The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Shrub Oak, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Shrub Oak, NY

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22 Wedding Venues in Shrub Oak, NY

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The Abbey Inn & Spa 

5.0

Peekskill, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

With its views over the Hudson River Highlands, Fort Hill was a key lookout post for George Washington and his army during the Revolutionary War; in 1902, it became home to a convent and chapel, established by the Episcopal Sisters of Saint Mary. The abbey and its chapel have been converted into The Abbey Inn & Spa – a luxury hotel with 42 rooms and suites, a Michelin recommended farm-to-table restaurant under the direction of Chef Peter X. Kelly, a luxurious spa, an outdoor pool, and over 65 acres to explore. The chapel offers a unique venue for important occasions, and a peaceful English garden provides s gorgeous background for photos. Lovingly restored and meticulously designed, our hotel pays homage to its historic heritage while offering contemporary amenities and world-class service to each and every guest. All of us at The Abbey Inn and Spa are thrilled to be part of this exciting transformation, and we’re eager to share it with you.

I was one of few original wedding photographers to capture Abbey Inn's grand opening commercial photo shoot. I was extremely impressed by not only the polite construction and staff at the facility, but also how they had EVERYTHING figured out for large scale weddings and events to take place at their location. They have stunning-luxury hotel rooms & suites, a restaurant, bar and lounge space, gorgeous views of the Hudson valley, a cathedral -aesthetic ceremony and reception hall, lush gardens and lawns, plenty of parking, JUST A PERFECT SPOT for weddings and events so travel isn't an issue. ONE STOP SHOP :D I highly recommend this wedding venue!
Miranda, 5 years ago
Ryan Family Farm 

5.0

Lagrangeville, NY
  • Up to 165 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $300

The restored dairy barn built in 1828 on a 100 acre, family ran, historic venue with modern-day amenities is nestled in the Hudson Valley, NY. It can host up to 150 guests comfortably inside the barn, with additional space on the deck for cocktail hour and an adjacent lawn area for your ceremony. There is also an additional lounge seating area if some of your guests would like to relax with a bit of quiet time. Antique chandeliers accent the hardwood floors, walls and beams providing the rustic character that compliments the temperature controlled AC and heat to enable us to provide year-round events. In addition to the barn, deck, and ceremony space, the onsite 4 bedroom (7 queen beds) restored farmhouse is included in the venue for the weekend. A Friday check in enables you to prepare yourself for the big day and set up the space in the barn with any decor. The house is yours for the entire weekend for up to 8 guests. It works perfectly as a bridal suite for everyone to get ready.

The Ryan Family Farm is a PERFECT place for rustic barn style weddings. The venue boasts so many beautiful features that allow for amazing photo opportunities and having a great time. The Barn itself is amazing with lots of nooks and crannies for privacy but also spacious enough to allow guests to feel comfortable. The Lake makes for a beautiful backdrop for ceremony or photos. It is a very pressure free experience from start to finish. The team there is a pleasure to work with and if there is a service they don't provide they are quick to reccomend someone who can which makes for a very stress free experience!
Daniel Sullivan, 3 years ago
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Kismet House 

5.0

Clintondale, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Nestled in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Kismet House was brought to life as the perfect venue for your dream wedding and next event. With housing for 24 onsite it's an amazing local destination wedding weekend. The Kismet property spans 62 acres, anchored around our centerpiece, an original classic Red Barn. Surrounded by acres of apple orchards, a secretly nestled pond amidst the trees, meandering walking trails. — Kismet House is a memorable and escape close enough to find a wooded paradise less than two hours from New York City.

I had a fantastic experience at Kismet House. The venue was gorgeous and had everything one would expect and then some! The onsite lodging was perfect for the wedding party and made me everything easier. Everyone that I worked with on the venue side was kind, professional and quick to respond. I highly recommend this venue and their staff.
Tanner Beree, 10 months ago
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Sleep Inn & Suites Middletown - Goshen 
Middletown, NY
  • Up to 2500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $175

Dream better at The Sleep Inn & Suites hotel in Middletown, NY. We are near the Galleria at Crystal Run mall and are a simple stylish sanctuary that’s designed for a happy night’s rest. Our location off Interstate 84 makes it easy to enjoy hot air balloon rides, outdoor activities in the Poconos in Pennsylvania and attractions like: Hudson River, Holiday Mountain Ski Area and Monticello Raceway. You’ll find current, stylish design elements inspired by nature to refresh and relax around every corner at our affordable Middletown hotel. Our reasonable amenities simply complete your stay and include: Free breakfast ,Free WiFi, use of our indoor pool, fitness center, and business center. All of our guest rooms help you rest and unwind and include microwaves and refrigerators! Dream better at the Sleep Inn & Suites. Middletown hotels like ours are just as restful as home, but better–so that you leave with a smile on your face and a spring in your step.

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The Mansion At Glen Cove 
Glen Cove, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Marry Me At The Mansion From the moment you turn onto the winding driveway of this glorious Gold Coast landmark Georgian estate, it becomes easy to envision exchanging your vows and celebrating your wedding day here, at The Mansion. Nestled on 55 sprawling acres of landscaped grounds, magnificent surroundings, both inside and out, the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination…and our experienced wedding professionals are unsurpassed in their ability to ensure that your vision becomes a reality. Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen. Experience the New Era in Gold Coast Luxury.

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Fox & Bear Lodge 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

The Fox & Bear Lodge would be honored to host your next special event! At the Fox & Bear Lodge, your hosts Brant and Dearrick strive to create for their guests an experience that is truly unique. Brunches, private parties celebrating special occasions, weddings, and/or pre or post-wedding gatherings are elevated with sophisticated touches your hosts can provide. Stunning floral arrangements, beautifully displayed foods both savory and sweet, signature cocktails, or a mixed fruits mimosa bar: these are just a few of the elements that your guests would encounter at an event hosted at The Fox & Bear Lodge. If you are looking to hold a one-of-a-kind gathering that your family and friends are sure to remember, consider holding it at our Lodge. We look forward to serving you.

The Fox and Bear Lodge was the perfect venue for our wedding. Janice, who runs the inn, was an absolute delight and took wonderful care of us and our guests all weekend, with her incredible breakfasts being a standout. Jenn, the day-of coordinator, was equally amazing—organized, attentive, and ensured everything went smoothly, allowing us to enjoy our day stress-free. For context, we had 65 people at our wedding total, including us and two children. This felt like the perfect size for our group, especially given the necessity of the tent due to chilly October nights. The lodge itself is charming, with great rooms and fantastic amenities. Despite its location at the corner of two streets, we barely noticed any traffic. While nearby lodging options are limited, most of our guests were satisfied with the Quality Inn just 10 minutes away. The venue struck a perfect balance between outdoorsy and chic, offering more flexibility than other venues. Though there were some additional but reasonable fees, it was wonderful to have our rehearsal dinner, welcome drinks, and brunch all at the lodge, making it the ideal fit for our special day. We are so thankful that we decided to stay over an extra night, without any of our guests, to get to truly enjoy the lodge a bit more before checking out. We could have stayed there all week! * Photo credit: Katie Christ Photography
Ashley W., a month ago
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Mountain Creek Resort 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Say “I do” at our exclusive wedding venue right here at Mountain Creek with a scenic mountaintop ceremony followed by a reception in a rustic yet luxurious lodge. We know how important this day is to you and our wedding specialists will help craft a magical experience that caters to your every need.

We've provided string lighting and other lighting and decor at Mountain Creek for more than 25 weddings. We take pride in our attention to details and customer satisfaction. That's why we like working with Mountain Creek so much. The entire staff supports us so that we can do our job efficiently. They make us feel like we're part of the family, which makes it easy for us to provide the service our clients expect. All of our experience at Mountain Creek has been stress-free because of how well they take care of their vendors.
Michael Kimmel, 4 years ago
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ElmRock Inn 

4.0

Stone Ridge, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Catskill views abound at this lovely Hudson Valley B&B, whose lush five-acre plot looks out across Shawangunk Ridge. At the property's heart, a gorgeous Dutch Colonial Farmhouse greets guests with 18th-Century charm. Wed beneath the pretty gazebo, followed by cocktails in the 250 year-old Locust Grove, which also features the covered Bluestone Patio. Follow with a tented, seated or floating reception on the lawn or under a beautiful tent. Wrap up the celebration with dancing and a festive bonfire sendoff. The B&B sleeps up to 14 guests.

We loved our wedding at ElmRock Inn! The venue is gorgeous and I had the time of my life. Staying onsite was amazing. I highly recommend ElmRock. The chef is fantastic and we will remember our wedding fondly for the rest of our lives. There were a few negatives during our stay, but we are still very glad that we got married at ElmRock. The first negative was that the water in the BnB and carriage house (where bride/groom stayed) kept running out at night. This was pretty annoying, but not a huge issue since the water was usually fine by morning. Second, the venue coordinator was pretty rude throughout the weekend and especially to my family. Many people at the wedding commented about how rude she was (and the fact that she wore white pants to our wedding!). The rest of the staff was nicer, though a couple of the servers were also rude, just not as bad. I expected the staff to be more accommodating and welcoming the entire weekend, but it really felt more like we were getting scolded at times. Lastly, they served my wedding cake really cold and had clearly forgotten to take it out of the fridge to get to room temperature before serving. That was quite frustrating, especially since I heard them talking about how I (the bride) needed to hurry up to start the cake cutting while I was changing, but the cake wasn't even ready! Overall, the venue is gorgeous and we had a lovely time. I think the experience would be improved by some updating to their plumbing and getting a coordinator that's nicer to their customers. The food was AMAZING and the chef is fantastic, just be warned if you're sensitive to people who can be rude/unaccommodating.
Alexandra F., a month ago
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Crystal Springs Country Club at Grand Cascades Lodge 

4.7

Hamburg, NJ
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $19,000
  • Offer

Incorporate this beautiful mountain oasis into an outdoor ceremony in the lush wedding garden or serene Quarry. Perched atop a sweeping crest, with the most stunning panoramic views in the tri-state area, you will find the luxurious four-star Adirondack-style Grand Cascades Lodge and Crystal Springs Country Club. The Emerald Ballroom is the ideal venue for weddings with a larger guest list, comfortably accommodating up to 300 guests & an indoor cocktail hour in the open-air rotunda that overlooks the scenic Kittatinny and Pochuck mountains.

We had our wedding at Grand Cascades in June 2022 and had such an amazing experience! Throughout the planning process we worked with Sarah, who was awesome all the way from planning the details, picking up the phone whenever I needed her, providing advice on anything I asked, and all the way through to the day of. She handled everything that came up with grace and kindness, even in tough family situations that arose. We chose CS Grand Cascades for a few key reasons (1) the amazing menu and presentation of the food (2) the beautiful ceremony, cocktail hour and reception spaces no matter rain or shine and (3) the value you get for your money. We also LOVED the fact that the hotel was on-site and we didn’t need to worry about transportation for ourselves or our guests throughout the day and afterwards. This provided SO many advantages, including access to the bridal suite all day and being able to take advantage of the hotel bar on-site for a causal after party without any extra cost to us. It is definitely an under-rated venue in NJ that we are SO happy we found! We were able to stick to our ideal budget while not comprising on quality of the event. I have been told by so many people how we threw the BEST wedding they’ve ever been to. The event staff is a well-oiled machine and truly think of everything to make your day the most special and seamless experience. Highly recommend to all future brides!!
Gina P., 2 years ago
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The Mod House 
Ellenville, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,800

As seen on HGTV's Frozen in Design, The Mod House is a wedding venue located 90 minutes from Manhattan in Ellenville, New York. Celebrate your big day at a luxurious midcentury modern retreat in the Catskill Mountains with a secret speakeasy inside it. The 4200-square-foot Mod House is an architectural gem built in 1959 by a follower of the renowned architect Frank Lloyd Wright. The open-plan layout and floor-to-ceiling windows connect the spacious interior to the natural world outside. You can tie the knot on the lawn with a lush forested backdrop. After the ceremony, revel with your guests in Love, Velma, an underground speakeasy and dance club within the venue. The speakeasy comes fully equipped with a bar, projector, stage, and lights. Love, Velma is wheelchair accessible and can host up to 100 guests, with parking available for up to 40 cars. Four bedrooms are available if you prefer to stay on-site on the wedding night. A large open kitchen can accommodate caterers.

Cedar Lakes Estate 

5.0

Port Jervis, NY
  • Up to 315 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $143,000

Let’s partner to create the nature-inspired wedding of your dreams—chic enough for your friends, and comfortable enough for your grandparents. Whether it’s a massive party or intimate gathering, the Cedar Lakes property can accommodate as many guests as your event requires, with overnight lodging for over two hundred. Our style blends rustic elegance with nature, so guests enjoy a sleepaway camp vibe with all the luxuries of a 5-star hotel—steaming rain showers and feather down beds included. In-house chefs create seasonal menus with produce grown in our onsite organic garden, while our craft cocktails please any spirit connoisseur. Choose from indoor or outdoor settings to hold your ceremony and reception, each one with a view of tree-lined lakes and stunning mountains. Your wedding weekend package includes full access to the property, including lakes, pools, hiking and biking trails, and bonfire pits. We strive to make certain each wedding is specially tailored to fit the couple.

I can’t say enough wonderful things about Cedar Lakes. We got married there on October 12th, 2019 and also spent our New Years there! The staff, the food, the accommodations, everything is AMAZING! I would live there if I could! Cedar Lakes is our happy place and we can’t wait for an excuse to go back!!
Amanda, 5 years ago
Camp Sacajawea 

5.0

Sparta, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Situated on 200 acres in beautiful Sussex county, our venue has countless trails, lush fields, and picturesque backdrops for ceremonies and photographs. Be surrounded by an air of tranquil beauty and appreciate a wedding venue that gives you the space and time to enjoy your wedding. Celebrate in an atmosphere as special as your occasion! Beyond a beautiful nature setting, our venue also specializes in the following atmospheres: Medieval, Renaissance, Viking, Fantasy, Enchanted Forest and Rustic. There is a medieval bar room and main hall, a jousting arena, a castle façade, a lakeside terrace and a medieval boat on our large beautiful lake, to name a few of our lovely themed areas. We even have an outdoor archery and axe throwing range usable upon request. Spend several days with your friends and family in a relaxed environment! - The ZOLA calendar for our availability is NOT accurate. You must visit our website to see our actual availability. Please do so before reaching out.

Camp Sacajawea was the best decision we made while wedding planning! We knew we didn’t want a standard ball room wedding but never could have imagined a venue as cool as Camp Sacajawea. The day we saw it we knew it was for us. The staff was super kind and helpful! The ambiance is eclectic and lends its self to so many possibilities, they even have a bunch of decor other couples have donate following their events to pay it forward to the next couple! You can use any vendors you want to make your event exactly as you wish! They even offer lawn games and, archery / axe throwing for events. We also came from out of state and they were super flexible/ supportive to make sure we were comfortable. Don’t hesitate if you’re interested, worth every penny! All our guests are raving about how much fun they had !
Sarah & M., 7 months ago
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Sylvan Ridge Farm 

5.0

Milford, PA
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

A historic property with timeless beauty, Sylvan Ridge Farm is nestled into a wooded mountainside overlooking the Delaware River Valley. Our mid-19th century farmhouse, cottage, and event barn have been revitalized with design insights from renowned architect Peter Bohlin and the meticulous skill of Pennsylvania Amish craftsmen to create a truly unique gathering place. Guests enjoy total solitude on the secluded 193 acres, yet the farm is only 10 minutes away from Interstate 84, historic Milford, PA, and Port Jervis, NY, with easy access from New York City via train, bus, or car. We specialize in long-format weddings, where one couple has exclusive venue access for a full weekend and can have their rehearsal dinner, brunch, or other side events at no additional charge. Overnight lodging for up to 16 guests and professional month-of coordination are included in every package!

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We fell in love with this venue the moment we drove up the road. My husband and I grew up in NJ, live in Brooklyn, and were looking for a venue that felt like a nature retreat while still being accessible for our friends and family. Milford is a great town just down the road and the hotels are so close too. Linnea and Alec were so communicative and helpful with the endless lists of questions we sent them. We cannot thank them enough for setting the stage for the weekend - and I'm just so impressed with how seamless and easy it felt to use their venue. We were struck just by the beauty of the whole property. It's absolutely marvelous! We were surrounded by charming little bunnies and butterflies the whole weekend. We took advantage of the place for the whole weekend - a Friday night pizza truck party, multiple pool and hot tub hangouts, and a Sunday bagel brunch in the barn. Everybody was raving about the barn, farmhouse, and cottage. The sunset during the reception created a great atmosphere for our guests to congregate and enjoy the lawn. We felt right at home and it made our wedding so incredibly special.
Rebecca S., 3 months ago

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How much do wedding venues typically cost in Shrub Oak, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Shrub Oak, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. All-inclusive packages start at $153 and average $14,000.

What types of venues can I find in Shrub Oak, NY?

Shrub Oak offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Historic estate and Restaurant and brewery.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Shrub Oak, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Briarcliff Manor, Tappan Hill Mansion and Whitby Castle. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Shrub Oak, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (50% in Shrub Oak do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (38% in Shrub Oak do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Shrub Oak, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Shrub Oak, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 2000. The average venue in Shrub Oak can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Shrub Oak, NY offer?

The venues in Shrub Oak, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wi-Fi, Wheelchair accessible and Bar services. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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