Tor & Freddie
Our People
John & Kim Hawley
Parents of the Bride
John and Kim “went together” in junior high and reconnected in college. They married on October 13, 1989. They’ve built their married life in Eldridge, Iowa where they make space for everyone; hosting card clubs and book clubs and the occasional person who needs a temporary home during a crisis. Kim loves to host, cook, play games and entertain. John loves to compete, teach, mentor and care for his family. They’ve enjoyed mentoring couples and their daughters about healthy marriage relationships rooted in Christ. They’ve had fun and success in marriage because of keeping the main thing, God, the main thing. Our favorite thing about Tor's parents is their friendship to each other and to us. They laugh easily and love relentlessly.
Fred & Cassandra Crittenden
Parents of the Groom
Fred and Cassandra met in St. Louis, Missouri at the entrance of a Golf Club. They will be celebrating 29 years of marital bliss! They serve as Co-Pastors at Press Apostolic Ministries in Michigan. They have devoted their lives to serving each other and others. Cassandra loves to pray, teach, sing, volunteer, and host events. She lives for quality time with loved ones and makes an impact on all of those around her. Fred loves to preach, teach, fish, work on his boat, and watch Pirates of the Caribbean. The love and commitment he shows to everyone around him is reflective of his love and commitment to God. Our favorite thing about his parents is their ability to meet you where you are. The love they have for each other is the glue that keeps this big beautiful family as close as we are.
Ali Hawley
Maid of Honor
Tor is only called Tor because Ali exists. They are 14 months and 1 day apart. When the baby was born, Ali couldn’t say “Victoria",” so she said “Tor Tor.” Ali is Tor’s big sister, sickness soup cooker, make up artist, and everything else a girl could need. She has the biggest heart and relentlessly loves.
Aaron Mallett
Best Man
Freddie met Aaron at a high school track practice and they have been best friends ever since. Aaron motivates, supports, encourages, and talks STL slang with Freddie.
Morgan Jones
Bridesmaid
Tor met Morgan on the first day of their freshman year of college and have been best friends ever since. Morgan is where Tor seeks perspective and wisdom. Morgan brings laughter and extra everywhere she goes.
Jarret Eaton
Best Man
Freddie met Jarret on his official visit to Syracuse University. Jarret’s successes have motivated Freddie since! Jarret fiercely protects his friends, he is always ready to encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
Royonah Marble
Bridesmaid
Tor met Royonah at some point during college and just never let go. Ro is Tor’s stylist, she is a NYC fashionista after-all. Ro is Tor’s sounding board, her feelings checker, her favorite laugh, and holder of her most epic memories.
Amadou Gueye
Groomsman
Freddie met Amadou on his official visit to Syracuse. They quickly clicked and talked for hours while Amadou missed his practice. Amadou naturally brings people together and he is intentional in all of his relationships.
Ib Majekodunmi
Bridesmaid
Tor met Ib the first week of college at Iowa. Ib has a huge heart and a trillion friends. She is the first to cry and the first to laugh. Ib is Tor’s hype woman, party planner, and a safe space for honesty.
Antonio Reynolds
Groomsman
Toni is Freddie’s big brother, one of five big brothers. Tony has always been Freddie’s comedic relief, he is always genuine, and passionately loves his family.
Yemi Ajagbe
Bridesmaid
Tor met Yemi at bible study in Phoenix, Arizona. Yem strutted into the room and into Tor’s life, where she will always remain. Yemi is dynamic in every way. She gets Tor out of her shell, hypes her up, and leads her closer to Christ in every conversation.
Jabari Butler
Groomsman
Freddie met Jabari through Syracuse Track & Field. Jabari understands Freddie’s humor perfectly, and is his personal stylist. Jabari is goal oriented, well rounded, and doesn’t settle.
Channing Paulsen
Bridesmaid
Tor met Channing because Chan is Ali’s best friend. Channing has become a second sister to Tor. She just gets her introversion and sometimes evil humor. Chan is a sounding board, a holder of favorite memories, and family.
James Krajenke
Groomsman
Freddie met James in high school math class after moving to Michigan. James is competitive yet humble, has a big heart, and holds onto his friendships fiercely.
Michelle Vogds
Bridesmaid
Tor played softball with Michelle in college (Go Hawks!). Michelle is Tor’s weirdest friend— in all of the best ways. Michelle will physically injure herself to make you laugh. She is gentle guidance, deep encouragement, and all the fun.
Jotham Nixon
Groomsman
Jotham is Freddie’s little cousin. Jotham was Freddie’s first friend (who wasn’t a brother). They grew up together and share countless memories and inside jokes. Jotham has strong faith and moral compass, and he finds humor in everything.