The Best Wheelchair & Handicap Accessible Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best Wheelchair & Handicap Accessible Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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16 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000
  • Offer

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our wedding on 6/1/24 and look back on this day with so much joy, fondness, and gratitude. Working with Mary, George, and Susan was a true pleasure and we felt so comfortable with them and trusted them fully. Our ceremony was beautiful and held outdoors. The landscape and vibrant colors are truly stunning. A peacock even made an appearance during the first look outdoors! The grounds are absolutely stunning (especially in late Spring) and provide so many opportunities for amazing photos (fountain, bridge, stairs, courtyard). The venue itself is beautiful and spacious. The Victorian aesthetic enhances the beauty and romantic charm. The dance floor was a great size and the room fit our 120 guests very comfortably. The reception room is beautifully decorated, as well as the tables. The windows (with option to close curtains) provide great natural light you are having a daytime wedding. The service at Westbury Manor was outstanding from the day 1. All of our guests raved about the food at cocktail hour and could not believe they could choose among seven options for dinner. People kept saying how this was the best food they have had at a wedding and we can attest to this. Westbury Manor and their amazing staff helped make our day perfect and unforgettable. We highly recommend having your wedding here without reservation!
Christina M., 7 months ago
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Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 4 months ago
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Atlantis Banquets & Events 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $139

Atlantis Banquets & Events can accommodate your wedding for 50 to 350 guests in one of nine diverse locations including the modern and beautiful Sea Star Ballroom with sweeping views of the Treasure Cove Resort Marina and Peconic River. The Coliseum Room is another perfect venue located within the Long Island Aquarium, which houses our most captivating and colorful aquatic habitats. Your ceremony can take place outside, in the Riverside Pavilion just on the banks of the river, or in the Grand Foyer of the Sea Star Ballroom, with beautiful marble features and a stunning Chihuly-inspired glass chandelier. An event like no other, only Atlantis Banquets & Events can bring the element of nature to your wedding with photo sessions including our penguins, sea lions, sharks or within our indoor and always tropical Butterfly Garden.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Does not allow pets
From our initial tour of the venue, we knew that Atlantis Banquets and Events was where we wanted to have our wedding. If you are looking for an incredibly unique experience, this is it: The venue overlooks the water so guests were able to watch the sunset over the water during cocktail hour, and then, everyone moved inside to the Long Island Aquarium where they were able to dance and dine amongst the fish tanks. The aquarium transformed that evening into what felt like an enchanting underwater forest. Atlantis has an in-house caterer, and the food was exquisite. We received comments from guests who are notoriously picky eaters, and they said this was the first wedding where they’ve been able to eat (and enjoy) the food! There was a huge team working the evening of our wedding, and they kept everything running smoothly. The staff were all incredibly professional and kind throughout the night. We worked with Joan and Bryan throughout the planning process, and they were absolutely wonderful. They were responsive, detailed, and helpful throughout the year as we planned and finalized event details. They also helped us coordinate our after party AND our hotel block (both within a few steps of the venue). I truly think Atlantis Banquets and Events, and the Long Island Aquarium, is a hidden gem of event venues on Long Island. The location is stunning and conveniently located in downtown Riverhead, the venue is so unique and beautiful, the food is delicious, and the staff is wonderful. Take a tour of the venue – You won’t regret it!
Christy W., 3 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the best night at the Bourne Mansion. We couldn’t have asked for a better wedding day. Throughout the process Miriam was very helpful. She was easy to communicate with and was there to answer every question. Our Maitre’d Steve was amazing. I was able to enjoy the wedding without having to worry about what was happening next. He handled the night with the utmost professionalism. The venue was beautiful and our guest enjoyed the food.
Keesan B., a year ago
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View 
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At the mouth of the Connetquot River and overlooking Great South Bay, View is Long Island's ideal location for wedding and social events - an atmosphere that is at once elegant and casual. The light and airy main dining room boasts a crisp seaside vibe, with walls of windows, white leather chairs, and rich wood tones. The outdoor patio affords panoramic views of the bay alongside a 20-slip marina, perfect for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres or waterfront ceremonies.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Everything was great! The staff was amazing and so easy to work with at every point in the process. No one was ever pushy or anything like that. Our maitre d Matt was an absolute gem and my bridal attendant Emma was an absolute angel. Loved the option to get married inside or out. We wanted outside but it was windy and cold so we got married inside in front of the beautiful fire place. We couldn’t have asked for anything better. ️
Erin R., 9 months ago
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Windows on the Lake 

5.0

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias
Ana V., 8 months ago
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
From the beginning to the end Jessica was almost like an angel from above! Any questions no matter how stupid or how silly she always responded! Rob was amazing and Jancey was literally an angel! I would get married again just to have it there and will definitely be having my baby shower there! We love you all!!!
Samantha K., 23 days ago
James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 4 years ago
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The Winston (next to St. Pauls Church) 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 90 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,000
  • Offer

The Winston, located in the heart of Patchogue, NY, is a charming and versatile wedding venue designed to bring your unique vision to life. Featuring a historic chapel and a separate reception hall, our space is perfect for couples seeking a customizable, affordable, and purpose-driven venue. Whether you’re a DIY couple ready to design every detail or prefer a stress-free experience with the help of our trusted partners in planning, decor, and catering, The Winston offers the flexibility to suit your needs. Our venue is more than a place to celebrate—it’s an opportunity to make a difference. A portion of every booking supports local nonprofits, including food pantries and community initiatives, ensuring that your special day also creates a meaningful impact. With weekday pricing, full-day rental options, and in-house catering partnerships, The Winston provides an approachable alternative to the typical Long Island wedding venue. Tours are available now!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
The Winston next to St. Paul's Church was an excellent choice for our venue. From the beginning, they were easy to book and very responsive to our needs. The space was incredibly versatile, allowing me to highlight my business and teach my weekly classes. On the day of the wedding, the team was there early to help us set up and clean up afterwards, which was a huge help. They also offered us bulk booking discounts, which was greatly appreciated. Overall, I loved working with the team at The Winston and would highly recommend them to any couple looking for a beautiful, flexible venue.
Mike, a month ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Open house

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Let me start by saying it’s been almost 2 weeks since our wedding at Stonebridge and Matt and I are still on a high! What made us love Stonebridge was the openness of the ballroom with all the beautiful windows. It didn’t feel like your typical ballroom, it felt open and airy. We started the planning process with the lovely Diana who made us feel so comfortable. Whether it was planning details or asking questions, we always left conversations with Diana feeling so excited! She really brings the energy and makes you feel so special. She has an eye for what works, what doesn’t and gives you the best tips and tricks. We are so grateful we had Diana throughout this process!! I HIGHLY recommend getting ready at Stonebridge’s beautiful, gigantic bridal suite the morning of the wedding. My mom, bridesmaids, flower girls and I were so obsessed with all the space to get ready, multiple bathrooms, bedrooms and the windows (they brought in so much light the pictures are amaaaaazing!) I had 3 girls doing our hair and 4 girls doing makeup, my mom and I, 14 bridesmaids, 1 MOH, and 2 flowers girls and we had more than enough room to get ready. Since we had an army of girls I loved that we were able to get there early. We were greeted by Dee the bridal attendant who made sure we had a smooth, fun morning. She was very attentive to us girls and ready with champagne whenever! Terrence is the MAN! Best maitre d hands down. He made sure everything ran smoothly with timing and always kept us hydrated with drinks and water on the dance floor. He truly brings the energy and makes sure you have the best day! We had so much fun with him! Diana, Terrence, Dee and the wait staff truly made our day feel like a dream! They went above and beyond and made sure every detail no matter how big or small was cared for. We are forever grateful for the most perfect day. Our family and friends raveddddd about the delicious food, cocktail room, ballroom and just overall how warm and beautiful Stonebridge was. THANK YOU STONEBRIDGE!
Victoria G., 10 days ago
Watermill Caterers 

4.2

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
The Watermill brought our wedding dreams to life! Nick, Jessica and Dom were incredible and made sure our wedding was so smooth. Their service and organization is impeccable. We are so grateful to them and had the best time at our wedding!
Rebecca K., 4 months ago

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About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Oakdale, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Oakdale, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Oakdale, NY?

Oakdale offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Oakdale, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, Bourne Mansion and Stonebridge Country Club. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Oakdale, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Oakdale do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Oakdale do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Oakdale, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Oakdale, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Oakdale can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Oakdale, NY offer?

The venues in Oakdale, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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