FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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We would LOVE to know if you are coming right away, but we will need to give a final guest count to our venue by a certain date so they know how many people to accommodate for. The absolute latest that we need your RSVP's is by October 20, 2019. If you are having trouble RSVP'ing online, please text Gillian at (619) 794-3282 and she can do it for you. Thank you!!

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will be starting at 5:00. We would recommend getting there at least 30 minutes beforehand.

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Can I take pictures?

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You can use your cellphones during the reception to take as many pictures/videos as you'd like. However, during the ceremony, we would appreciate it if all cellphones were turned off or put on silent, and put away so we all can enjoy the ceremony without any distractions. If you would like to have photographs of the ceremony, we have hired a very talented photographer to take photos that you will be able to access later. Thank you in advance, we appreciate it!

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Are children allowed?

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Unfortunately, there is a 100 person limit at our venue. As much as we would love to have your kiddos be there on our big day, we have made the difficult decision to only have children from our direct family be there, who will be involved in the wedding. We apologize in advance if this creates any complications for you and your family.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says plus one on it, feel free to bring someone! If you did not receive a plus one, we would prefer if you would come by yourself due to limited space at the venue.

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Is there parking?

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YES! Our new venue has a large parking lot directly in front of the venue.

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Are you registered?

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Due to the recent circumstances, and losing over $12,000 from our previous venue, we have made the decision to delete all registries. While gifts are appreciated, they are not needed by Tim and I at this time. We have decided to start a cash fund for our wedding and our honeymoon to help the costs of everything. If you feel so inclined, you can donate whatever amount you wish to, and it will go directly to our bank account. We thank you in advance, and are so appreciative of everybody's help and generosity.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes! Some beer, wine, and champagne will be provided, but we have a limited budget and may not be able to provide enough for all of our guests. We do encourage you to bring your favorite beer/wine/champagne for everybody to enjoy! Whatever is left over at the end of the night, you may take home.