The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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14 Wedding Venues in De Ruyter, NY

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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills mountains. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouse ​onsite ​is a gorgeously appointed sanctuary for you and your family, and sleeps up to 20 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews. Blenheim is located a little over 2.5 hours from NYC.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Blenheim is a beautiful property and the perfect location for a Catskills wedding. Min and Morton are accommodating owners who made sure all of our needs were considered and facilitated. If you want to have an upscale barn wedding that is a highly memorable affair this is absolutely the venue for you! The food is amazing, the staff is on top of everything (shoutout to Rosie!), and the setting is gorgeous. We had multiple wedding events (welcome party, wedding, after party and farewell brunch) and every one was amazing!
Carrie S., 3 months ago
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The Lincklaen House 

5.0

Cazenovia, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

The Lincklaen House is a historic wedding venue and grand hotel in Cazenovia, New York. The space is an elegant and unique site that will create a romantic ambiance for your special day. The Lincklaen House has been a welcoming and comfortable venue for travelers and betrothed couples alike for over 180 years, even having housed President and Mrs. Grover Cleveland. Their experienced staff will make you feel at home, and the meals will leave you talking about them for years to come. The stunning architecture provides the perfect backdrop for photos, inside and outside. With a wedding at The Lincklaen House, your memories will last a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
My husband and I were married at the Lincklaen House in Cazenovia in August of 2018 and it was absolutely amazing! Such a fun experience! We worked with Carrie throughout the whole process and she was so accommodating when it came to us needing anything at all. The ease and guidance throughout the whole process allowed us to not worry about anything on our big day! We would 100% recommend the Lincklaen House to all of our friends!
Alyssa D., 4 years ago
The Sherwood Hotel 

5.0

Greene, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $900

This storybook and historic Sherwood Hotel offers the perfect setting for weddings, banquets, reunions, and special events. A magical location in the setting of Greene, New York, just 20 miles from Norwich and 20 miles from Binghamton.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Dance floor not included
  • Additional event staff required
If you are looking for a blank slate to create your own dream reception/wedding experience in a vintage historical setting then the Sherwood Inn is the perfect place for you. Literally a beautiful classic venue with such potential to make any brides dream come true. We rented the entire hotel for our reception all 19 rooms and it was perfect for our guests. The bridal suite room is beautiful with a whirlpool tub and was perfect for my wedding party to get ready for the ceremony in. Our ceremony was elsewhere but I could see someone have everything right at the Sherwood and it being completely beautiful. Greg was absolutely wonderful to work with. There are 2 venues to choose from a formal venue room on the 1st floor and a basement bar venue which we rocked and danced our reception into the early morning hours. The photos are to die for trust me!! And, the town of Greene is wonderful and welcoming.
Michele S., a year ago
John Joseph Inn 

5.0

Groton, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Welcome to the John Joseph Inn, where timeless elegance meets modern luxury in the heart of the Finger Lakes region. Named after founder John Hamilton, our estate boasts 110 acres of picturesque grounds. Whether an intimate gathering or grand celebration, our versatile spaces exude romance and sophistication. Our six luxurious inn room suites and cottage seamlessly blend classic charm with modern amenities, offering a serene escape amidst the scenic beauty of our estate. Renowned Chef John Joseph Hamilton curates wedding menus harmonizing creativity, flavor, and local flair. His culinary creations showcase a passion for innovation, exceeding expectations and reflecting your unique love story. With a commitment to exceptional service, the John Joseph Inn ensures a seamless wedding experience. From arrival to farewell, we create a warm and welcoming atmosphere, allowing you to savor every moment.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we first spoke with John at the John Joseph Inn, my husband and I felt incredibly cared for and supported. This was the first and only venue we visited when we first started planning and we knew right away this would be the place for our wedding day. John's thoughtful and flexible communication style put us at ease throughout the entire planning process. The stunning grounds and elegant venue felt like something out of a movie - the perfect backdrop for our special day. John and his team went the extra mile to incorporate every detail that was important to us, including working with us to build a custom menu that featured chicken from our family farm and custom desserts inspired by our mothers' recipes. The ability to have welcome cocktails and a day-after brunch all on the property allowed our guests, some of whom traveled a great distance, to spend more quality time celebrating with us. We also had plenty of kids attend, and they were having the time of their lives playing in the orchard throughout the wedding weekend. We are so grateful to the John Joseph Inn for helping to make our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Isidora, 3 months ago
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Osmica at Spring Trail Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

As the premiere sustainable wedding venue in the Finger Lakes, we focus on creating unforgettable memories for you and your guests, AND being kind to the planet. We truly believe that you can leave a small footprint on your big day. We provide a bespoke experience for all of our couples. We strive to support your vision, while helping you navigate the logistics. You will have exclusive use of the rustically elegant barn, farmhouse and land during your rental period, and we will be by your side the whole weekend to help manage your vendors and address any concerns. We are not a wedding factory! We host a limited number of weddings each season, so we can give your event the attention it deserves. Our stunning countryside views and historic farm buildings offer unique opportunities to create a charming and inviting venue for an intimate gathering or lavish event only a short drive outside of Ithaca, NY. Let us capture your imagination and help make your event dream a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Highly recommended ! We are so over the moon happy that we were able to celebrate our rehearsal dinner at Osmica farm for a little over 100 guests. Can’t say enough wonderful things about our experience! Our families were so impressed by the natural, rustic and inviting feel of the farm! The owners, Allie and Kurt were truly a joy to work with! They were so responsive and helped us so beautifully plan every detail of our day! They helped us with our table decorations, beautiful flower arrangements and other rentals! The list of the vendors they provided were also so nice and responsive and easy to work with. They truly made our experience completely stress free! The farm has the most stunning sunset and lots of space indoors and outdoors for kids and adults to enjoy lawn games. And the most meaningful thing is that Allie and Kurt were so friendly and introduced themselves to our guests, everyone loved them. They were available and ready to help from the first to the last minute. We will definitely visit and stay at their beautiful bed and breakfast in the future.
Negar T., 3 months ago
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Springside Inn 

5.0

Auburn, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Nestled in this rich, historic landscape, Springside Inn continues to offer the best of Finger Lakes' atmosphere and hospitality. Springside Inn is located across the road from the western shore of Owasco Lake, one of the Finger Lakes. Every event held at Springside Inn is guaranteed to be as unique and unforgettable as the couple being celebrated.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
I’m getting emotional just writing this, but Springside Inn truly made our wedding dreams come true. The facility itself is STUNNING and so versatile!!! We decided to have our ceremony in The Grove (beautiful outdoor area surrounded by trees) and our reception in the ballroom, but there are so many options and different ways to use the venue that no 2 weddings are alike. The rooms we got to stay in too are also absolutely gorgeous. Antique charm but state of the art amenities. I am not exaggerating when I say the food and cake were some of the best things I’ve ever eaten in my 29 years of existence. So customizable and delicious! The chef and catering staff are so nice and talented. And last by certainly NOT least…the site coordinator, Chris, is an absolute angel. As soon as we booked the venue, she guided us EVERY step of the way with planning. She is an absolute expert on all things wedding planning and ensured the day went so smoothly. She is such a calm presence and was so attentive, helpful, reassuring, and just overall one of the nicest human beings I’ve ever met!!! I feel like I will never be able to express my gratitude for her enough. Springside Inn is an absolute dream in every shape or form and I could not recommend them enough Love, Jacqui and James Married 9/28/24
Jacqui D., 3 months ago
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Inn At Taughannock Falls 

5.0

Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

This luxury boutique hotel overlooks Cayuga Lake and is just 9 miles from Ithaca, New York, in the heart of the Finger Lakes Wine Trail. The estate combines modern accommodations, private guest houses, and a majestic Victorian Inn next to one of the tallest waterfalls in the country. The Inn at Taughannock has three on-site wedding venues, including a new one-acre wedding garden. The wedding garden, named "Enchantment", has a 100' x 60' translucent sailcloth tent, a 42' alabaster bar, and a dry-stack stone fire place that it took four masons one year to build. In addition to these marvelous features there are also three fire-pits on site, one of which is cantilevered and hangs above the outer wall over looking Cayuga Lake. Our full service event planning team is ready to provide you with a concierge style service as they help you navigate every facet of the wedding planning journey. This all inclusive venue is the perfect location for the next piece of your history.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
As a photographer I love to work at the Inn at Taughannock. The setting alone is stunning with views of the lake, a historic inn and beautiful tented patio. The staff is always helpful and organized and their food is delicious. I would highly recommend hosting your wedding or event here.
Gerritsen Photography, 10 months ago
The White Gazebo Inn of the Finger Lakes 

5.0

Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

One of the most distinctive historic properties in the Finger Lakes, the former White Gazebo Inn B&B, is now open for seasonal events, celebrations and Weddings! This historic regional property is an ideal setting for bridal showers, weddings, and receptions! The White Gazebo is home to an original Victorian gazebo built in 1853, as well as a picturesque period barn, sprawling pastures, and quiet woodland privacy. The regal, historic home includes a private terrace and patio for gathering and reception cuisine, and extensive grounds for walking, or just sitting and sipping wine and enjoying the bounty of the Finger Lakes. Flowers bloom all around! The Inn is a charming, cozy historic home with a recent addition with key amenities- It sleeps 10-12 with a Master Bedroom suite, a cozy family room, and a utility room perfect for staging. The upstairs has two bedrooms and a shared bathroom with windows facing the historic gazebo. The Inn is negotiable with a wedding or reception booking.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Has a warm and cozy vibe
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
The White Gazebo Inn holds a special place for us. I was at the time the greeter for Christine and hosted the wedding event for my son. The property is a lovely fit for a small wedding. We found it to be the perfect spot for our special day.
Terri E., 3 years ago

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About wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in De Ruyter, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. De Ruyter, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $2,500 and average $5,000. All-inclusive packages start at $1,500 and average $7,500.

What types of venues can I find in De Ruyter, NY?

De Ruyter offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Hotel and resort and Barn and ranch.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in De Ruyter, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include Hayloft on the Arch, Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa and Curtis Manor Oswego NY. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in De Ruyter, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (74% in De Ruyter do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (76% in De Ruyter do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in De Ruyter, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in De Ruyter, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 450. The average venue in De Ruyter can seat 130 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in De Ruyter, NY offer?

The venues in De Ruyter, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Clean up, Set up and Wi-Fi. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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