When T was 7 they thought the Birkenstocked, long-haired priest was cute. This set off alarm bells in their ever spinning OCD mind. "What if a priest is my soul mate? Then I'll never get to be married because my one and only decided to marry God instead of me..." This quickly spiraled into a host of Catholic guilt ridden moral questions. Betsy stayed up late into several nights trying to calm Tierney's fears. She was patient and listened and offered answers and solace. After all this back and forth, she asked, "What's one thing that upsets you about not being married?" "I want to get to have a party where my friends AND family get together and celebrate love." Betsy eased T's fears. She promised them that when they turn 40, if they aren't yet married, they would, together, throw a party with their friends AND family and celebrate love. So here we are. Let's party.