Barker House in Scituate, MA, is a quintessential New England wedding venue with a rich history and an idyllic setting. The historic tavern, originally built in 1634, offers a charming and romantic atmosphere with exposed beams, cozy fireplaces, and elegant décor. The venue features multiple event spaces, including the Williams Room, New England Room, and a secluded garden courtyard. With exceptional service and attention to detail, the team helps couples create their wedding with helpful all-inclusive packages, recommended vendors, and a wedding planning guide - lean on the team as much or as little as you want. Barker House blends historic charm and modern amenities, making it a premier wedding destination on the South Shore of Massachusetts.

Tucked away along the banks of Lake Massapoag, Saphire Estate’s charming manor house and sprawling grounds are the pinnacle of New England perfection. With inspiring lakefront views, lavish fountains set amidst lush gardens and picturesque woods, Saphire Estate offers a multitude of photo opportunities to tell your love story. A newly constructed, separate cocktail space boasts a cozy fireplace, gold chandeliers, and a quartz bar top juxtaposed by a variety of rich textures and stunning millwork. The entire estate, grounds, and fully modern amenities are yours alone to enjoy on your special day. Among Saphire Event Group's four venues—Saphire Estate, The Villa, Avenir, and The Lakehouse—we pride ourselves in maintaining fresh, well-appointed, and up-to-date surroundings. Our expertly trained staff have a singular focus: creating the picturesque backdrop for the biggest event of your life. We keep an eye on every detail, so you can keep your eye on making memories!

Nestled among historic homes and cobblestone streets in New Bedford, Massachusetts, the Whaling Museum offers a distinctive venue for any special occasion. You and your guests will enjoy a spectacular waterfront view, stunning works of art, unique collections, and the wow factor of having the world's largest ship model at the center of your celebration.

Tickets Restaurant & Patio boasts stunning ocean views. We specialize in events surrounding weddings, such as rehearsal dinners, post-wedding pizza parties, brunches, welcome parties, showers & more! We are also affiliated with The Atlantic Beach Hotel just across the street, which has over 100 guestrooms.

Memorable Hospitality Since 1926. Located atop downtown Newport’s Historic Hill neighborhood, Hotel Viking opened to an awestruck public almost a century ago. As a member of the prestigious Historic Hotels of America, our Newport RI luxury hotel holds a special place in history. From the original key boxes located behind the Front Desk, to the 1926 brass letterbox in the Lobby, the hotel offers a wonderful combination of style, comfort, and modern amenities. More than a building or a name, we are an iconic and important landmark in the Newport landscape. We are inspired by and committed to the unique experiences for our guests: past, present, and future.

Ochre Court holds a rich history, having been built between 1890 and 1895 as the summer residence of Ogden Goelet. It's truly a magnificent location, nestled within the heart of the picturesque Salve Regina University campus, boasting breathtaking views of the Newport Cliff Walk. All ceremonies must take place in our Chapel or off site and you must pick from one of our preferred caterers. If you're interested in taking a tour of Ochre Court firsthand, I would be delighted to arrange a personalized tour for you.

Come sail Newport, Rhode Island and Narragansett Bay, where you'll find some of the finest sailing in the world. Pre-or post-wedding sails aboard Aquidneck are the quintessential Newport activity for your wedding guests! Whether you hold your ceremony onboard or show your wedding guests Newport from the water, a sail aboard Aquidneck is a terrific and memorable activity for all. No sailing experience is required. A Newport wedding aboard Aquidneck makes for a unique and unforgettable event. Newport has one of the prettiest harbors in the U.S. and is the sailing capital of the world. We know every inch of the harbor and bay and can provide the perfect backdrop for your special day. You'll see stately seaside estates, world famous yachts and America's Cup racers all against the stunning backdrop of a historic colonial town and picturesque, rocky shoreline. Sailing in Newport is fantastic. Welcome aboard!

Gardiner’s collection of indoor and outdoor spaces offers waterfront events, unmatched proximity to all that Newport offers, distinctive style, and more than 6,000 square feet of blissful enjoyment for hotel guests — and gatherings of up to 220. From fantastic fêtes and executive retreats to wedding weekends and best friend getaways, our beautiful, thoughtfully designed spaces exceed every need and elevate every occasion. Your vision is our vision...

At Shining Tides, Weddings by the Sea, we are dedicated to bringing you your dream wedding. Located on the picture-perfect Mattapoisett Harbor, Shining Tides Weddings is sure to bring you a night to remember. With an event coordinator who is there for all your needs, you will only have to focus on saying "I do!" Consistent with the Y’s mission to promote and encourage life-long development for children and families through programs that build healthy spirits, minds, and bodies, proceeds from events booked at Shining Tides help to provide scholarship funds for children who otherwise could not afford to attend summer camp. Sharing the love you feel on your wedding day through a connection that extends even beyond your wedding guests and into the greater community creates a truly memorable and gratifying event.

Harbor Lights, located on scenic Warwick Neck, RI, is a one-of-a-kind destination property offering an unrivaled combination of recreational and social amenities, including boating, sailing, swimming, golf, dining, wedding + banquet facilities. At the center of the Harbor Lights experience is the our newly re-designed clubhouse, a modern-day interpretation of classic New England shingle-style architecture. Our elegant Grand Ballroom, along with the Back 9 Grill, has the flexibility to accommodate receptions, parties, weddings and meetings of all sizes, from intimate gatherings to spectacular affairs of up to 275 guests.

Overlooking beautiful Narragansett Bay, the Quidnessett Country Club is the flagship property of the many-faceted Jan Companies. Nicholas Janikies, president of the Jan Companies, a well-known and respected Rhode Island businessman, conceived the idea of a distinctive country club for Rhode Island and developed the exquisitely beautiful golf course and country club. When you require the services of an exceptional banquet and function facility, contact Quidnessett Country Club located just 20 minutes from downtown Providence on the East Greenwich/North Kingstown border. At the club, the banquet rooms are magnificent, the food superb, the service and attention to detail uncompromising, and the atmosphere warm and charming… a visual feast for the senses. Want the perfect wedding in the perfect location?

Aqua Blue Hotel is a wedding venue and hotel located in Narragansett, Rhode Island. With beautiful ocean views and a beach setting, this venue is perfect for a coastal and elegant wedding. Aqua Blue Hotel offers many wedding packages that the couple can choose from. Along with their many spacious suites for you and your guests, they will also provide you with an exquisite bridal suite so you can properly get ready before your big day. The Grand Ballroom is a beautiful event space with floor to ceiling windows looking out at Narragansett Town Beach, this space holds up to 250 guests. Aqua Blue Hotel is also the home to Saffire Steakhouse featuring a private dining room perfect for showers and brunches.The hotel is located within a short drive or walk to multiple beaches, including Narragansett Town Beach, Captain Roger Wheeler State Beach, Salty Brine State Beach and Scarborough State Beach.

As Cape Cod’s premier event venue, Sea Crest Beach Resort’s venue spaces are nestled along the coast’s most breathtaking spots, providing a stunning backdrop for your wedding. With 30,000 square feet of event space, including an elegant ballroom and a breezy outdoor terrace, our versatile venues are perfect for celebrations of all styles and sizes. From intimate micro-weddings and rehearsal dinners to lavish wedding ceremonies and receptions under the stars, our on-site event specialists will work with you every step of the way to bring your dream celebration to life.

Celebrate your special day with us at The Flying Bridge, where we offer a variety of stunning options for both ceremonies and receptions. This elegant venue features a grand stairway entrance, floor-to-ceiling windows, and a wraparound deck that provides panoramic views of Falmouth Harbor and Vineyard Sound. The space boasts a luxurious marble-top bar, a spacious dance floor, and ample room for live entertainment or a DJ. A unique feature of this room is the wall of accordion glass doors, which open to the deck, offering a seamless transition between the indoor and outdoor celebrations. For those seeking additional options, we also offer the Falmouth Tides Hotel for convenient room blocks, and our beach or roof deck ceremonies provide an enchanting backdrop for your vows. Please inquire about our menu options and ask for more details about our various offerings to make your wedding day truly unforgettable.

Galilee Beach Club is a coastal wedding venue located on the southernmost tip of Narragansett, Rhode Island in the historic Port of Galilee. Nestled by 250 feet of sandy beachfront access and a cozy atmosphere, Galilee Beach Club is the only area venue that can host a memorable ceremony on the sand and under the stars. Galilee Beach Club is an ideal place to orchestrate a destination wedding within Rhode Island. With our rolling waves, ocean air and endless horizon, Galilee Beach Club's shoreline is the perfect backdrop for celebrating life’s special moments. From an idyllic beach ceremony, to sunset cocktails on the deck and an elegant and tasteful reception in our oceanside dining room, your wedding will be perfect from start to finish. End the evening with a fire-pit under the stars. With our serene views of the Atlantic Ocean, and the stately backdrop of our historic clubhouse, your celebration will literally be a picture-perfect event.

Juniper Place offers a stunning location to exchange wedding vows and celebrate significant moments on Martha's Vineyard. An extraordinary setting, we pride ourselves on helping to make special occasions as memorable as possible. We offer picturesque ceremony areas as well as a stunning reception space. Contact us to learn more.

Nestled along 500 feet of pristine shoreline, this one-of-a-kind Massachusetts waterfront venue features floor-to-ceiling windows, organic textures, and natural tones, creating an atmosphere of effortless luxury. Designed for exclusivity, The Lakehouse hosts one event at a time, ensuring your special day is uniquely yours. Enjoy an indoor-outdoor cocktail experience, a dreamy courtyard, and an expansive ballroom offering stunning sunset views as the perfect backdrop for your wedding. As a unique alternative to Newport, Cape Cod, and the Islands, The Lakehouse is set to become the premier destination for Massachusetts waterfront weddings. We are excited to announce the renovation has been completed as of June 2024! Stay tuned while we gather updated photos. *Renderings pictured are not an exact representation of the final product, but a close approximation of the design plan. SAPHIRE EVENT GROUP VENUES: Avenir | The Lakehouse | Saphire Estate | The Villa

As a Couples Choice Award winner for the past four years, and with over 130 years of experience, countless couples have trusted Harbor View Hotel for their wedding. This iconic hotel is the premier luxury hotel on Martha’s Vineyard and a preferred choice for the most discerning guests from A-list celebrities, politicians, famous musicians, and athletes to travelers from around the world. Harbor View Hotel is a member of several prestigious travel networks, including Amex Fine Hotels and Resorts and Virtuoso Travel Network due to the hard work and dedication of our highly trained team, as well as our top-tier accommodations, award-winning restaurant, and one-of-a-kind setting. Overlooking Edgartown Harbor and Lighthouse Beach, Harbor View Hotel is a romantic oasis in the historic village of Edgartown, surrounded by a stunning array of island activities. A 45-minute ferry ride or a direct flight from 12 cities will transport you and your guests to a dreamy, storybook setting.

Discover Lake Pearl Wrentham. Set on 25 lushly landscaped acres overlooking a picturesque lake of the same name, our estate event venue is a landmark destination in New England for meetings, weddings, and great gatherings alike. Offering more than 15,000 square feet of newly refreshed venues, most with captivating water views, the beauty of our space is surpassed only by our superior service. Experience the hidden gem that is Lake Pearl Wrentham. Lake Pearl Wrentham is a uniquely designed multi event property that provides private entryways for every event space, dedicated restroom facilities for each group, separate cocktail/pre-function spaces with private bars and connected salons/wedding suites with en-suite restrooms. From Weddings and Special Occasions, to Corporate Events and Catering Services, our experienced team looks forward to providing exceptional service for you and your guests

Built in 1852, The Spring House Hotel is considered one of Block Island’s most elegant historic landmarks. With its well-maintained red mansard roof, large wraparound veranda, distinctive cupola, and breathtaking view of the Atlantic Ocean and Block Island’s foothills, it is no wonder why the hotel is included among New England’s most desirable destinations. Our season runs from May through October, allowing you and your guests to take advantage of Block Island's natural beauty. We offer rental of our entire facility for larger parties, and exclusive use of our tented back patio for smaller parties.

The Cape Cod wedding without the chaos. We have an amazing venue with breathtaking views overlooking Duxbury Bay. Our space includes a waterside hydrangea lined lawn area, covered porch, Sperry Tent over beautifully paved patio, a stunning hall upstairs with floor to ceiling window views of the bay connected to an outdoor deck.

Crystal Lake Golf Club is an 18 hole Golf Course built on the shores of Beautiful Crystal Lake in Mapleville, RI. We have a full Club House with Pro Shop, Restaraunt, Function Room, Locker Rooms and Member's Lounge. The 23,000 sq. foot clubhouse opened a year later in May of 2004 consisting of the scenic Waterfront Room with a seating capacity of 225 and Tavern with accommodations of 100 people for lunch and dinner everyday during the golf season.

Nestled in a quiet cove on the scenic shores of Lake Nipmuc, Grand View provides a stunning backdrop to create lasting memories. Our charming New England setting, with nine acres of landscaped grounds and manicured gardens, offers panoramic waterfront views from every vista as well as a small private beach and fire pit. The only single-event venue in the region, Grand View is the perfect location for your dream wedding! We cannot wait to host you at our spectacular venue!

Nestled on the scenic Atlantic coast in Rhode Island, Ocean House has been named one of the “World’s Best Hotels and Resorts” by Travel + Leisure, Condé Nast, Fodor’s and other notable organizations. Originally built just after the Civil War, Ocean House is perched high on the bluffs in the charming seaside Watch Hill village. The property re-opened its doors in 2010 after a $140 million historic rebuild. Today, guests enjoy waterfront views from the resort’s 49 guestrooms and 20 signature suites. A variety of casual and fine dining options plus the Ocean & Harvest Spa, complimentary resort activities including culinary classes, art experiences, complimentary croquet, movies and more make Ocean House a perfect destination for weddings, events and luxury escapes. Ocean House is a member of Relais & Châteaux and is one of only 12 hotels in the world to receive triple five stars from Forbes Travel Guide for accommodations, dining and spa.

Our private oceanfront setting on Cape Cod’s beautiful south side is the ultimate backdrop for your seaside wedding. The Red Jacket Beach Resort has a newly remodeled ballroom in 2024 and is available for your wedding ceremony and reception from early April through late June, September and October (we do not host weddings during the months of July and August). Our professional planners will work with you to arrange an unforgettable occasion for up to 180 guests in our private ballroom room overlooking the ocean. The Red Jacket Beach Resort & Spa features 150 guest rooms and 14 multi-bedroom villas with everything to make your guests feel at home during your Cape Cod wedding. With everything they need right on site, no one has to worry about traveling during your wedding celebration.

Pachaug Cottages hosts a lakeside 40x60ft heavy timber frame pavilion and seasonal cottages to host your wedding! Conveniently located near the Rhode Island / Connecticut border on Pachaug Pond, the property is within driving range of several international airports (Providence, Hartford, Boston). Contact us today to book a tour!

Lighthouse Inn is an historic ocean front resort. The main section of the hotel was built as a Lighthouse In 1855. It is still a working lighthouse today. We are able to host events up to 230 guests. There are 80 bedrooms on the property scattered over 7 oceanfront acres. The facility sets up very well for a weekend event. A buffet breakfast is included with the accommodations. Wedding packages include. All the tables, chairs, dishes, white linens, chairs for the ceremony, and coordinating services. There are many food options to consider. We are always happy to accommodate special requests. Let us help you create memories to last a lifetime.

Conveniently located just five miles south of Boston, The Best Western Adams Inn Quincy-Boston offers a stunning waterfront setting for your special day. With breathtaking views of the Neponset River and easy access to the city's attractions, our venue is the perfect choice for couples seeking a memorable and convenient wedding experience. Our modern accommodations provide a comfortable and relaxing stay for you and your guests, while our on-site Adams Pub offers delicious New England cuisine in a cozy atmosphere. Whether you're planning a small, intimate gathering or a large celebration, The Best Western Adams Inn Quincy-Boston has everything you need to create a truly unforgettable wedding.

There’s nothing quite like celebrating the union of those we love. From the opulent, yet timeless ambiance to the award-winning food and breathtaking location, our mission at Venezia is to bring the unforgettable wedding you’ve always dreamed of to life

Merrill’s on the Waterfront is the Perfect Harbor View Venue for Your Special Occasions Located in historic downtown New Bedford, MA, the private and semi-private function areas at Merrill’s on the Waterfront each have a unique atmosphere and water view. Even in our dining room, every table has a magnificent view of the Harbor. Our in-house catering professionals and event coordinator will work with you every step of the way to ensure that your party is executed perfectly. Lafrance Hospitality has over 60 years of event experience as well as renowned service and menus. We would like to welcome you to host your event at Merrill’s on the Waterfront.

Newport Harbor Island Resort offers an all-encompassing wedding experience. Our location on Goat Island boasts unobstructed views of Narragansett Bay, Newport Harbor, and the iconic Newport Bridge, creating the quintessential coastal New England setting. You are sure to find an event space that suits your style, from the intimate Newport Harbor Lighthouse to our stately ballrooms.

Forty 1° North brings a modern elegance to historic Newport. Marrying a cool and casual luxury with the excitement of our downtown waterfront setting, we offer the best of Newport to all our guests including a sense of eco-consciousness beginning with our LEED-certified hotel, the first of its kind in Rhode Island. Glamorous, sophisticated and cosmopolitan weddings is what we do. With over 16,500 square feet of waterfront event space, we can design bespoke experiences for wedding groups of 20 to 300 guests. Experience modern service and create your unique menu with our highly talented and experienced culinary professionals no matter the space you choose.

Nestled in the quiet seaside neighborhood of Oakland Beach, is this hidden waterfront gem. The venue offers a beautiful scenic view of Narragansett Bay. Spectacular sunsets help make this the perfect location for Anniversary Celebrations, Retirement Parties, Birthday Parties, Engagement Parties, Rehearsal Dinners, Bridal showers, Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties, Wedding Ceremonies, Holiday Parties, etc… This quintessential New England restaurant provides exceptional cuisine and dining options, top-of-the-line service, and attention to detail that will exceed your expectations.

Potowomut Golf Club is a private club that has been in existence since 1927 and we have seen our fair share of all different kinds of events. Our location is perfect for weddings, dinner dances, baby & bridal showers, and holiday parties alike. Our golf course is the ideal setting for photo opportunities of our water fountain feature and beautiful sunsets. We offer plenty of gluten free, vegetarian and vegan options to suit all different palates. We are also wheel chair friendly and we have plenty of open availability both off and in season. We are happy to customize the menu to your specifications, so if you have something in mind that you do not see offered on the menu just let us know. You may also customize the bar and beverage offerings however you see fit. We do not hold multiple events at the same time so that we can focus on the details and keep your guests and our members happy. We hope that you choose Potowomut Golf Club to create memories that will last a lifetime.

The NYLO Providence Warwick Hotel is inspired by the building's history, once the site of the Fruit of the Loom textile mill. Beautifully situated along the Pawtuxet River the hotel blends comfortable style with urban cool. Each of our 163 loft-style guestrooms feature soaring ceilings, exposed brick walls and inspiring wide-angle views of the River. The NYLO offers the Loft Bar & Restaurant and Riverfront Deck which can accommodate seated functions up to 150 people.

Casually elegant Café Nuovo, at the Gondola Landing on Providence's famed Riverwalk, has been unabashedly singled out by the Providence Journal as Rhode Island's contribution to "world-class" dining. Through glass curtain walls or while dining al fresco on the outdoor piazza, patrons enjoy commanding views of the new Providence skyline while the river and gondolas roll by their romantic Café Nuovo perch. Café Nuovo reinvents itself with each new culinary creation. So, expect the unexpected...salads arranged as centerpieces, entrees making grand entrances, desserts that dazzle...to keep you coming back, again and again.

Welcome to Soprano’s by the sea in Falmouth. Our oceanfront location makes for a wonderful dining experience. Join us on the deck for classic Italian cuisine and a beautiful view of Martha’s Vineyard. We have first and second level seating, as well as our spectacular Vineyard Room, the perfect spot for your special event. With a full service bar and spacious dance floor, we can accommodate up to 100 people for any function. We invite intimate weddings, rehearsal dinners, corporate/community meetings, and parties of all types.

White Cliffs Country Club is a gated oceanfront community that encompasses over 130 acres located in "America’s Hometown," Plymouth, Massachusetts (settled in 1620). White Cliffs Country Club aspires to be a preeminent member-focused club and oceanfront living community on the South Shore of Massachusetts. The combination of our exceptional views, inviting dining, superb recreational amenities, sporting facilities and engaging social and athletic programming fosters a strong sense of community and connection among our members. Thoroughly grounded in our history, we stand ready to create new traditions and cherished memories.

Nauticus Marina was built in 1985, as one of the home bases for building/training of the American3, leading to victory of the America’s Cup in 1992. A few years after the win, the Marina was turned into a rental dock for boat lovers/owners everywhere. Eventually knowing the amazing space was being underutilized, it was finally opened to weddings and events to the public. Today we offer exclusive use of our venue for your special event including, but not limited to, weddings, brunches, birthday parties, fundraisers etc.

Situated on Block Island’s beautiful Great Salt Pond, Champlin’s is one of New England’s largest resorts and marinas. The natural beauty, historical charm, and laid-back vibe you can only find on Block Island ensure a lifetime of experiences: whether just for one day or an entire summer. From soaking in the view from the top of the Mohegan Bluffs and visiting the animals at Abrams Animal Farm, to exploring the famous North LightHouse and shopping local boutiques on Water Street, Block Island offers the coastal charm and stunning scenic views that everyone can enjoy!

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The Narragansett Inn is on beautiful Block Island, RI and sits on the Great Salt Pond. The covered porch can accommodate smaller, intimate groups and the lawn is available for larger tented events. We provide on-site catering services, although outside caterers are welcome.

Weekapaug Inn is an award-winning, Forbes Five-Star historic inn, named one of the "Best Hotels in the World" by Travel + Leisure and the #1 Hotel in the Northeast by T+L’s Readers’ Choice Awards. A member of Relais & Chateaux, the property is a natural gem that is nestled on the scenic Atlantic Coast, surrounded by a salt pond and overlooking a barrier beach. Guests can enjoy 33 guest rooms including four two-bedroom Signature Suites, memorable dining options, a new MeetingHouse with retractable windows, sweeping waterfront views, an outdoor pool and access to a private community beach. The property's dedicated on-staff Naturalist helps guests of all ages discover and engage with their surroundings, with guided beach walks, boating excursions, biking, bird watching, stargazing, and more.

Host your wedding, family reunion or company outing for up to 60 guests in our lavish oceanfront properties for less than hotel costs with spectacular ocean views just steps to the ocean. Enjoy a stress-free vacation by renting one or more of our houses today! Four Amazing Sand Hills Beach Properties for Rent If you are fantasizing about having a wedding by the ocean or hosting a glorious beach family reunion, Scituate Oceanside Rentals can make it happen. We rent fully furnished upscale houses along the coast of Scituate, MA to vacationers, companies, and anyone in need of a spectacular venue.

Founded in 1929, Mystic Seaport Museum is the nation’s leading maritime museum—and one of Mystic’s most visited attractions—created to gather and preserve the rapidly disappearing artifacts of America’s seafaring past. This19-acre destination is comprised of numerous on-site eateries and food outlets, as well as a robust offering of private dining and event spaces. It also includes a recreated New England coastal village, a working shipyard, formal exhibit halls, and state-of-the-art artifact storage facilities.

The Haley Mansion located just outside of downtown Mystic CT is a year round destination for any season. With a vibrant downtown and plenty of local attractions, The Haley Mansion is the perfect wedding venue with breathtaking views and accommodations. From restaurant patio to garden views and pools, this resort has it all. Create your story here in Mystic.

Mystic Yachting Club’s stunning newly renovated spaces and exclusive secluded locale provide the perfect backdrop for your big day, with stunning indoor and outdoor venues spread out over two floors. Versatile venues include an elegant second-level ballroom with 360° panoramic views of the tranquil Mystic River, a clubhouse, and a wrap-around covered deck. With our sole focus on making your special day all that you dreamed it would be, we schedule just one wedding per day so our team can attend to your needs—from the largest to the smallest of details that will delight both you and your guests.

Wine pioneer and vintner Raffaele Bruno created the Boston Winery in 2006. Mr. Bruno grew up in Abruzzi, Italy crafting fine wines with his forefathers. It was this tradition of quality and care bound by family that you will find in everything you see in us today. In every sip, every smile, and every moment of significance, these values live on. It comes down to one simple truth: family isn’t about us, it starts and ends with you.