The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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18 Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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North Fork Meadows 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

North Fork Meadows is a vast, open landscape designed for DIY celebrations. From intimate ceremonies to grand tented receptions, this property provides the perfect blank canvas for you to customize every detail. The expansive acreage offers plenty of room for tents, dance floors, games, and all the unique touches that make your wedding truly yours. If you prefer a more relaxed approach, our wedding planning team is here to take care of all the details for you. From the initial design to the final toast, we manage every aspect, ensuring your day unfolds seamlessly. We will work closely with you to personalize every detail, creating a wedding experience that reflects your love story, while you focus on enjoying the moment. With nothing but the sky above and lush meadows around, North Fork Meadows allows you to embrace nature and celebrate under the stars. Ideal for couples seeking a fully personalized and hands-on experience, it’s the ultimate setting for a day as unique as your love.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No on-premises lodging options
We rented this beautiful property on the north fork for our wedding in September last year, and it was absolutely perfect. The expansive, well-maintained grounds provided a pristine, open space, ideal for our large tent, which comfortably hosted 100 guests. Surrounded by lush greenery, the natural beauty of the location created an unforgettable atmosphere……truly a stunning backdrop for our outdoor celebration. Jo and Dean were a pleasure to work with, offering great recommendations for local vendors and decorating that helped bring our vision to life. their support and expertise made the entire planning process, seamless and stress-free.
Samantha, a month ago
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RGNY 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

We are a family of winemakers with a deep regard for our heritage. Our Mexican roots bring a unique perspective to our business. We value our family’s tradition of wine-making and aim to foster the Rivero González legacy as we enter this new chapter. Quality is fundamental to our brand and relationships - it is what makes up our DNA. We guarantee quality and customer satisfaction, giving the best in everything we do. With all the north fork charm, RGNY’s spaces include special comforts and updates for you and up to 200 guests, year-round. Our outdoor space showcases both our vineyard and horse pasture. Our barn offers modern bathrooms, a bridal suite, a groom’s loft, and air conditioning all while maintaining rustic elegance. We also offer another location for couples searching for their dream wedding venue, Las Vides - a picture-perfect palette tucked away among the vines.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Dressing room available
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
thank you thank you thank you so much to the girls at RGNY from the bottom of our hearts for a truly spectacular wedding day. Everything truly exceeded our expectations from the service, to the set up, to every last detail. We were truly blown away how seamless, amazing, and especially GORGEOUS everything ended up turning out. It has really been an absolute pleasure meeting and working with you all over the past year and half on our dream wedding.
Gabriella Z., a year ago
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The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration 

5.0

Old Bethpage, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Lessing’s newest event venue, The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration, offers the unique combination of a rustic yet elegant barn setting with the personalized attention to detail and service that Lessing’s is known for. With over 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor event space, The Barn is fitting for a guest list of up to 300 for weddings, galas and more. The exposed wooden beams stretched across high ceilings, sprawling country fields and authentic farmhouse scenery are sure to delight your guests and have them talking for years to come.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site bridal suite
The Barn gave us the wedding of our dreams. From the staff to the food to the space to the professionalism - everything exceeded our expectations. 10/10 recommend!
Jeanette F., 17 days ago
Connecticut's Beardsley Zoo 

5.0

Bridgeport, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Choosing the right location for your wedding is one of the most important and often the most challenging decisions to make. Let your imagination run wild at Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo! Celebrate your special event in one of three unique spaces, including our Victorian Greenhouse, rustic Hanson Building or large Carousel Building with an indoor working carousel. Whether it’s your ceremony, reception, or rehearsal dinner, we are sure to have a venue to meet your wedding vision!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Does not have a dance floor
We had a beautiful wedding at the greenhouse of the Beardsley Zoo. The GlowWild light festival in the evening simply added to the magic of the event. The coordinators were wonderful in helping us set up and organize everything. If I had one piece of constructive feedback, it would just be that the head coordinator, Lindsay, was sometimes tricky to get in contact with via telephone for things like making our deposit and final payment for the venue.
Amanda L., a year ago
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The Woodwinds at Nuzzo's Farm 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Nuzzo’s Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Branford, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Nuzzo's Farm. Nuzzo’s Farm is one of Branford, Connecticut’s most picturesque Christmas Tree Farms and historic landmarks. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
We recently had our wedding at Nuzzo's Farm and Woodwinds was the caterer. This is the DREAM TEAM!!!!! The venue was gorgeous and super accommodating. Woodwinds made wedding planning a breeze. The night of our wedding we had such a blast! All of our guests were raving about how it was the best wedding ever. From the food to the gorgeous grounds, everything was absolutely perfect. I would not change a thing!
Lindsay S., 4 months ago
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The Woodwinds at Kalmia Garden 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Gastler Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Durham, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Gardens and Farm Scenery of Kalmia Garden at Gastler Farm in Durham, CT. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes style

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No free parking
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The grounds are extremely well kept and every aspect is well thought out. The Woodwinds took care of every detail so we had nothing to worry about! We just showed up and enjoyed and got to hear about everyone rave about the food and the bar while sitting around the firepit. Our wedding was an unforgettable night all thanks to the crew at Gastler Farm and The Woodwinds!!!
Jenn T., 4 months ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
If you have the means to, choose Bill Miller's as your venue! My now husband and I were treated like royalty from the first tour to our wedding day. We were never without a beverage and were well fed (almost too full!). Mary was our coordinator, and was never hard to reach. We chose this venue for a few reasons: we would have the venue for the whole day to ourselves, all-inclusive with fantastic food and great drinks, a solid indoor/rain option for the ceremony, and a coordinator was included. Bill Miller's really made our day seamless and everything was incredible. Thank you Mary and everyone at Bill Miller's for a wonderful stress-free day!
Bianca D., 6 months ago
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Earthplace 

5.0

Westport, CT
  • Up to 120 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor

-120-seat wooded Amphitheater -Tentable picnic grove with string lighting -Variety of tables available to rent -Sound and A/V equipment available to rent includes amplifiers, speakers, mics, stands, and an 8′ projection screen

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not allow pets
  • Does not have a dance floor
Earthplace was perfect for our 145-person ceremony. It is stunning, unique and great for those on a budget, as the space needs no additional rentals or decorations. Truly cannot beat this venue, and the staff was responsive, helpful and accommodating every step of the way. They worked seamlessly with our vendors to allow for a bar truck and chuppah to be installed without disrupting the nature/wildlife.
Alexandra W., 3 months ago
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Castle Hill Farm 

5.0

Newtown, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

Castle Hill Farm is a family wedding and event venue, nestled within the town of Newtown. The farm has gardens, hay fields, a greenhouse, and pastures of cows that serve as a rustic backdrop for your outdoor wedding. We have set the stage for your wedding, however, we allow you to make it your own. We are located in a scenic part of Newtown, in the southwestern part of Connecticut, only minutes away from the historical Newtown's Center and Flagpole. The farm atmosphere embraces the feeling of a past time where life was genuine and simple.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Castle Hill Farm is absolutely beautiful and the Paproski and Kearns families will help you to make your wedding an amazing day. One of the best things about the farm is you can really make the space your own and make your wedding how you want it which can't be understated. The family the runs this farm goes above and beyond to help you. Lastly, the farm itself is just beautiful and you'll love getting married in this amazing place. We had so many guests tell us our wedding was the most beautiful wedding they had ever been to and it was because of this farm and family!
Allie and K., 4 years ago
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Breezehill Farm 
Peconic, NY
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Nestled into over 72 acres of sprawling apple orchards and a private hunting preserve on the North Fork of Long Island rests an exquisitely constructed farmhouse and charming Farm Stand featuring fresh-picked fruits and veggies along with sweet treats like our famous apple cider donuts and fresh-baked pies. One visit to Breeze Hill Farm and Preserve and you’ll quickly realize why it’s one of Long Island’s local gems and most treasured destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Has a sophisticated vibe

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
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Pinstripes Norwalk 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 1200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Are you looking for a private event venue to host your next corporate event, wedding reception, Holiday party, or birthday party? Pinstripes provides the perfect event space to meet whatever your party or group event needs! We offer a variety of flexible room sizes, awesome menu options, and fun group activities including bowling and bocce ball. Our Norwalk, Connecticut location offers a unique variety of entertainment and events every day of the week. Enjoy our made-from-scratch Italian-American cuisine during Sunday Brunch with the family, happy hour after work, or a night of bowling and bocce.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets

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About wedding venues in Shirley, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Shirley, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Shirley, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Shirley, NY?

Shirley offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Shirley, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, The Halyard at Sound View Greenport and Bourne Mansion. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Shirley, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Shirley do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Shirley do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Shirley, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Shirley, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Shirley can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Shirley, NY offer?

The venues in Shirley, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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