The Best Hotel & Resort Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

The Best Hotel & Resort Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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25 Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 4 years ago
The Boathouse Shelter Island 

5.0

Shelter Island, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Boathouse Shelter Island is a private event space located on Shelter Island at the Island Boatyard and Marina. The recently renovated, 4,000 square foot space features over 200 feet of waterfront and incredible sunset views overlooking West Neck Harbor. The historic building, dating back to the 1920's, was originally used as boat storage. Today, it debuts a new look with versatility for any stylish event. Grammy award winning musician and East End resident Billy Joel recorded his album, River of Dreams, at The Boathouse in 1993.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
Working with Megan and the boathouse team was a dream. They're attention to detail and willing to work with us as a couple and our vendors was unmatched. The venue itself is the perfect place to plan a wedding. It's a blank slate and so working with our event designers, we were able to create the most incredible reception space with views of the bay and a cocktail party that our guests are still talking about to this day. If I could relive our day at the Boathouse I would do it over and over again. I recommend this venue and the team that supports it to anyone who is looking to host a wedding out on long island or Shelter Island in particular.
Sarah, 5 years ago
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The Halyard at Sound View Greenport 

5.0

Greenport, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

A home for weddings, celebrations, or the perfect sound side cocktail party, Sound View Greenport is the newly renovated, boutique Resort on the North Fork, with the ability to host events up to 200 guests (with a full venue buyout) or a small intimate wedding in our Library room, up to 50 guests. The convivial atmosphere and timeless charm of our spaces and grounds will provide you and your guests with memories to last a lifetime. Whether it is saying “I Do” on our private beach or celebrating a bridal shower or rehearsal dinner in our cozy library, our catering team is on hand to create a tailor-made event for your enjoyment. The Halyard can accommodate a seated wedding with dance floor for up to 130 guests and can offer a cocktail style reception for larger groups up to 150. Create the wedding weekend of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site bridal suite
After visiting The Haylard, my then-fiancé and I knew it was the perfect wedding venue! From the location, to the food, to the staff, everything contributed to make it the most special day. Caroline is truly amazing and made sure every last detail was coordinated so that we did not need to worry in the slightest on the day of. She is beyond thoughtful and put so much care into making sure our day was perfect (even despite a last minute move to an indoor ceremony). Nothing missed a beat. Our guests told us countless times during and after the wedding that it was the best wedding they had every been to, that it was the best wedding food they had ever been to and they couldn't stop raving about Greenport and the Halyard. There is not enough space to say all the wonderful things about the staff and the venue that I would like to, but my husband and I could not recommend the Halyard more. It was a perfect day! We're ready to do it again!
Tessa, a year ago
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Beech Tree Cottages 

5.0

Madison, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

Please contact us DIRECTLY via email or phone, which can be found on our website | BEECH TREE COTTAGES is a charming outdoor venue featuring a tented patio and open lawn surrounded by a collection of vintage cottages. The property is best suited for those planning a garden or backyard style event with weekend accommodation for their bridal party or guests. We provide in-house catering, staffing, and event coordinating.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets
I photographed the wedding of one of the daughters of the family that owns Beech Tree Cottages in September 2019 and fell absolutely in love with this venue! It is such a magical corner of Connecticut that creates the perfect creative pallet for any couple planning their wedding. It has a unique history and the family behind the operation is so lovely. I highly recommend reaching out to see if Beech Tree Cottages is the perfect venue for you!
Katie O. Photos, 4 years ago
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Water's Edge Resort and Spa 

5.0

Westbrook, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

It seems like most of our best memories happened around water: swimming lessons in the pool, overnight camp at the lake, family vacations along the shore. At least in the Northeast, something seems to call us back to those times. Well, Water’s Edge Resort & Spa is on the water and hosts the best and most memorable weddings on the beach and in our ballrooms. Less than two hours from New York and Boston and under 45 minutes from Hartford, Water’s Edge has been welcoming brides, grooms and their families for decades. Our wedding team is client focused and responsive to your questions, thoughts and ideas. Listening is an enormous priority because we know that attention to detail defines a perfectly executed wedding. Traditional or unconventional, festive or understated, intimate or formal—your wedding will reflect your vision, your personality, all in front of a one-of-a-kind back drop along the Water’s Edge. Winner of the “Number One Wedding Destination in Connecticut” year after year.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No built-in audiovisual options
From the moment we inquired about hosting our wedding at Water's Edge Resort and Spa, the staff was incredibly responsive and on time with all of their communications. Their attention to detail and commitment to ensuring our special day was evident in every interaction. They were always available, even after hours, to address any questions or concerns we had. The venue itself was stunning, and the culinary team delivered an unforgettable dining experience for our guests. Many people are still asking us about our cake! We are so grateful to the entire Water's Edge team for making our wedding day truly magical. Especially Melody who was so easygoing and very detail oriented throughout the entire process.
Isabela S., 2 months ago
The Garden City Hotel 

5.0

Garden City, NY
  • Up to 425 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Garden City Hotel enjoys a longstanding tradition of hosting many of Long Island’s most magnificent weddings and celebrations. From festive engagement parties to gala wedding receptions (and every celebration in between), you can count on us to deliver flawless service and attention to detail and exceptional dining for your magical day. As the recipient of some of the industry’s most coveted bridal awards, we know what it takes to create an event you’ll treasure. Our dedicated Catering Directors work with the Executive Chef and culinary team to create the celebration you’ve always dreamed of – from imaginative menus and creative wine pairings to custom wedding cakes and more.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
GCH was the most amazing venue. I’ve been to a majority of the venues on Long Island but this one took the cake. The food was OUTSTANDING (everyone raves about it), the people (especially Paul) were so unbelievably helpful and amazing. My bridal attendant Nang was WOW. She held my train everywhere while we were walking and fluffed it to help the photographers, she always had water for me and the groom, she carried my lipsticks and had me reapplying, she bustled my dress so easily so we didn’t have to bother my mom, she got mine and my husbands afterparty outfits ready for us so we didn’t have to go upstairs… the list goes on and on. If you want a venue that makes your life super easy leading up to the wedding and the day of the wedding and one that your guests will rave about for literally months this is the place.
Brittany B., a year ago
TWA Hotel 

4.5

New York, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Fully restored to its original glory, the TWA Flight Center offers 200,000 square feet of flexible space including outdoor terraces. Original details — the Vulcain clock, sparkling white penny tile and plush Chili Pepper Red carpets — exude Jet Age glamour. Saarinen’s iconic Flight Tubes (made famous by the 2002 film Catch Me If You Can) lead to guestrooms and museum exhibits, as well as provide a premium photo opp. The nostalgic clacking sound of two authentic Solari split-flap boards — and the view of the 1958 Lockheed Constellation on the tarmac just outside — fully transport visitors back to the golden age of travel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides catering services
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Our wedding turned out to be incredibly beautiful, thanks to a unique venue and execution by its staff. However, that perfect day was almost derailed by the unacceptable pressure campaign to change ceremony locations due to concerns over furniture getting wet. We wanted this review to capture our nearly 20 months of planning with the TWA Hotel. PLANNING PROS: -Variety of spaces -Responsiveness -Flexibility for storing supplies CONS: -No FAQ document -Frustrating room block system -Forgotten menu tasting notification -Lack of communication and contradictory info from the Paris Cafe for rehearsal dinner THE WEDDING PROS: -Organized and accommodating staff -The food, especially the pastrami station and red velvet cake for dessert CONS: -Wrong display with typo on Solaris board in the Sunken Lounge -Our tiered wedding cake wasn’t cut and served even tho there clearly wasn’t enough sheet cake to pass around -The weather “policy”: We were told that we could make a final decision on an outdoor ceremony up until the morning of our wedding, and our point of contact reassured us of this during our final walkthru 2 weeks out. Our contract also secured the Sunken Lounge as the backup option if we chose to move indoors. However, in the final days and hours before our wedding, we were pressured to move our ceremony indoors, despite nearly all weather reports showing clear skies for our 5-6pm ceremony and rain only after 9pm. Our point of contact started questioning our outdoor plans 4-5 days before the wedding, and even met with us multiple times - first in the lobby while we were dropping off supplies 2 days before our wedding, again when we were checking in the next day, and yet again when we were at the pool before our rehearsal dinner, where we had to brush off our guests in order to have a serious meeting. Each time, they told us we needed to make a "final call" now, not the morning-of as we had been told before. After listing their reasons to move the ceremony indoors (which included threatening to release the Sunken Lounge from our backup option, despite what our contract said), the point of contact mentioned that the head manager was concerned about the rain damaging the leather chairs, and then proposed a “solution” of having the ceremony outside, but not setting up any chairs so that our guests would stand for the entire ceremony. It was clear to us that the real reason why we were being pressured was that the manager didn’t want their leather chairs to get wet! We asserted that, unless we were explicitly told we couldn't have our ceremony outside, we would stick with the outdoor option. The morning of our wedding, our day-of coordinator informed us that the venue was insisting they now had a “50% chance of rain policy”, giving them the “right” to change ceremony locations. We immediately forwarded reports from 10 weather sites that all had a chance of rain between 5-7pm at 0-30%. We finally saw chairs being set up outside in the mid-afternoon, and when our ceremony got underway, the clouds parted ways and the sun started shining. CONCLUSION: The TWA Hotel is such a special place to celebrate your wedding! Before you sign the contract, however, understand that you’ll have to stay on top of the planning process, and in cases like ours, fight for what you envision. Make sure the contract spells out any and all promises — there were items that we made sure they honored as it was clear the hotel’s policies had changed since the signing.
Olivia, a year ago
Kanopi 

5.0

White Plains, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

A never-before-had culinary experience awaits at Kanopi, the restaurant and fully-customizable event space located atop The Opus, Westchester. Our one-of-a-kind exclusive location is tucked away in the clouds, just 30 minutes from Midtown Manhattan. Arrive here for your special occasion, corporate event, or private dinner for an unforgettable experience 42 floors above it all. When the doors of the glass elevator open, you’ll discover an unmatched level of service and luxury – from custom menu planning to awe-inspiring views of the New York City skyline, Hudson Valley, and Long Island Sound.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers a sense of luxury
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
As an event photographer who has worked multiple times at countless venues throughout Westchester County over the last 10+ years, Colin and his team at Kanopi are 2nd to none in everything they do. Everyone at Kanopi is a class act with the utmost professionalism and they truly go above and beyond for their clients and the vendors that work with them. I would whole-heartedly recommend Kanopi for any special event.
Chad Kraus, 4 years ago
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Southampton Inn 
Southampton, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in the heart of historic Southampton Village, just steps from Main Street, the Southampton Inn is classic, unassuming, and utterly charming. We offer the personal attention of a bed & breakfast with the services of a hotel. The Southampton Inn’s ballroom, lawn and gardens, library, Claude's Restaurant and indoor and outdoor dining spaces, offer ideal settings for your wedding. Plus, with 90 elegant, overnight rooms, you have a unique opportunity to have the majority of a Hamptons property all to yourselves (availability permitting). Our talented chefs oversee the restaurant’s onsite catering for groups ranging in size from small to large events of up to 230 people.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Classic elegance
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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Madison Beach Hotel 
Madison, CT
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000
  • Offer

Madison Beach Hotel is a classically elegant beachfront wedding venue in charming Madison, Connecticut. Part of Hilton's signature Curio Collection, our four diamond Hotel offers an exclusive location on the Long Island Sound to celebrate the wedding of your dreams. Whether you plan on sauntering barefoot across our private beach, or exchanging vows on our manicured lawn, Madison Beach Hotel offers unparalleled natural beauty as the backdrop of your wedding day story. Inside the Hotel, guests enjoy sweeping ocean views from the Grand Ballroom, exquisite award-winning cuisine, and 33 luxurious guest rooms. We take pride in our discerning service standards and authentic hospitality. In fact, we have an entire wedding team dedicated to working closely with you to plan each step of the way. After all, these memories last a lifetime!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
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Pinstripes Norwalk 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 1200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Are you looking for a private event venue to host your next corporate event, wedding reception, Holiday party, or birthday party? Pinstripes provides the perfect event space to meet whatever your party or group event needs! We offer a variety of flexible room sizes, awesome menu options, and fun group activities including bowling and bocce ball. Our Norwalk, Connecticut location offers a unique variety of entertainment and events every day of the week. Enjoy our made-from-scratch Italian-American cuisine during Sunday Brunch with the family, happy hour after work, or a night of bowling and bocce.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
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The Mansion At Glen Cove 
Glen Cove, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $17,000

Marry Me At The Mansion From the moment you turn onto the winding driveway of this glorious Gold Coast landmark Georgian estate, it becomes easy to envision exchanging your vows and celebrating your wedding day here, at The Mansion. Nestled on 55 sprawling acres of landscaped grounds, magnificent surroundings, both inside and out, the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination…and our experienced wedding professionals are unsurpassed in their ability to ensure that your vision becomes a reality. Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen. Experience the New Era in Gold Coast Luxury.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Inn at Great Neck 
Great Neck, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

The Inn at Great Neck is Long Island's premier banquet and meeting destination, specializing in innovative cuisine and complete event and menu planning. Our event coordinators leave no detail un-tended. From menu to linens, crystal and silver, flowers, music and entertainment, our event coordinators draw from extensive knowledge and resources to make your affair all you can imagine. For brides to be, extra-special attention is given to your day so nothing will interfere with your cherished event. Our Executive Chef brings the same mastery and skill to our catering menu as he does to The Giraffe Room Lounge and Restaurant. Our maîtres d’hôtel will coordinate and manage your event with precision, professionalism and charm. Our goal is to provide exceptional service, luxurious amenities, and the finest in cuisine and wine available. Whether intimate or extravagant, your next event will be a memorable success when you choose The Inn at Great Neck.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Dressing room available
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available

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About wedding venues in Shirley, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Shirley, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Shirley, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Shirley, NY?

Shirley offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Shirley, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, The Halyard at Sound View Greenport and Bourne Mansion. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Shirley, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Shirley do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Shirley do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Shirley, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Shirley, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Shirley can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Shirley, NY offer?

The venues in Shirley, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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