The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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12 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000
  • Offer

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
My wedding party ran late with getting ready which delayed so many things, but the Maître d’, Phil, made sure everything ran smoothly once we got to Westbury. He offered solutions for the timing of each portion of the reception and what I expected to be a stressful day ended up being the best day ever. And our bridal attendant, Dilcia, was so nice! She made sure I was fed and hydrated, that I changed my dress, and just her presence was enough to keep me calm. I cannot thank them enough for making this day one of the best of my life so far. They were a blessing to have.
Jessica J., 2 years ago
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Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 3 months ago
The Boathouse Shelter Island 

5.0

Shelter Island, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Boathouse Shelter Island is a private event space located on Shelter Island at the Island Boatyard and Marina. The recently renovated, 4,000 square foot space features over 200 feet of waterfront and incredible sunset views overlooking West Neck Harbor. The historic building, dating back to the 1920's, was originally used as boat storage. Today, it debuts a new look with versatility for any stylish event. Grammy award winning musician and East End resident Billy Joel recorded his album, River of Dreams, at The Boathouse in 1993.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
Working with Megan and the boathouse team was a dream. They're attention to detail and willing to work with us as a couple and our vendors was unmatched. The venue itself is the perfect place to plan a wedding. It's a blank slate and so working with our event designers, we were able to create the most incredible reception space with views of the bay and a cocktail party that our guests are still talking about to this day. If I could relive our day at the Boathouse I would do it over and over again. I recommend this venue and the team that supports it to anyone who is looking to host a wedding out on long island or Shelter Island in particular.
Sarah, 5 years ago
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The Halyard at Sound View Greenport 

5.0

Greenport, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

A home for weddings, celebrations, or the perfect sound side cocktail party, Sound View Greenport is the newly renovated, boutique Resort on the North Fork, with the ability to host events up to 200 guests (with a full venue buyout) or a small intimate wedding in our Library room, up to 50 guests. The convivial atmosphere and timeless charm of our spaces and grounds will provide you and your guests with memories to last a lifetime. Whether it is saying “I Do” on our private beach or celebrating a bridal shower or rehearsal dinner in our cozy library, our catering team is on hand to create a tailor-made event for your enjoyment. The Halyard can accommodate a seated wedding with dance floor for up to 130 guests and can offer a cocktail style reception for larger groups up to 150. Create the wedding weekend of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site bridal suite
I've been a wedding photographer on the North Fork for 10+ years and since The Halyard came on the scene it has quickly proven itself as a top event venue. Not only is the location itself like none other, literally hugging the water's edge, the food is beyond outstanding and the staff is wonderfully professional. The recent renovation under new ownership was so well done, featuring modern and nautical decor while maintaining the charm of the North Fork. The Halyard is connected with The Soundview Hotel making it a truly ideal wedding location, allowing couple's to relax without having to shuffle around on the big day. And no matter what light is given, the closeness to the sea at The Halyard ensures beautiful photos always. It's a special place on The North Fork and hands down my favorite waterfront venue.
Caroline, 5 years ago
Calissa Restaurant 

5.0

Water Mill, NY
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Calissa is Mykonos in The Hamptons. Drawing on a decade of private dining experience in Manhattan and The Hamptons, our events team executes dynamic, unique and creative events with professionalism and care. Calissa’s outdoor dining spaces include the tented Garden, covered Terrace and open-air Meadow. Our more intimate indoor spaces are the Private Dining Room, Lounge, Bar, and Main Dining Room. We recommend utilizing either the two outdoor spaces or renting out Calissa in its entirety. Services Offered In addition to weddings, Calissa is available for bridal showers, engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, farewell brunches, and afterparties. Food comes first for us: we serve the same ingredients to private dining guests as are served to a la carte guests, sourced from family-run farms and local fishing boats. We are Slow Food certified and have won numerous awards for our commitment to sustainability.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Calissa was amazing! We booked our wedding ceremony/reception and they were all so accommodating. The restaurant/venue is beautiful on its own, so we didn’t need much for flowers and decor. The food was delicious, our guests said that food kept coming and that’s exactly what we were looking for. And the service was excellent. Everyone was so attentive and friendly. From the planning of the day’s events, including the amazing band, to the food and the details, Calissa was amazing. Several of our guests said our wedding was the best ever! Dara and Kylie were amazing! Our day was perfect!
Anita S., a year ago

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About wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Shelter Island, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Shelter Island, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Shelter Island, NY?

Shelter Island offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Shelter Island, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, The Halyard at Sound View Greenport and Bourne Mansion. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Shelter Island, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Shelter Island do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Shelter Island do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Shelter Island, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Shelter Island can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Shelter Island, NY offer?

The venues in Shelter Island, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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