The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

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20 Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

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North Fork Meadows 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

North Fork Meadows is a vast, open landscape designed for DIY celebrations. From intimate ceremonies to grand tented receptions, this property provides the perfect blank canvas for you to customize every detail. The expansive acreage offers plenty of room for tents, dance floors, games, and all the unique touches that make your wedding truly yours. If you prefer a more relaxed approach, our wedding planning team is here to take care of all the details for you. From the initial design to the final toast, we manage every aspect, ensuring your day unfolds seamlessly. We will work closely with you to personalize every detail, creating a wedding experience that reflects your love story, while you focus on enjoying the moment. With nothing but the sky above and lush meadows around, North Fork Meadows allows you to embrace nature and celebrate under the stars. Ideal for couples seeking a fully personalized and hands-on experience, it’s the ultimate setting for a day as unique as your love.

We rented this beautiful property on the north fork for our wedding in September last year, and it was absolutely perfect. The expansive, well-maintained grounds provided a pristine, open space, ideal for our large tent, which comfortably hosted 100 guests. Surrounded by lush greenery, the natural beauty of the location created an unforgettable atmosphere……truly a stunning backdrop for our outdoor celebration. Jo and Dean were a pleasure to work with, offering great recommendations for local vendors and decorating that helped bring our vision to life. their support and expertise made the entire planning process, seamless and stress-free.
Samantha, 22 days ago
RGNY 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

We are a family of winemakers with a deep regard for our heritage. Our Mexican roots bring a unique perspective to our business. We value our family’s tradition of wine-making and aim to foster the Rivero González legacy as we enter this new chapter. Quality is fundamental to our brand and relationships - it is what makes up our DNA. We guarantee quality and customer satisfaction, giving the best in everything we do. With all the north fork charm, RGNY’s spaces include special comforts and updates for you and up to 200 guests, year-round. Our outdoor space showcases both our vineyard and horse pasture. Our barn offers modern bathrooms, a bridal suite, a groom’s loft, and air conditioning all while maintaining rustic elegance. We also offer another location for couples searching for their dream wedding venue, Las Vides - a picture-perfect palette tucked away among the vines.

thank you thank you thank you so much to the girls at RGNY from the bottom of our hearts for a truly spectacular wedding day. Everything truly exceeded our expectations from the service, to the set up, to every last detail. We were truly blown away how seamless, amazing, and especially GORGEOUS everything ended up turning out. It has really been an absolute pleasure meeting and working with you all over the past year and half on our dream wedding.
Gabriella Z., a year ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

We had the most magical experience at Bill Millers Castle. They made the day everything we could have dreamed and more. Every detail was perfect, the food was phenomenal, and they scheduled everything to run smoothly without making us feel like we were stuck to a schedule. We were able to relax and enjoy the day without worry that something was not done or would not be ready. We had every one of our guests tell us it was the best wedding they have ever been too. (and as we are not a young couple most of them have been to a lot of wedding's). Not only was the experience of the day the most amazing, the planning and communication leading up to the day was phenomenal. Victoria was very easy to reach, answered all of our questions, and helped guide us through the process always having tips for us to make sure we got what we wanted. Thank you to Bill Millers Castle for the most amazing day.
Jennifer & J., 6 months ago
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Millpond Gatherings 
Northford, CT
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

From the moment you and your guests step foot onto Millpond Gatherings property, you will be awed by all you see. With gorgeous spaces to enjoy, your wedding will flow seamlessly throughout the venue. The main venue area is an idyllic setting for your nuptials. Its open layout allows for maximum customization and self-expression. The wooden beams and glossy flooring serve as the perfect backdrop, while the chandeliers warm the space with golden light. When you book Millpond Gathering, you will be delighted with the privacy and exclusivity you experience on the day, as they only host one wedding at a time. The onsite team will be on hand throughout your event to ensure that everything runs as smoothly as possible. Using only the freshest ingredients, your guests will enjoy a feast like no other, even using meat from their personal cattle farm up the road.

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Open Farmhouse 
Redding, CT
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

Open Farmhouse is located on 300 acres of protected land in Redding, Connecticut. Just an hour and a half drive from New York City, it’s easily accessible by car or short shuttle from metro north. As part of a working farm, guests experience farm fresh produce, bucolic views and engagement with the land. Built in 1840, the historic Federal Style house sits at the center of the farm, with sweeping views of the surrounding fields and forests. Restored true to its era, it’s a grand yet inviting space for gatherings of 10 to 50 people. Five private bedrooms provide a good night’s sleep, with simple furnishings and comfortable mattresses. Three shared bathrooms allow everyone to get ready for the day. All linens and towels provided. Our vision is to create a place that fosters connection to the land, strengthens community, and plants seeds for cultural renewal.

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Castle Hill Farm 

5.0

Newtown, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

Castle Hill Farm is a family wedding and event venue, nestled within the town of Newtown. The farm has gardens, hay fields, a greenhouse, and pastures of cows that serve as a rustic backdrop for your outdoor wedding. We have set the stage for your wedding, however, we allow you to make it your own. We are located in a scenic part of Newtown, in the southwestern part of Connecticut, only minutes away from the historical Newtown's Center and Flagpole. The farm atmosphere embraces the feeling of a past time where life was genuine and simple.

Castle Hill Farm is absolutely beautiful and the Paproski and Kearns families will help you to make your wedding an amazing day. One of the best things about the farm is you can really make the space your own and make your wedding how you want it which can't be understated. The family the runs this farm goes above and beyond to help you. Lastly, the farm itself is just beautiful and you'll love getting married in this amazing place. We had so many guests tell us our wedding was the most beautiful wedding they had ever been to and it was because of this farm and family!
Allie and K., 4 years ago
Crabtree's Kittle House Restaurant & Inn 

5.0

Chappaqua, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Nestled down a quiet, tree-lined road in Chappaqua, Crabtree’s Kittle House Restaurant & Inn is a unique estate that transports all who visit to a rich, elegant past. Join us for a taste of Old New York, where unparalleled hospitality and service meet a rich tradition of excellent food & wine. As we are committed to farm-to-table cuisine, we are continually looking for ways to improve our sustainability. We believe that these efforts go hand-in-hand — it’s a way of living we enjoy and encourage with our guests. As we support our local community farmers and producers, our footprint lessens, our local economy benefits, & the quality of our products is guaranteed much higher.

(Long review but worth it... trust me) Not sure if a wedding could ever be called "stress-free" but I'm tempted to say.... it basically was. I would never be able to say that if it weren't for everyone at Crabtree's: Kim, Leo, the Barbaras, everyone. Kim was there for us during the planning every step of the way. From the beginning, she was easy to reach and never more than an email away to answer my millions of questions. Furthermore, her expertise was extremely helpful in helping us to complete our vision. We were planning this wedding based off of the little we've seen at other weddings and a lot of Pinterest, but Kim has been doing this for years and knows exactly how to make a vision into a reality. Leo, our maitre'd was phenomenal as well. He was there every step of the day, making sure it went smoothly. He was even there to help our toddler flower girls get down the aisle when they were, well.... being toddlers lol. If we needed something, I'd turn around and he was there. Even when we didn't know we needed something, he took the initiative to make sure we were comfortable. Like when he realized we didn't get back to our dinner right away he brought them back to make sure it didn't get cold. Or when he realized we barely ate our dinner, he made sure we had some food to eat when everything was over. He is incredible thoughtful and amazing at what he does. We didn't need for anything because we had Leo by our side. The food.... Let's be real, a lot of wedding food/catering hall's food is... meh. Not at Crabtree's! If you read a little about them, you'll see that they take pride in their food. Unlike a lot of venues, where the food at the tasting is delicious but then the day of is lacking (in both taste and presentation), that was not the case. The food was JUST as delicious and well-presented as it was at the tasting. Our guests were very pleased with the food, even the biggest food snobs in attendance. I have friends still (we got married 7 months ago) telling me how they wish they could go back to our cocktail hour for some snacks! The space.... Not much to say other than GORGEOUS! Minimal decor is necessary because the outdoor and indoor space are beautiful as is. If you're fortunate to have good weather like we did, the garden is beautiful, especially with the changing leaves in autumn. So many guests have told me how this was one of the most beautiful weddings they've been too. The value... Weddings are rarely cheap, especially if you have a specific vision of that day. What I've learned is that if you're looking within a certain price range, and something is a little bit above, take a look at what they're offering in that price. See if there are ways to shave off a few dollars per person. Initially, we thought Crabtree's would be above our budget but when we looked at what they were offering and some of the options they offered to save some money, we were getting far more than other venues we had looked at. Do yourself a favor, take a visit to Crabtree's, sit down with Kim, and you'll see the value in what they are offering. We are not rich by any means but this was worth every one of our hard-earned pennies. Crabtree's and the people there will forever have a special place in our hearts. I cannot recommend them enough!
Laila & J., 5 years ago
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The Barns at Wesleyan Hills 

4.8

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Barns At Wesleyan Hills is a historic wedding venue located in Middletown, CT. With glorious topiary and glistening ponds on the grounds, this one of kind barn offers beauty both inside and outside its walls. This venue accommodates one wedding per day, allowing couples to enjoy this spectacular location and the surrounding grounds at ease. Our award winning team of professional wedding planners, chefs, wedding coordinators and mixologists are here to help make planning and celebrating your wedding a breeze! Your guests will be in awe of the timeless one of kind beauty paired with award winning farm to table cuisine and the best hospitality in CT. We are ready to help tell your story and ensure you have the best wedding ever - we are just a call, text or email away!

The Barns at Wesleyan Hills was an exceptional wedding venue that exceeded our expectations. Their communication throughout the 4-year planning process was always quick, helpful, and informative, which made the entire experience seamless. The quality of their work and overall value was truly remarkable - the venue was beautifully decorated in a dark, romantic style that was well worth the investment. Our day-of coordinator, Sean, was wonderful and so helpful in ensuring we were taken care of on our special day. The only slight downside was that Sean wasn't involved in the full 4-year planning process, so he didn't have the complete picture of our vision. Overall, we highly recommend The Barns at Wesleyan Hills for any couple looking for a rustic, romantic wedding venue with a fantastic team to support them.
Tiffany N., 2 months ago

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About wedding venues in Upton, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Upton, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Upton, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Upton, NY?

Upton offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Upton, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, The Halyard at Sound View Greenport and Bourne Mansion. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Upton, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Upton do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Upton do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Upton, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Upton, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Upton can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Upton, NY offer?

The venues in Upton, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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