The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

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9 Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

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Crossed Keys Estate 

5.0

Andover, NJ
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $31,000

Crossed Keys Estate is a luxury wedding venue situated one hour outside of New York City in Andover, NJ. This lush property is nestled on 30+ acres of gardens, meadows, and old buildings that pay homage to its storied past. Brand new to the Estate is the Conservatory, a beautiful glass-enclosed building, that hosts the most magical cocktail hour! Crossed Keys Estate hosts weddings for 100 guests or more with a maximum of 275.

This was our first time at Crossed Keys Estate, and from the moment we did our research, we knew we were in for something special. The estate’s 30 acres of history, with stunning gardens, towering 200-year-old trees, and a charming farmhouse, provide the perfect mix of modern and rustic elegance. One of our favorite aspects? The venue hosts just one wedding a day, so all the attention and resources are devoted to the couple—a huge plus for creating a seamless experience. From the beginning, Erika and Jeremy were so laid-back and excited to enjoy their day. The preparation spaces were perfect—the girls had a beautiful rustic farmhouse, while the guys had a spacious house just down the gravel road, complete with a golf green for a little fun before the festivities. We love incorporating multiple, and Crossed Keys Estate offered the perfect backdrop for each one. From the emotional bridesmaids' reveal to the heartwarming first look between Erika and her dad (we could feel the intensity of the moment from the sidelines), and finally, the groom's first look on the picturesque grounds—it was magical. The estate’s swing under the giant tree and the intimate reflection pond were standout spots for capturing stunning couple photos, tucked away from the crowd. The reception space was equally amazing. The modern hall, with floor-to-ceiling windows, allowed gorgeous natural light to flood the room, making for a perfect backdrop for the celebration and the sweetheart table. Working with Katrina, the Senior Venue Coordinator, was a breeze. Every request the couple had was thoroughly listened to, and the venue made sure the day flowed effortlessly for everyone involved. Everything was timed perfectly, the florals (created by the venue!) were stunning, and the food was exquisite. Every detail was executed flawlessly, ensuring the couple and their guests could enjoy the day without a single hiccup. Now that we’ve experienced Crossed Keys Estate firsthand, we can’t wait to return! Our creativity was sparked by the newness of the venue, but we’re also excited to bring that knowledge back for future weddings. Erika and Jeremy’s wedding was a perfect day, and we look forward to more love stories at this beautiful estate.
Olya B., 2 months ago
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Sylvan Ridge Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

A historic property with timeless beauty, Sylvan Ridge Farm is nestled into a wooded mountainside overlooking the Delaware River Valley. Our mid-19th century farmhouse, cottage, and event barn have been revitalized with design insights from renowned architect Peter Bohlin and the meticulous skill of Pennsylvania Amish craftsmen to create a truly unique gathering place. Guests enjoy total solitude on the secluded 193 acres, yet the farm is only 10 minutes away from Interstate 84, historic Milford, PA, and Port Jervis, NY, with easy access from New York City via train, bus, or car. We specialize in long-format weddings, where one couple has exclusive venue access for a full weekend and can have their rehearsal dinner, brunch, or other side events at no additional charge. Overnight lodging for up to 16 guests and professional month-of coordination are included in every package!

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We fell in love with this venue the moment we drove up the road. My husband and I grew up in NJ, live in Brooklyn, and were looking for a venue that felt like a nature retreat while still being accessible for our friends and family. Milford is a great town just down the road and the hotels are so close too. Linnea and Alec were so communicative and helpful with the endless lists of questions we sent them. We cannot thank them enough for setting the stage for the weekend - and I'm just so impressed with how seamless and easy it felt to use their venue. We were struck just by the beauty of the whole property. It's absolutely marvelous! We were surrounded by charming little bunnies and butterflies the whole weekend. We took advantage of the place for the whole weekend - a Friday night pizza truck party, multiple pool and hot tub hangouts, and a Sunday bagel brunch in the barn. Everybody was raving about the barn, farmhouse, and cottage. The sunset during the reception created a great atmosphere for our guests to congregate and enjoy the lawn. We felt right at home and it made our wedding so incredibly special.
Rebecca S., 3 months ago
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Fox & Bear Lodge 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

The Fox & Bear Lodge would be honored to host your next special event! At the Fox & Bear Lodge, your hosts Brant and Dearrick strive to create for their guests an experience that is truly unique. Brunches, private parties celebrating special occasions, weddings, and/or pre or post-wedding gatherings are elevated with sophisticated touches your hosts can provide. Stunning floral arrangements, beautifully displayed foods both savory and sweet, signature cocktails, or a mixed fruits mimosa bar: these are just a few of the elements that your guests would encounter at an event hosted at The Fox & Bear Lodge. If you are looking to hold a one-of-a-kind gathering that your family and friends are sure to remember, consider holding it at our Lodge. We look forward to serving you.

Such an amazing place to start your journey! The attention to details was incredible. From the wedding to the party. Each guest was made to feel so special. The rooms were beautiful for both us and our guest. This made our event a life time experience.
Renee K., a month ago
The Meadow Wood 

5.0

Randolph, NJ
  • Up to 700 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Featuring our gorgeous garden are and a reception venue to take your breath away, we offer every amenity that you could desire to create and ensure your special day is perfect. From classical European to contemporary design, the breathtaking décor at The Meadow Wood captures the essence of the most amazing places on Earth. Each of five exquisite rooms - unique and remarkable in their own right - set the stage for your fairy-tale event. Every ballroom has its own cocktail room, private outdoor and a bridal suite for pre-wedding preparation or a brief escape from the limelight. With packages customized to reflect your style and personality, you can sit back and relax while you watch your dream day become a reality.

My guests were in awe walking into this venue! It is absolutely breathtaking both inside and out. Our ceremony was in the garden and everyone raved about the innate beauty. The staff went fully above and beyond to make sure we had an incredibly special day. The food for cocktail hour and dinner was complimented non stop! I also was told service was impeccable and guests never waited for any drinks! If there were any hiccups on the day I (the bride) was never made aware because the Meadow Wood team took care of everything. If I had to do it all over, this is 100% the first thing I’d book! It truly was a day I’ll never forget because of this venue and team
Rachel E., 2 months ago
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Bell’s Mansion 
Stanhope, NJ
  • Up to 65 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

OUR CONCEPT: WE BELIEVE IN QUALITY - QUALITY OF GOOD COMPANY, GOOD AMBIANCE + GOOD FOOD. BELL'S MANSION IS LOCATED ATOP THE PERFECT HILL IN STANHOPE, NJ - RIGHT ACROSS FROM THE MORRIS CANAL. ENJOY OUR SEASONAL OUTDOOR BAR AND TWO GARDEN PATIOS OR OUR GORGEOUS VIEWS FROM THE WINDOW LINED CANAL ROOM OVERLOOKING THE SCENERY. WE HOPE THAT OUR GUESTS WILL ADORE OUR STUNNING GARDEN, JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO – WITH OVER 200 GRAPE VINES, OVER 80 FRUIT BEARING TREES, RASPBERRIES, GOOSEBERRIES, CURRANTS AND VEGETABLES GALORE. THE RESTAURANT IS ADORNED WITH MANY VINTAGE + ANTIQUE PIECES TO CREATE THE PERFECT ATMOSPHERE FOR YOUR QUAINT DINNER OR CASUAL NIGHT OUT. CELEBRATE ALL OF YOUR MILESTONES, YOUR FAMILY + YOUR FRIENDS WITH US.

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Waterloo Village 

5.0

Stanhope, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $19,000

Featuring a working mill, blacksmith shop, active church, and several beautiful historic houses, Waterloo Village is a time capsule surrounded by an air of tranquil beauty. With its rich history, Waterloo Village is the perfect setting for weddings. Boasting two spectacular indoor event spaces—the newly-renovated meeting house and the rustic pavilion—in addition to its spacious outdoor compound, Waterloo has the resources and ambiance to make your special occasion a memorable success. As a remarkably well-preserved example of a 19th-Century canal town and the site of a 400-year-old Lenape Indian village, Waterloo Village is an incredibly valuable piece of New Jersey history. Waterloo is open to the public as part of Allamuchy Mountain State Park and home to many events and educational programs to teach and inform visitors about the past. When you choose Waterloo Village as the setting for your event, a portion of proceeds will go towards the preservation and restoration of the site.

We are absolutely thrilled about our upcoming wedding at Waterloo Village, and here's why: Culinary Delight: From the moment we tasted their farm-to-table menu, we were blown away by the incredible flavors and the impeccable quality of ingredients. Booking Waterloo without prior knowledge of their cuisine turned out to be a delightful surprise. With a diverse array of menu options, cake flavors, and hors d'oeuvres, they truly cater to every palate. Inclusive Offerings: Waterloo Village goes above and beyond with its inclusions. From the elegantly adorned tables to the picturesque getting ready areas, card box, seating chart, ceremony chairs, every detail is thoughtfully provided. The venue's scenic beauty serves as the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable celebration. Quirky Charm: What truly sets Waterloo apart for us, are their alpacas. The opportunity to stroll into cocktail hour accompanied by these adorable animals added a unique touch to our wedding. It's an experience we couldn't find anywhere else, and the fact that it's included at no extra charge is simply remarkable. Stunning Location: With its blend of vintage buildings, historic charm, and natural beauty, Waterloo Village offers an abundance of photo opportunities. Whether against the backdrop of the canal, the incredible fireplaces, the farmland, or the gardens, every corner of this location exudes timeless beauty. Exemplary Service: From our initial inquiries to the tasting session, the communication and professionalism of Waterloo's coordinators and staff have been exceptional. Their prompt responses and friendly demeanor have instilled us with confidence that our special day is in capable hands. In essence, Waterloo Village encapsulates everything we envisioned for our wedding: exquisite cuisine, inclusive amenities, unique experiences, breathtaking surroundings, and top-notch service. Once we tour Waterloo, we were set and couldn't be more excited to celebrate the beginning of our marriage in such a magical setting.
Kristine M., 9 months ago
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The Mansion at Mountain Lakes 

5.0

Mountain Lakes, NJ
  • Up to 375 guests
  • Select services

Discover timeless elegance at The Mansion. Our renovated rustic venue blends classic charm with modern luxury, offering versatile spaces for events of all sizes. Experience impeccable service and award-winning cuisine at one of New Jersey’s top event venues. Your wedding at The Mansion is an embodiment of elegance and grace. Picture your special day amidst our luxurious ballrooms or tranquil gardens, each setting radiating sophistication. Our dedicated team is committed to bringing your vision of an elegant celebration to life, ensuring that your wedding is not just an event, but a cherished memory treasured by you and your guests.

We got married at The Mansion on Aug 10th and there are insufficient characters in this review box to capture our gratitude for what an impeccable place this was to get married. We initially chose the venue for ease of the location (we live a few blocks away). I hoped the food would be good, since we couldn't do a tasting, and just trusted it would all work out. THESE PEOPLE BLEW ME AWAY. The staff is awesome, from the Matre D, to the Bridal Attendant, to all the ways Jim and Nancy helped us tend to ever detail of the event, it was the most perfect day. The food was so delicious. Our guests are still talking to us about it weeks later. The cocktail hour was incredible. The main course was the best piece of meat I've ever had in my life. Everything was so fresh, and so delicious. My only regret of my wedding was that I didn't eat more than just a few bites of everything. I woke up the next morning craving the rest of my filet mignon, lol. We went with the "minimum" of everything included because we were on a budget, but it was all so abundant, generous and tasty. Even the dessert platters that came with the meal were amazingly delicious. The space itself is luxurious and beautiful. We had the whole venue to ourselves and the whole thing was just magical.
Emiliya Z., 3 months ago
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David's Country Inn 

5.0

Hackettstown, NJ
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

A historic mansion built in 1840. Restored and run by the Falzarano family since 1978. This gorgeous space oozes charm and character and is unlike any place you've ever been to for a wedding. We cater to only one event per day so you do not have to share the space with anyone else. Please take some time and read our reviews online. We pride ourselves on delicious homemade food and personal service.

Awarded Best of Zola
Not only are they one of the most affordable venues but they’re sincerely one of the most caring venues around. They go above and beyond to make your day special. The staff is extremely attentive and their response time to emails is incredibly fast. Couldn’t recommend them more.
Jamie A., a year ago

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About wedding venues in Flanders, NJ

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Flanders, NJ?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Flanders, NJ offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $100 and average $800. All-inclusive packages start at $130 and average $11,500.

What types of venues can I find in Flanders, NJ?

Flanders offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Hotel and resort and Historic estate.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Flanders, NJ?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include SkyView Golf Club, Perona Farms and The Madison Hotel. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Flanders, NJ?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (45% in Flanders do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (48% in Flanders do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Flanders, NJ accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Flanders, NJ can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1200. The average venue in Flanders can seat 120 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Flanders, NJ offer?

The venues in Flanders, NJ are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wi-Fi, Service staff and Event staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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