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Can't wait to see you all!!!
Can't wait to see you all!!!

Trisha & Matthew

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The Wedding Website of Trisha Backhaus and Matthew Papendorf
Meet our people! We are so excited they said yes to sharing our big day with us!

Lisa Papendorf

Mother of the Groom

Lisa has been so supportive of Matthew and me. She has reached out a helping hand constantly and I couldn't imagine life without her now. To say I have the best mother-in-law is an understatement!


Tom Papendorf

Father of the Groom

Tom has always been an incredible support in our time dating. I am so blessed to have a great father-in-law!

Peggy Jaeger

Mother of the Bride

My mom has been a great support my entire life, and I am grateful for her!


Joan Jaeger

Mother of the Bride

My step mom has been a great role model in my life. I am glad she is joining us for our special day!

Don Backhaus

Father of the Bride

My dad has been so very kind and always supportive. We love him dearly!


Tyler Petermann

Best Man

Matthew and Tyler have known each other since 5th grade and became best friends freshman year. He has helped Matthew many times and could tell you a whole bunch of embarrassing stories!

Benjamin Papendorf

Groomsman

Matthew's brother, Benjamin. He is a great man and we love that he agreed to join us on our big day!


Sean Finger

Groomsman

Sean and Matthew are great friends! He too could tell you some goofy stories, but I will let him do the honors.

Josh Kutchenrieter

Groomsman

Josh and Matt have been good friends for years! He is always so nice whenever we all hang out! Matthew is lucky to have such a great friend!


Caitlin Jaeger

Matron of Honor

Caitlin and I have been cousins and best friends since birth basically. We've shared so many memories together. Since she and Rondae have been together, I've been the third wheel for a couple of years, and now that's changed and we can finally go on dates as married couples!

Emily Graap

Bridesmaid

We have been friends for quite some years, but we really got close when we both got engaged around the same time! I am so excited to celebrate with her!


Emma Petermann

Bridesmaid

Emma and I met shortly after Matthew and I started dating. She is such a fun, loving person and what a great way to repay her for an amazing weekend from her wedding than to have her by my side on mine!

Tiffany Backhaus

Bridesmaid

My sister has been a great support all my life, and I couldn't imagine not spending my special day without her!


Nate Laude

Usher

One of Matthew's cousins. He should have quite the stories to tell of Matthew from their childhood together!

Jonny Laude

Usher

Another one of Matthew's cousins. Jonny should have a lot of fun hunting stories with Matthew to tell!

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