Wedding planning can be tricky without an exact headcount, so because of this we'll need your RSVP by no later than August 15th, 2022.
Great question! We both use they/them pronouns. Leading up to the wedding instead of calling us “bride” or “groom,” you can use fiancé or nearlywed. Instead of calling us “husband” or “wife,” you can call us partners, newlyweds, or spouses. Instead of having a “bridal party” or “groomsmen,” we’ll simply have a wedding party who we affectionately refer to as our "I Do Crew." As far as titles go, instead of using “Mr.” or “Mrs.” you can use M., pronounced "em," or Mx., pronounced "mix." If you have questions about any other gendered wedding terms just reach out to us and we’ll let you know what we’re most comfortable with as a replacement!
Unfortunately, due to budget we can’t afford for all of our guests to bring a guest of their own. If there's someone special you'd like to bring who isn't listed on your RSVP, please reach out to us privately and we'll let you know if we can make it happen.
While we love kiddos, we have chosen to keep our wedding ceremony & reception child-free. If you’re unable to attend due to this, there will be a short highlight video of the ceremony & reception so you and your family can be with us in spirit!
Yes! We have a hotel block at Drury Inn & Suites in Bowling Green and we’ll have a shuttle pick up prior to the ceremony and drop off at the end of the reception for those staying at the hotel. More specific information is posted on the Hotel & Shuttle page of this website.
Only a little! If we had to put a name to our dress code, we'd call it SEMI-FORMAL or DRESSY CASUAL. To us, that means the sweet spot where comfort and fashion overlap. Have fun with patterns, dress up if that's what you're feeling, or dress down a bit if that's more comfy for you. As long as you're comfortable and feeling amazing, then you've hit the nail on the head! If this isn't enough direction and you're having trouble coming up with something though, I pinned just a few photos on Pinterest to get your gears turning and you can find the link below. https://www.pinterest.com/educandesabr/dress-code/
We will have a limited open bar with wine, beer, hard seltzer, and 3 signature cocktails. You'll be able to order any of these options, but we won't be providing any liquor outside of the signature drinks which means no whiskey on the rocks or the like. All cocktails will be available as mocktails upon request. We definitely encourage bringing cash with you to tip your bartenders! We'll also be providing pitchers of water so be sure to have some while you're taking advantage of the open bar to keep the headaches at bay.
Yes! All food and desserts at our wedding will be vegan because Kat is vegan & Sab is vegetarian, but if you have a dietary restriction outside of that please specify when you RSVP and we'll make sure to provide you with some yummy food that fits your dietary needs.
Good question!! You cannot! There will be a smoking area right outside of the cave with an ash tray, so if you need to smoke please do so there.
We've thought about this A LOT. Do we hyphenate for a super long Anderson-Turner? Does one of us lose our own name and take the other's? In the end we decided to meet in the middle and combine our last names to become Sab & Kat Turnerson.