The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000
  • Offer

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

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Westbury Manor was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we first spoke with the team, their communication was detailed, professional, and so friendly and welcoming. The grounds were beautifully maintained, providing an incredible backdrop for our wedding photos. Our maitre d', Phil, was incredible. He orchestrated the day perfectly. Our bridal attendant, Claudia, was truly exceptional - we were able to turn off our brains and just enjoy the day thanks to them. Phil and Claudia were a huge reason why our wedding day was so wonderful and we cannot thank them enough. They are masters at their jobs. The food was amazing, and we felt we got great value for our money. We're so grateful to the entire Westbury Manor team for making our special day truly perfect.
Gabbie M., 2 months ago
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Moby's NY 

5.0

East Hampton, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000
  • Offer

Moby’s, situated in a lovingly restored 1880s home along the scenic stretch of Highway 27 leading to Montauk in East Hampton, beckons with its seasonal Italian cuisine, cocktails, and everlasting summertime enchantment. The restaurant offers a blend of indoor, outdoor, and patio dining experiences, providing a charming ambiance for culinary delights amidst historic allure. Amidst this charming backdrop, Moby's transforms into a versatile event venue, catering to gatherings of all sizes, from intimate dinners to grand affairs, Moby's offers a range of event spaces providing a seamless indoor-outdoor experience.

Where to begin? I had my heart set on Moby’s for our wedding long before I experienced their food, service, and ambience. Once we visited, it was an easy decision— the entire experience exceeded our expectations in every way; it was simply impeccable. Planning a wedding can be challenging, but John and the entire Moby’s team made the process effortless. The hospitality was truly incredible. There was never a no, instead a willingness to cater to our every desire and went above and beyond to ensure our vision came to life. From the stunning atmosphere to the exquisite food, everything was flawless. Our guests raved about the venue and the incredible food, making our special day even more memorable. The Moby’s team ensured everything ran smoothly, allowing us to fully enjoy our celebration. I highly recommend Moby’s for any event, and particularly for couples seeking a beautiful setting for their wedding with exceptional service.
Gab F., 2 months ago
The Lace Factory 

5.0

Deep River, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Even if one didn't put their own personal touches to this space it is still stunning. So much natural and creative lighting with a beautiful courtyard for reception or ceremony. Industrial history, attention to detail and location! Covid procedures and restriction apply.

I honestly forget if I already wrote a review for The Lace Factory, but recently I was reflecting on our wedding day and a few things stuck out that had me so thankful we held our reception at The Lace Factory. From the beginning of the planning process the team is extremely clear and communicative. I love a checklist and theirs is one that ensures nothing will be forgotten. Our guests are still sharing how gorgeous the venue was, how incredible the food spread was, and one detail I was surprised by, from my cousin who has been to their fair share of large celebrations. "The food was not only delicious, but they managed to serve such a large group and the food was actually hot!" This speaks to the well-oiled machine that is The Lace Factory and it must be emphasized that this machine has heart. They accomplished another feat of having my family and I not worry about the severe allergy of my dad, as they adjusted the menu accordingly, without us having to miss out on all the options. This carried over to assist some guests who also had specific dietary needs. I realize this sounds boring, but it is wonderful to know your guests are safe and fed and focus on the celebrating! The Lace Factory is a venue that can transform your wedding into something beyond your dreams while holding true to your vision.
Annie S., 3 months ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

If you have the means to, choose Bill Miller's as your venue! My now husband and I were treated like royalty from the first tour to our wedding day. We were never without a beverage and were well fed (almost too full!). Mary was our coordinator, and was never hard to reach. We chose this venue for a few reasons: we would have the venue for the whole day to ourselves, all-inclusive with fantastic food and great drinks, a solid indoor/rain option for the ceremony, and a coordinator was included. Bill Miller's really made our day seamless and everything was incredible. Thank you Mary and everyone at Bill Miller's for a wonderful stress-free day!
Bianca D., 5 months ago
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Woodwinds 

4.4

Branford, CT
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $115

WoodWinds is one of the most sought after Connecticut wedding venues for wedding receptions, banquets, corporate events or any special occasion, in the Tri-State area. A wedding in our impressive European Country Manor will reflect your personal vision. Imagine a magical experience, enhanced by a unique ceremony and reception on the beautiful grounds of WoodWinds. Envision standing on a grand staircase under the twinkle of Austrian Crystal chandeliers, taking pictures in a magnificent garden and dancing the night away on a marble dance floor.

The venue had a few hiccups, but overall we had a lovely reception there. The outdoor space was the highlight - truly gorgeous for photos. Communication on coordination was a bit spotty at times, but the maître d', Sergio, was a god send and stepped in to ensure things flowed smoothly. The food was phenomenal, as well! So many of our guests shared it was the best wedding food they’d ever had. We did have both our bridal attendants provided by the venue disappear on us shortly after we arrived, which was inconvenient since we would have paid for our own attendants if we knew that would be the case. While parts of the indoor space is dated, it worked out beautifully with some creative decor. When weighing everything in, the Woodwinds was a spectacular venue!
Negeena & M., 3 months ago
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The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, 3 months ago
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Riverbend 

4.0

Higganum, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Welcome to Connecticut Wedding Group's latest jewel, Riverbend—a masterpiece poised to claim its title as the state’s foremost wedding destination, with an opening scheduled for 2026! Nestled in the heart of Higganum, this venue seamlessly blends the rich tapestry of the town's industrial history with a contemporary touch, resulting in an unmatched fusion of industrial charm and modern elegance. As you step through the entrance, prepare to be enchanted by a stunning architectural marvel nestled within a lovingly restored industrial gem. Towering, exposed-beam ceilings create an expansive atmosphere, and the weathered brickwork shares the timeless tales of a bygone era. Bathed in sunlight pouring through expansive windows, every corner is adorned with a soft, natural glow, ensuring that your celebration emanates with an undeniable warmth and inherent beauty. At Riverbend, history meets modernity to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Riverbend is like nothing else we've experienced - the stunning buildings, winding river and peaceful sun-dappled property is just amazing. But the venue's beauty is just the beginning! The planning team at Connecticut Wedding Group is professional magic, orchestrating every detail with laser focus and contagious enthusiasm - you can't help but smile when you're with any of them. And don't even get us started on the food, it's literally the best that we've ever had. If you're dreaming of a wedding that's breathtaking, one of a kind and stress-free, you need to book Riverbend!
Daphne and Dean, 10 months ago
The Wadsworth Mansion At Long Hill Estate 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Wadsworth Mansion, a nineteenth-century Beaux Art style mansion, is the quintessential country estate. Graced by expansive lawns and surrounded by 103 acres of wooded parklands the Mansion reflects an era of grandeur and elegance. There are multiple locations for outdoor ceremonies and guests can enjoy cocktails and dance on the terrace under the stars. The Mansion can accommodate two hundred guests for a seated dinner reception and larger numbers for cocktail parties. Only one event is scheduled each day and couples can select from a list of approved caterers to create the wedding of their dreams.

Weeks later, we're still absolutely gushing over the Mansion! It was the perfect venue for our wedding. They had it all, from phenomenal staff to luxurious facilities, not to mention the stunning views. We had the pleasure of working with Alexandra(Alex) we could not have asked for a better person! Alex knew all of our family members and bridal party’s names, and was extremely personable. She went above and beyond to make sure we were taken care of all night. She brought me a snack before the ceremony and continuously brought me my water all day and night (without me asking)They truly make you feel like a VIP throughout your entire day and their top notch team(along with our caterer David Alan) ensured that everything ran smoothly behind the scenes. In the early stages of planning we worked with Jessica Hess and she is extremely helpful and communicative. The mansion truly felt like home for the day. We hosted our ceremony on the vista , cocktail hour was on the terrace, and we had dinner in the East ballroom. Guests were in awe of the estate (we also lucked out with absolutely perfect weather), and how every detail was perfectly executed. Our special day was truly a dream and felt like it was out of a movie! We could not recommend the Wadsworth Mansion enough, and can't wait to return for future celebrations. It's definitely well-worth the investment and would 10/10 recommend hosting your special day here! Ps ask about the beautiful custom made bar (my stepdad built it) Our wedding Venue: The Wadsworth Mansion Photographer: Crystal Photography Second Shooter: Jenn Tee Photography Videographer: Jf3 Productions DJ: AMS - Mikey Tierney Caterer: David Alan Hospitality Group Bar: Cocktail Crusiers Gown: Grace Loves Lace Flower Girl Dress: Grace Loves Lace Tuxedo & Suits: Generation Tux Makeup: Upstyle Co. Autumn Starke Hair: The Hair Factory - Danielle Gagnon Getting Ready Suite: The Apiary Collective Cake: J Cakes MOB Dress: Camilyn Beth Bridal Bouquet & Boutonnière: Haworths Flower
Arianna C., 4 months ago
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Saint Clements Castle 

5.0

Portland, CT
  • Up to 260 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $120

Where the castle meets the river, Saint Clements Castle & Marina, is Connecticut’s premier wedding and event venue in Portland. Situated along the banks of the river, each of the three unique event spaces provide a picturesque and scenic backdrop of the riverside and lush greenery while outdoors. Inside, you will find newly renovated historical charm for a variety of special events, including weddings, showers, corporate meetings, and other celebrations. Saint Clements Castle has earned a reputation of an elevated and enchanting setting perfect for all things in life worth celebrating. Saint Clements Castle and Marina’s location, in central Connecticut, is easily accessible as a midpoint from the New York City and Boston areas.

We were over the moon with our wedding at Saint Clement's Castle. The venue is simply magical - the castle architecture and sweeping views of the water took our breath away and provided a fairy tale backdrop. The team was a dream to work with, very responsive throughout planning and attentive to all our needs and vision. Our day-of-coordinator was a rockstar, making us feel like royalty. Everything flowed seamlessly thanks to her and the staff. The little touches like the heartfelt note at the end of the night were so thoughtful. Our guests couldn't stop raving about the venue and service. If you want an stress-free wedding with wow factor, look no further than Saint Clement's.
Ewelina D., 4 months ago
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BLDG 4 CT 

5.0

Manchester, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

BLDG 4 is a Connecticut historic event venue specializing in weddings, private parties and corporate functions. Our capacity for sit down is (250) and cocktail is (500)! We have ample amount of parking and we offer great amenities! We offer tables, chairs, support staff, indoor & outdoor spaces along with much more. All of our wedding packages include full access the day of and a wedding suite. You can also upgrade to our Penthouse Wedding Suite for those couples who need a bit more.

I cannot say enough wonderful things about Historic Events and Banquets! The venue itself has been so thoughtfully developed, with gorgeous details throughout and a clean, beautiful aesthetic that is perfect for weddings! But their team is...AMAZING. From the attention to detail, to the client experience they create, this is simply a wonderful experience for epic celebrations!
Teresa Johnson, 4 years ago
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Hope Lodge Venue 

4.9

Moosup, CT
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,500

Located in Moosup, Connecticut, Hope Lodge Venue is a unique event space. Perfect for celebrations, it has 2 floors of 5000 square feet of beautifully renovated space in a building bursting with historic charm. On the top floor, couples will encounter a wood ceiling, barn doors, gold chandelier and a huge stage. Combined, these elements can create an atmosphere like no other. On the lower level, couples will find an industrial but chic rustic space with large windows, full bar and bridal suite.

I had the pleasure of working with Hope Lodge Venue recently as a wedding photographer and I can say they are a fantastic choice . Their communication style is incredibly responsive, helpful, and enthusiastic - they go above and beyond to ensure every detail is taken care of. Great quality of work for a the value ; the venue is open, clean, bright, and airy, creating the perfect atmosphere for a wedding or big event . One memorable example was when the staff dressed up along with the Gatsby-themed wedding, truly immersing themselves in the couple's vision. My only suggestion would be for them to potentially expand their parking area in the future, but overall, Hope Lodge Venue is an excellent option for couples seeking a beautiful, well-managed wedding venue and one they could decorate and make their own.
Caroline, 3 months ago
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Angel & Anchor Farm 

5.0

Oneco, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Nestled in the village of Oneco, CT, Angel and Anchor Farm is an idyllic wedding venue. The Victorian house and barn are situated on five acres of beautiful grounds, manicured gardens, and romantic woodlands. Owners Bill and Nichole Phelps, together with their horses, dogs, and farm animals, welcome to-be-weds for their special wedding celebrations.

We had our wedding on 6/22/2024 at Angel & Anchor Farm with 125 guests. It was absolutely the best day ever thanks to the venue owners, Bill and Nicole. The venue is absolutely stunning. There are so many spots on the farm for your ceremony, for photos, etc. The farm was in full bloom in June as well. The bridal and groomsmen suite were also stunning, and offered a beautiful and cozy space for everyone to get ready in the morning. Bill and Nicole are also incredible. They truly did everything possible to make our wedding day so special. We didn't have to worry about a single thing, they were on it. From making adjusting for weather, setting up our beautiful reception tent, to attending the fire and more, they made our day absolutely flawless. If anything went wrong, my husband and I didn't know about it because Bill and Nicole just took care of it. We absolutely loved our wedding day and our guests kept saying the same. The farm is sprawling and offers so much space for guests to walk around and mingle. Everyone truly had an amazing time. Couldn't recommend the venue enough.
Jackie C., 4 months ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.2

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

We could not have been happier to have our wedding reception at Watermill! It was absolutely incredible! For our December wedding, it was so beautifully decorated for Christmas it created such an inviting and festive atmosphere. There are also so many spots to take pictures on the grounds that you don’t have to find another location between or before your ceremony and reception. In the few short weeks since our wedding, we have received so many compliments about Watermill! Our guests were blown away by the extensive cocktail hour selection and we were told “it was the best wedding food they’ve ever had.” The 9 dinner options were not only so amazing and tasty, but truly accommodated all dietary needs. The staff was AMAZING- huge shout out to Rob, Sean, Jessica and Erika! No need for a DOC here- they set up everything that we brought to Watermill without any issues. Even placing a personalized ornament at each place setting — for 280 people. Our bridal attendants and Sean kept drinks in our hand all night long and ensured that everything ran smoothly. We are hoping that someone in our lives decides to get married at Watermill in the future so we can go back and enjoy it as guests! Thank you so much Watermill for a truly unforgettable day! -Meghan & Connor 12/16/23
Meghan C., 10 months ago

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About wedding venues in Southold, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Southold, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Southold, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $10,000.

What types of venues can I find in Southold, NY?

Southold offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Southold, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Halyard at Sound View Greenport, Bourne Mansion and Stonebridge Country Club. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Southold, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (52% in Southold do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Southold do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Southold, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Southold, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Southold can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Southold, NY offer?

The venues in Southold, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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