The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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4 Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

Historic estates, mansions
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The Upchurch 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding at The Upchurch was one of THE best days of our lives and we are so thankful for such a beautiful celebration for our marriage. The venue was absolutely gorgeous, well laid out and a perfect match for us. In addition to the quality of the venue design, the quality of the owner Cara and venue team is exceptional. They make you feel right at home and as so helpful throughout the planning stages. Highly recommend!!
Shelby S., 7 months ago
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The Oaks at Salem 

5.0

Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., a year ago
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Jiddi Space & Courtyard 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

The Jiddi Space & Courtyard, part of Raleigh's Helig-Levine Complex, comprises four historic buildings dating back to the late 1800s. Originally a furniture and dry goods store, the space evolved into a stockroom for Heilig-Levine Furniture Store. Restored by Empire Properties in 2005, it now serves as an event venue managed by neighboring restaurants Sitti and Gravy. Hosting parties, weddings, and events, it retains its historic charm with market lights and a rich heritage spanning nearly 150 years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Jiddi Space & Courtyard was an excellent choice for our wedding reception. Their communication throughout the planning process was responsive, pleasant, and professional. The ambiance of their venue was perfect for our wedding, with a beautiful space that allowed for a wonderful evening of celebration and dancing with our family and friends. The Jiddi team went above and beyond to make our special day truly magical, from the beginning of the planning stages to the end of the evening. The food was also delicious, and we would highly recommend Jiddi Space & Courtyard to others looking for a special event venue.
Pattie B., 7 months ago
The Grove at City Market 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 110 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Grove at City Market is an intimate wedding venue located in Raleigh, NC. This unique venue offers a charming atmosphere with rustic decor and contemporary elements throughout. The Grove at City Market offers a range of chic indoor and outdoor spots for you to host your ceremony, including a brick garden patio area in the heart of City Market's cobblestone streets and a historic sheltered space featuring an Edison bulb chandelier. They offer cocktail hour bars complete with flaming fire pits and comfortable lounge areas where you can host a casual reception with your friends and family. The Grove at City Market can cater to a range of events, such as engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, elopements, weddings, and more. They offer a selection of comprehensive packages, including all the services you may need to pull off your dream event, from delectable catering and refreshing beverages to staffing and rentals.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Offers a sense of luxury
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We work with the Market Hall team often as planners and we always have a great experience! The staff are so knowledgeable on all things catering, weddings, and events and we know our clients are in great hands if they book The Grove or Market Hall. We love that The Grove has a unique look and the space is so modern! If you are looking for a chic, modern, industrial space with amazing food then The Grove is for you!
Something Fabulous, 3 years ago

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About wedding venues in Cary, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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