the flexibility and staff to meet your unique needs. We're excited to work with you and help bring your vision to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
We had our wedding at Izzos this past weekend and it was absolutely perfect. Emily helped us plan for over a year, answered every question I had and recommended a lot of my local vendors. We arrived the day before and she let us set up the whole barn/ space to our liking. She let us customize everything and worked with our timeline. She really went above and beyond for our 100 person wedding. Our guests say it was the most fun they have ever had. She really took care of us and i would highly recommend Izzos for your wedding... also the wine is REALLY good.
Julie C., 3 months ago
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Miles of Love 
Mc Donough, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Are you looking for your dream wedding. A special place to also have your Birthday party, or Graduation. In the hills of western Chenango County, you will find the charming little town of McDonough, NY embraced by state forests, sprinkled with country homes and a perfect barn for your event. The 100-year-old barn maintains a truly unique feel and timeless history. It sits overlooking the natural rolling hills which is a flawless backdrop to any special event. This small farm is perfect for intimate events. The property has a variety of spaces to move between including the Barn, and the side field. This venue can serve a maximum occupancy of 100 of your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-premises lodging options
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Stoney Creek Castle 
Earlville, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Stoney Creek Castle is a family-owned wedding venue in Earlville, New York. This brand new venue is only 10 minutes away from Hamilton, the home of Colgate University and a short drive from Syracuse, Utica and Binghamton. This beautiful and magical place has so much to offer. The creek that runs next to the Castle adds charm to an intimate, romantic ceremony and cocktail hour. With both indoor and outdoor event spaces, Stoney Creek Castle is an ideal location for an unforgettable wedding celebration. The venue is equipped with central heating and cooling providing all season comfort for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has an intimate atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
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Heritage Barn at the Dunham Homestead 
Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,900

Rich in familial history, Heritage Barn at the Dunham Homestead is a wedding venue located in Hamilton, NY. The property stretches over 200 acres, featuring undulating hills that allow for panoramic views of Chenango Valley. You can set up an aisle of your own design and exchange your vows. It maintains its classic, rich wooden interior and features a high vaulted ceiling, giving it a distinctly hallowed aesthetic. Boasting a capacity of up to 300 guests, there is ample room for each of your loved ones.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house catering options
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The Orchards at Rocking Horse Farm 
Jamesville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Orchards barn is set in picturesque Jamesville, New York - located just 10 miles south of downtown Syracuse, New York. The Orchards barn is at the heart of a beautiful valley and was built with barn weddings and farm weddings in mind. With 150 acres of breathtaking landscapes, The Orchards property offers scenic country views, a pond, a tree farm, apple orchards, a gazebo and plenty of friendly horses, alpacas and mini donkeys to create the perfect backdrop for your barn wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Provides event staff
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not have a dance floor

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About wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in De Ruyter, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. De Ruyter, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $2,500 and average $5,000. All-inclusive packages start at $1,500 and average $7,500.

What types of venues can I find in De Ruyter, NY?

De Ruyter offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Hotel and resort and Barn and ranch.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in De Ruyter, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include Hayloft on the Arch, Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa and Curtis Manor Oswego NY. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in De Ruyter, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (74% in De Ruyter do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (76% in De Ruyter do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in De Ruyter, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 450. The average venue in De Ruyter can seat 130 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in De Ruyter, NY offer?

The venues in De Ruyter, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Clean up, Set up and Wi-Fi. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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