When you get married at Ashling, you get the entire property to yourself. From your rehearsal to your day-after brunch, it's all yours. We handle the tent, tables, chairs, and bathroom trailer. Plus we have a wedding coordinator on-site for you, along with unique accommodations for 20 people. You choose your caterer and DJ, and we make it happen.

Looking for one of the best Upstate New York wedding venues? We have you covered! With acres of outdoor access, our three unique venues nestled between landscaped gardens, a dedicated location for a tent ,and a cottage on-site - we are the perfect place to host your entire weekend with ease.  We include much in our packages, like the climate comforts and decor,  lounges, and even a planning package with Elizabeth Moore of Paper Crane Calligraphy to save you time and stress so you can celebrate. 

We're more than just a wedding venue. When you choose Arlington Acres, you're continuing the 150 year tradition of creating memories on our family farm. From your first tour, you'll notice the difference in the care, passion and personal attention we provide all our couples.

In the 95 years we have been in operation, lifelong friendships and treasured memories have grown at our Club! ​Our mission is to provide an enjoyable and high-quality experience for you and your family. Our Club environment fosters friendship and camaraderie, and our team of expert professionals cannot wait to share their wisdom and their passion for their chosen sport ​with you amidst comprehensive facilities and the stunning beauty of our two, 18-hole golf courses.

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

The Black Barn is where the forest will write your love story. A stunning black barn surrounded by 45 acres of old world forest. A rustic gathering pavilion, three glamping sites and luxury RV. Moss, Firefly's and wildflowers just add to the experience.

Located in a majestic mountain valley, Greek Peak Mountain Resort is the perfect location for a wedding in any season. We offer various settings to make your day just as you imagined, whether it is Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall. Do you envision your day in an elegant wedding tent? Greek Peak has a brand new elegant wedding tent situated in beautiful picturesque surroundings. Would you prefer an indoor reception? We have a ballroom complete with a veranda on our mountain side. If your vision is an outdoor ceremony by a lake, we have that as well. Whether you imagine a winter wonderland wedding, or a wedding amidst beautiful autumn colors, or one surrounded by the beautiful green hills of the region, Greek Peak Mountain Resort has it all. Your wedding day should be everything you dreamed of! At Greek Peak Mountain Resort, we will help you design and customize what you have always imagined for your perfect wedding day.

Set in the serene Skaneateles country woods, Aster provides Skaneateles a wedding venue unlike any other. The landscape caters to the ideal outdoor event with a high peak sailcloth pole tent, large custom deck, an intimate ceremony space and more.

Situated on the grounds of a historic beanery, Hartlot Happening is a reclaimed industrial event space conveniently located 5 miles from the village of Skaneateles and close to Route 5. We offer a modern, industrial environment with an urban vibe in a private, rural setting. Our 19th-century concrete buildings have been thoughtfully updated to preserve their character. The venue and courtyard combined offer over 3000 square feet of versatile space. The courtyard can be tented in case of inclement weather. ​ Hartlot Happening offers both indoor and outdoor options for your special day. Whether you prefer an indoor or outdoor celebration, Hartlot Happening has you covered. With a capacity of up to 120 guests, our venue caters to intimate gatherings and larger weddings alike.

Discover The Rosemary at Spano Lake - the latest addition to Upstate New York's stunning outdoor wedding and events venues. Just a short drive from the historical town of Cooperstown, The Rosemary offers a picturesque setting for your special occasion. Encompassing a vast expanse of 325 acres, this private waterfront location is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, making it the perfect choice for your wedding or private gathering. Experience the magic of a secluded and intimate celebration beside the tranquil waters of our private lake, creating unforgettable moments that will be treasured forever.

Cadillac Ranch Event Barn is a countryside wedding venue located in Davenport Center, New York. This rustic retreat is a wonderful place for couples seeking a tranquil setting for their I do moment. Tucked away in the Catskills, this property has been renovated and transformed into a romantic event venue that attracts soon-to-be newlyweds, and revelers alike. We also host class reunions, corporate meetings, retreats, graduations, and proms. Whatever your event may be, you are bound to be impressed by this barn's numerous amenities, delightful event spaces, and scenic charm. A range of additional features are available including a full bar service, a champagne table, private restrooms, Wi-Fi, and fire pits near the pond.

Riverbend Events is a romantic wedding venue in Weedsport, New York. Begin your forever at our breathtaking weekend wedding destination, where rustic sophistication meets natural beauty. Riverbend Events is located just one mile north of NYS Thruway exit 40 on the Seneca River in Weedsport, New York. Enjoy 40 acres of wooded trails, ponds, rivers, fields of wildflowers, sunflowers, and poppies. There is ample parking space available for your guests, and you can get ready onsite in one of our bridal cabins. We only book one wedding per weekend, so you are welcome to stay and enjoy the property with your family and friends.

Welcome to the John Joseph Inn, where timeless elegance meets modern luxury in the heart of the Finger Lakes region. Named after founder John Hamilton, our estate boasts 110 acres of picturesque grounds. Whether an intimate gathering or grand celebration, our versatile spaces exude romance and sophistication. Our six luxurious inn room suites and cottage seamlessly blend classic charm with modern amenities, offering a serene escape amidst the scenic beauty of our estate. Renowned Chef John Joseph Hamilton curates wedding menus harmonizing creativity, flavor, and local flair. His culinary creations showcase a passion for innovation, exceeding expectations and reflecting your unique love story. With a commitment to exceptional service, the John Joseph Inn ensures a seamless wedding experience. From arrival to farewell, we create a warm and welcoming atmosphere, allowing you to savor every moment.

The Brewster Inn is a fine dining establishment with several different dining rooms to accommodate both small and large parties. We are able to host private functions ranging from 20 – 50 people and wedding receptions up to 180 people. We also have 17 beautifully appointed guest rooms, five of which have breath-taking views of the lake. Our brick terrace with a seasonal awning overlooks the spacious lawn down to the lakefront and is a perfect setting for dining and dancing. For your convenience we have created two wedding options – sit down and food stations, each of which is based on a four-hour reception. In-season, weddings are held primarily on Saturdays. We offer afternoon weddings from 1-5pm. There are some exceptions during the off-season for smaller more intimate receptions.

Are you looking for your dream wedding. A special place to also have your Birthday party, or Graduation. In the hills of western Chenango County, you will find the charming little town of McDonough, NY embraced by state forests, sprinkled with country homes and a perfect barn for your event. The 100-year-old barn maintains a truly unique feel and timeless history. It sits overlooking the natural rolling hills which is a flawless backdrop to any special event. This small farm is perfect for intimate events. The property has a variety of spaces to move between including the Barn, and the side field. This venue can serve a maximum occupancy of 100 of your guests.

The Port Watson Mini-Conference Center is the premier venue for gatherings in the Cortland area. Located just minutes from historic downtown Cortland this family-owned business is centrally located between Syracuse, Ithaca, and Binghamton. Three indoor event spaces are available for rent, suitable to host anything from small intimate gatherings to large weddings of up to 100 guests. Our newest addition, the pavilion, is our outdoor venue perfect for weddings looking to take advantage of the warmer weather. Each room is entirely customizable to your needs and for your convenience, all tables and chairs are included in your rental.

The natural beauty and rich history of Fenimore Art Museum creates a unique setting for any special event. The museums’ expert event planning staff can help you with the details of any function from meetings and conferences to formal weddings and receptions. A number of locations throughout the property are available to accommodate a variety of needs.

Happily ever after begins at The Otesaga Resort Hotel. Celebrate together in a timeless setting with century-old oak trees and glistening crystal chandeliers. Soft moonlight on shimmering waters. Champagne and passed hors-d'oeuvres. Feel the undeniable romance of a luxurious lakeside wedding that's infused with sophistication and charm. Whether you're planning an intimate al fresco reception by the water or an opulent party in the ballroom. Your guests will know that they're in for a treat from the moment they arrive at our magnificent mansion, with soaring columns and an imposing front portico that exude majesty and grace. Be enchanted by moments of whimsy and delight: candid photos on the dance floor, stolen kisses on the waterfront, ice cream sandwiches on the Veranda. Come together with family and friends to honor true love with a celebration that's simply perfect.

Brewery Ommegang is a wedding venue located near Cooperstown, New York. Packages start at $190/pp. This team has over 22 years of organizing weddings in the area and have an excellent working relationship with local vendors. They can realize your upscale wedding vision in pristine white, spacious high peak tents. With the help of this experienced team, you can feel assured that your wedding celebration will be one to remember.

Your intimate event at Mirbeau is in the storybook village of Skaneateles, the grand entrance to the Finger Lakes wine region. It’s easy to see why a wedding meant to be authentically shared would be perfect in this setting. With the industry currently trending towards even smaller "Micro" Weddings or elopements we are so happy to now offer our couples a Mirbeau exclusive Elopement Package! Weddings held at Mirbeau Inn and Spa are guaranteed to be unique, charming, and elegant. Understanding that wedding planning can be stressful, the venue provides each couple with a coordinator that will help them through the whole planning process and the day of the event.