Bourne Mansion

Guest capacity

Up to 300 seated guests

About this venue

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Seated guest capacity

1-300

Venue type

Ballrooms, Banquet Halls
Historic Estates, Mansions

Venue setting

Indoor

Oakdale, NY 11769

Available services that can be provided by Bourne Mansion

Services & amenities

Bar services
Catering services
Clean up
Dance floor
Dressing room / Bridal Suite
Event coordinator
Event staff
Liability insurance
Lighting/Sound
Service staff
Set up
Wheelchair accessible

Transportation & access

Self parking - free
Valet - paid

Rentals

Sound / AV

Reviews

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Elegant, classy, timeless. Bourne is perfection!
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•Sara C.•Jan 15
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING! The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Elegant and amazing wedding
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•Victoria F.•Jan 22, 2024
We had our wedding at Bourne Mansion on Saturday and the venue exceeded all of our expectations. The rooms are stunning, the staff are incredible, and the food was outstanding. I cannot imagine a better place for our wedding. Miriam was amazing throughout the whole planning process and was so easily accessible for any questions or concerns. Steve Melita was unbelievably helpful and kept the night on track while still having fun! You will not regret getting married here!
Our Bourne Mansion Wedding
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•Keesan B.•Sep 4, 2023
We had the best night at the Bourne Mansion. We couldn’t have asked for a better wedding day. Throughout the process Miriam was very helpful. She was easy to communicate with and was there to answer every question. Our Maitre’d Steve was amazing. I was able to enjoy the wedding without having to worry about what was happening next. He handled the night with the utmost professionalism. The venue was beautiful and our guest enjoyed the food.
The most magical night!
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•Kim C.•Jul 25, 2023
I had my wedding on 7/15/23 at Bourne Mansion and I don’t think I could say more glowing things about the entire experience. From the second we sat down the Miriam, we knew that this was the venue. She was beyond helpful and available for all of our questions big or small from the start. She had amazing suggestions and wonderful vendor choices. I don’t think our wedding would have been the same if we didn’t listen to almost everything she told us to do. Steve was also incredible from our meeting the week prior to the day of, he was right there for anything we needed and was like a drill sergeant making sure everything went on time which was much appreciated. There was a chance that there would have been rain which would have ruined our firework show and Steve made sure that the kitchen rushed the food out so we could get the show started before anything happened. All our guests have raved about the food and how there was enough to feed a small army. As anyone who gets married knows me and my husband weren’t able to indulge in everything but what we ate was AMAZING and I literally can’t stop thinking about the sushi. I could go on and on about how Miriam, Steve and the entire Bourne staff made our night incredible!! I highly recommend choosing Bourne for your wedding!