The Best All-Inclusive Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

The Best All-Inclusive Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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17 Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills mountains. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouse ​onsite ​is a gorgeously appointed sanctuary for you and your family, and sleeps up to 20 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews. Blenheim is located a little over 2.5 hours from NYC.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Our wedding at Blenheim Hill was nothing short of amazing. From the moment we went on our first venue tour to wedding weekend, the staff of Blenheim Hill was communicative, professional and organized. The roadmap they use is a great resource that helps keep you organized through the wedding planning process. We loved having a full weekend at the farm. The service, hospitality, food and drinks were amazing. We dealt with a rainy wedding day and the staff worked with us to ensure a perfect ceremony and reception. We could not have asked for more!
Meaghen D., 3 months ago
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The Otesaga Hotel (Cooperstown, NY) 
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Offer

Happily ever after begins at The Otesaga Resort Hotel. Celebrate together in a timeless setting with century-old oak trees and glistening crystal chandeliers. Soft moonlight on shimmering waters. Champagne and passed hors-d'oeuvres. Feel the undeniable romance of a luxurious lakeside wedding that's infused with sophistication and charm. Whether you're planning an intimate al fresco reception by the water or an opulent party in the ballroom. Your guests will know that they're in for a treat from the moment they arrive at our magnificent mansion, with soaring columns and an imposing front portico that exude majesty and grace. Be enchanted by moments of whimsy and delight: candid photos on the dance floor, stolen kisses on the waterfront, ice cream sandwiches on the Veranda. Come together with family and friends to honor true love with a celebration that's simply perfect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Blends luxury with trendiness

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
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The Lincklaen House 

5.0

Cazenovia, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

The Lincklaen House is a historic wedding venue and grand hotel in Cazenovia, New York. The space is an elegant and unique site that will create a romantic ambiance for your special day. The Lincklaen House has been a welcoming and comfortable venue for travelers and betrothed couples alike for over 180 years, even having housed President and Mrs. Grover Cleveland. Their experienced staff will make you feel at home, and the meals will leave you talking about them for years to come. The stunning architecture provides the perfect backdrop for photos, inside and outside. With a wedding at The Lincklaen House, your memories will last a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
My husband and I were married at the Lincklaen House in Cazenovia in August of 2018 and it was absolutely amazing! Such a fun experience! We worked with Carrie throughout the whole process and she was so accommodating when it came to us needing anything at all. The ease and guidance throughout the whole process allowed us to not worry about anything on our big day! We would 100% recommend the Lincklaen House to all of our friends!
Alyssa D., 4 years ago
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Gilbertsville Farmhouse 

5.0

South New Berlin, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $70,000

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Where do I even begin. I called Sharon at Gilbertsville Farmhouse 8 days after Dave proposed to me. I was a bride on a mission with a vision and I knew (even after just looking at pictures online), that this was the place that would host the most special weekend of our lives. Sharon - first and foremost thank you for absolutely everything. You have a vision for design like no other and a heart of gold that shines through. To say that we love you is an understatement and I feel like we will be family forever. (Me and dave will be back every year don’t you worry). Brandon…where do I even start with you!?! Thank you for dealing with my type A personality and excel sheets seamlessly. I don’t know why things happen the way they do but I know for a fact that you were supposed to be apart of our big weekend. Thank you will never justify how we feel about you and like I already told you l, I’m never deleted our group chat because we are in fact best friends. Every couple is lucky to have you and I thank god every single second for the over the top and outstanding emotional support you provided to us. (LOL) KATIE! You are just magic, this place would not be the same without you there. I don’t know how you do what you do with such ease but I truly smile at the thought of you. I don’t want to brag but one of my favorite moments (besides the little dress flashing) will be you walking me down the aisle. I don’t think many people will be able to say that and I am honored. Chef Dakota - I will never be the same after eating your masterpieces (yes masterpieces). Food brings people together and that is exactly what you did. (That salmon - I could just die). GFH team - my goodness I love you all so much. The wedding blues are worse than normal because your team is not normal they are EXTRAORDINARY people. I will never forget this weekend and all the hard work you put into it to make sure our day was perfect, regardless of the weather. Maggie and Duke, I miss you more than you know. We love you all so much. Brides and grooms don’t hesitate on this magical place. RAIN OR SHINE they show up and show out for you. I literally walked down the aisle in the rain and I couldn’t have imagined it any other way. Side note: Queen Victoria - I’ve only seen a snippet of the photos you took and if they were the only ones I ever got I would die happy. Family forever. The Sampsons
Alexandra M., 2 years ago
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Sky Armory 

5.0

Syracuse, NY
  • Up to 450 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Blending history with modernity. SKY Armory is an urban, chic venue in the heart of downtown Syracuse NY. Featuring three loft-style ballrooms that can accommodate events from 50-900 guests. Whether you’re planning a wedding, a gala, or a corporate event, we’ll take care of all the details. Our event teams work closely with our clients to create not just events, but experiences that are extraordinary and memorable. Each couple getting married at SKY Armory falls in love (pun intended) with how flexible we are with our event spaces. We like to say 'mi casa, su casa' because we want you to know that when you're in our home, it's your home and want your style reflected in all aspects of the celebration. Instead of saying 'no,' we find a way.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We can highly recommend Sky Armory as we've worked with them for two decades both onsite and offsite - they are committed event professionals.
Black Tie Entertainment, 2 years ago
John Joseph Inn 

5.0

Groton, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Welcome to the John Joseph Inn, where timeless elegance meets modern luxury in the heart of the Finger Lakes region. Named after founder John Hamilton, our estate boasts 110 acres of picturesque grounds. Whether an intimate gathering or grand celebration, our versatile spaces exude romance and sophistication. Our six luxurious inn room suites and cottage seamlessly blend classic charm with modern amenities, offering a serene escape amidst the scenic beauty of our estate. Renowned Chef John Joseph Hamilton curates wedding menus harmonizing creativity, flavor, and local flair. His culinary creations showcase a passion for innovation, exceeding expectations and reflecting your unique love story. With a commitment to exceptional service, the John Joseph Inn ensures a seamless wedding experience. From arrival to farewell, we create a warm and welcoming atmosphere, allowing you to savor every moment.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we first spoke with John at the John Joseph Inn, my husband and I felt incredibly cared for and supported. This was the first and only venue we visited when we first started planning and we knew right away this would be the place for our wedding day. John's thoughtful and flexible communication style put us at ease throughout the entire planning process. The stunning grounds and elegant venue felt like something out of a movie - the perfect backdrop for our special day. John and his team went the extra mile to incorporate every detail that was important to us, including working with us to build a custom menu that featured chicken from our family farm and custom desserts inspired by our mothers' recipes. The ability to have welcome cocktails and a day-after brunch all on the property allowed our guests, some of whom traveled a great distance, to spend more quality time celebrating with us. We also had plenty of kids attend, and they were having the time of their lives playing in the orchard throughout the wedding weekend. We are so grateful to the John Joseph Inn for helping to make our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Isidora, 3 months ago
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The Sherwood Inn 

5.0

Skaneateles, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Congratulations, and thank you for considering The Sherwood Inn for your special occasion! We offer service excellence and professionalism in a warm, friendly and uniquely beautiful setting in the heart of the village. The Sherwood Inn has been a popular venue for weddings for over two centuries. With its beautiful scenic views of Skaneateles Lake and its setting in the midst of the historic Village of Skaneateles, our beautifully restored colonial inn creates an idyllic setting for any wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
The Sherwood Inn was the perfect venue for our wedding day. The vintage, intimate setting provided a warm and cozy atmosphere that made our guests feel right at home. The staff was incredibly accommodating and helpful throughout the entire planning process, ensuring that every detail was just right. They truly know how to make a couple feel special and create an event that is tailored to the couple's unique style and personality. The value was also great, as the Sherwood Inn offered high-quality service and amenities at a reasonable price. We are so grateful to the Sherwood team for helping to make our wedding day so memorable.
Bri, 3 months ago
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Springside Inn 

5.0

Auburn, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Nestled in this rich, historic landscape, Springside Inn continues to offer the best of Finger Lakes' atmosphere and hospitality. Springside Inn is located across the road from the western shore of Owasco Lake, one of the Finger Lakes. Every event held at Springside Inn is guaranteed to be as unique and unforgettable as the couple being celebrated.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
I’m getting emotional just writing this, but Springside Inn truly made our wedding dreams come true. The facility itself is STUNNING and so versatile!!! We decided to have our ceremony in The Grove (beautiful outdoor area surrounded by trees) and our reception in the ballroom, but there are so many options and different ways to use the venue that no 2 weddings are alike. The rooms we got to stay in too are also absolutely gorgeous. Antique charm but state of the art amenities. I am not exaggerating when I say the food and cake were some of the best things I’ve ever eaten in my 29 years of existence. So customizable and delicious! The chef and catering staff are so nice and talented. And last by certainly NOT least…the site coordinator, Chris, is an absolute angel. As soon as we booked the venue, she guided us EVERY step of the way with planning. She is an absolute expert on all things wedding planning and ensured the day went so smoothly. She is such a calm presence and was so attentive, helpful, reassuring, and just overall one of the nicest human beings I’ve ever met!!! I feel like I will never be able to express my gratitude for her enough. Springside Inn is an absolute dream in every shape or form and I could not recommend them enough Love, Jacqui and James Married 9/28/24
Jacqui D., 3 months ago
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Inn At Taughannock Falls 

5.0

Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

This luxury boutique hotel overlooks Cayuga Lake and is just 9 miles from Ithaca, New York, in the heart of the Finger Lakes Wine Trail. The estate combines modern accommodations, private guest houses, and a majestic Victorian Inn next to one of the tallest waterfalls in the country. The Inn at Taughannock has three on-site wedding venues, including a new one-acre wedding garden. The wedding garden, named "Enchantment", has a 100' x 60' translucent sailcloth tent, a 42' alabaster bar, and a dry-stack stone fire place that it took four masons one year to build. In addition to these marvelous features there are also three fire-pits on site, one of which is cantilevered and hangs above the outer wall over looking Cayuga Lake. Our full service event planning team is ready to provide you with a concierge style service as they help you navigate every facet of the wedding planning journey. This all inclusive venue is the perfect location for the next piece of your history.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
As a photographer I love to work at the Inn at Taughannock. The setting alone is stunning with views of the lake, a historic inn and beautiful tented patio. The staff is always helpful and organized and their food is delicious. I would highly recommend hosting your wedding or event here.
Gerritsen Photography, 10 months ago
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Timber Banks Clubhouse 

5.0

Baldwinsville, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $12,000
  • Offer

Stunning ballroom nestled on a Jack Nicklaus designed golf course. Private cocktail hour location and covered balcony overlooking the 18th hole. On-site waterside ceremonies & inside location available. On-site bridal suite and options for your partner to get ready. Customized floor plans, multiple bar offerings, menus from plated, buffet & stations. Preferred vendor list for booked clients. Floor length linens & napkins in over 40 colors to choose from. Gold dust chiavari chairs, table numbers, card box, cake server & knife. Decor & signage rentals. On-site accommodations for bride & groom. On-site security & a smoke free facility. Allow one of our experienced event planners to take care of all your details and execute your vision while you sit back and enjoy your big day! Inquire for custom quotes and current specials.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Allows pets
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
From the moment we booked our wedding at Timber Banks Clubhouse, the staff was incredibly organized and helpful. The on-site planners guided us through the entire process, ensuring every detail was accounted for. The ballroom was absolutely stunning, spacious and beautifully appointed. The food was exceptional, with each dish perfectly seasoned and cooked to perfection. On the day of our wedding, the staff went above and beyond to make sure everything ran seamlessly. They assisted with setting up our personal items and checked in regularly to address any needs. Timber Banks truly is a one-stop shop, with amazing planners who are open, honest, and committed to making your wedding experience unforgettable. We are so grateful for their exceptional service and highly recommend this venue.
Jordan M., a month ago
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Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa 

5.0

Aurora, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Offer

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I got married at Inns of Aurora in August, and we can't express enough how wonderful our experience was from start to finish. The property is stunning— unique and charming, with impeccable attention to detail. The grounds are beautifully maintained, and the maintenance staff is a well-oiled machine. But most importantly, the staff at this property are incredible, and they made the planning and day-of experience so enjoyable. The events team is accommodating, organized, and very buttoned-up. During the months leading up to our wedding, we felt 100% supported by Lindsey and the in-house team. For a property that hosts weddings on most weekends, the team always made us feel like we were their only client. The recommended vendors were fantastic, and the vendors we sourced on our own were welcomed and directed flawlessly. The food was great and the venue worked with us to curate the perfect menu for our guests. On our wedding weekend, Kim served as our day-of coordinator, exceeding our expectations with her efficiency and helpfulness. Beyond her professionalism (she’s amazing at her job) she was a joy to be around, which makes a big difference on such a special day! The other on-site staff at the property were also incredibly welcoming and helpful to us and our guests. Overall, we cannot say more good things about Inns of Aurora. The venue was the most important choice we made while planning our wedding, and we definitely chose right.
Katie R., 3 months ago
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Stoney Creek Castle 
Earlville, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Stoney Creek Castle is a family-owned wedding venue in Earlville, New York. This brand new venue is only 10 minutes away from Hamilton, the home of Colgate University and a short drive from Syracuse, Utica and Binghamton. This beautiful and magical place has so much to offer. The creek that runs next to the Castle adds charm to an intimate, romantic ceremony and cocktail hour. With both indoor and outdoor event spaces, Stoney Creek Castle is an ideal location for an unforgettable wedding celebration. The venue is equipped with central heating and cooling providing all season comfort for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has an intimate atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking

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About wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in De Ruyter, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. De Ruyter, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $2,500 and average $5,000. All-inclusive packages start at $1,500 and average $7,500.

What types of venues can I find in De Ruyter, NY?

De Ruyter offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Hotel and resort and Barn and ranch.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in De Ruyter, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include Hayloft on the Arch, Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa and Curtis Manor Oswego NY. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in De Ruyter, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (74% in De Ruyter do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (76% in De Ruyter do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in De Ruyter, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 450. The average venue in De Ruyter can seat 130 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in De Ruyter, NY offer?

The venues in De Ruyter, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Clean up, Set up and Wi-Fi. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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