The Best Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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10 Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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The Boathouse Shelter Island 

5.0

Shelter Island, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Boathouse Shelter Island is a private event space located on Shelter Island at the Island Boatyard and Marina. The recently renovated, 4,000 square foot space features over 200 feet of waterfront and incredible sunset views overlooking West Neck Harbor. The historic building, dating back to the 1920's, was originally used as boat storage. Today, it debuts a new look with versatility for any stylish event. Grammy award winning musician and East End resident Billy Joel recorded his album, River of Dreams, at The Boathouse in 1993.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
Working with Megan and the boathouse team was a dream. They're attention to detail and willing to work with us as a couple and our vendors was unmatched. The venue itself is the perfect place to plan a wedding. It's a blank slate and so working with our event designers, we were able to create the most incredible reception space with views of the bay and a cocktail party that our guests are still talking about to this day. If I could relive our day at the Boathouse I would do it over and over again. I recommend this venue and the team that supports it to anyone who is looking to host a wedding out on long island or Shelter Island in particular.
Sarah, 5 years ago
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The Winston (next to St. Pauls Church) 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,000

The Winston, located in the heart of Patchogue, NY, is a charming and versatile wedding venue designed to bring your unique vision to life. Featuring a historic chapel and a separate reception hall, our space is perfect for couples seeking a customizable, affordable, and purpose-driven venue. Whether you’re a DIY couple ready to design every detail or prefer a stress-free experience with the help of our trusted partners in planning, decor, and catering, The Winston offers the flexibility to suit your needs. Our venue is more than a place to celebrate—it’s an opportunity to make a difference. A portion of every booking supports local nonprofits, including food pantries and community initiatives, ensuring that your special day also creates a meaningful impact. With weekday pricing, full-day rental options, and in-house catering partnerships, The Winston provides an approachable alternative to the typical Long Island wedding venue. Tours are available now!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
The Winston next to St. Paul's Church was an excellent choice for our venue. From the beginning, they were easy to book and very responsive to our needs. The space was incredibly versatile, allowing me to highlight my business and teach my weekly classes. On the day of the wedding, the team was there early to help us set up and clean up afterwards, which was a huge help. They also offered us bulk booking discounts, which was greatly appreciated. Overall, I loved working with the team at The Winston and would highly recommend them to any couple looking for a beautiful, flexible venue.
Mike, 19 days ago
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The Lake House 

5.0

Wolcott, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Lake House catering facility is located within steps of its own private lake. Situated on over 19 acres, privacy and sophistication adorn you from the moment you arrive. Designed and built to capture unsurpassed lake views from every seat, The Lake House delivers the finest service and cutting-edge cuisine to satisfy the most discerning of palates.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides event staff
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
I can’t even put into words how special my wedding was thanks to The Lake House (but I’m going to try lol). I found this location on Zola and when I contacted the owner, Paul, it was like speaking to an old friend even though we had never met before. He is so sincere and thoughtful and has the best tips and tricks for wedding planning. I never hired a wedding planner and I was a little overwhelmed in the beginning of my planning process but Paul was there every step of the way for me. He answered all my emails filled with dumb questions and he advised me in the best way. Carole, my wedding coordinator at the venue, was an absolute gem as well and made things so easy. My wedding was 11/16/24 (the last wedding of their season!) and I still have guests telling me how fantastic everything was. Especially the FOOD. I truly dream about the filet mignon and tiramisu we had about twice a week lol. I can’t say enough amazing things about this venue. I would have my next birthday party here just so I can see Paul and Carole again and eat more of the delicious food lol. The location is GORGEOUS and they truly made my wedding the best night of my entire life.
Nicole M., 11 days ago
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Century Ballroom at the Bristol Event Center 

5.0

Bristol, CT
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Century Ballroom at the Bristol Event Center is a dream come true for couples who love to dance. This spacious venue boasts advanced lighting and sound systems, creating the perfect ambiance for a lively and unforgettable celebration. The elegant design and ample space allow for a variety of wedding styles, from classic to contemporary. With top-notch service and a dedicated staff, the Century Ballroom ensures that every wedding is a unique and joyous occasion, filled with lasting memories.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a chic vibe
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Would like to give Bristol Event Center another applause, from the architecture, the food, down to the staffs, and very special shout-out to Sarah J., for helping us create our dream wedding! I love the fact that Sarah made it so easy to approach her with anything we need. It’s not easy planning a wedding all the way from California, but she helped made it happen. I remember visiting BEC when it was still being built, having to tour with hard hats and everything was all framework and foundation. Sarah went over with us how BEC became established and also showed my wife and I how it’s going to look and we just decided to take that leap of faith and go with them due to how we were able to connect! When we came to check it out when we were visiting town, we were speechless on how beautiful everything was. My cousins and my wedding coordinator did the taste testing for us and they said BEC gave them an experience they never experienced before. If you’re booking a venue to please your crowd, your crowd will definitely have a positive experience they will remember for a very long time. I’ve been to numerous weddings myself and this venue definitely captured my eyes and my stomach (food is amazing). THANK YOU SARAH, RICH, JULIA, STEVE, JEFFREY, AND THE WHOLE TEAM, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!! - Kristine & Do
Kristine & D., 2 months ago

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About wedding venues in Southold, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Southold, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Southold, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Southold, NY?

Southold offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Southold, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, The Halyard at Sound View Greenport and Bourne Mansion. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Southold, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Southold do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Southold do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Southold, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Southold, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Southold can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Southold, NY offer?

The venues in Southold, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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