Somai & Charles
Wedding Party
Tochukwu Anjuwon
Matron of Honor
"To my amazing big little sister, I am so happy to see you starting to eat the fruits of your labor, from your career, to your friendships and now in your marriage. You carry a grace from God that draws genuine people to you ( Hence the meaning of your name) and have always been fiercely loyal to those you love. I am so grateful that God allowed me to have a sister like you. You inspire me daily with your love, kindness, hard work, loyalty and your wisdom. You are always there for everyone in our family, and although you might carry a serious demeanor, people would be shocked to know how funny and sweet you actually are. I always wondered what kind of man you would marry, but once you introduced Charles to me, and as I have continued to observe you two together, it gives me continuous joy that you are in good hands and so is he. I have observed how he calms you down when you get anxious and how he shows up for you whenever you are sad or stressed. He truly brings out the softness in you. I have observed how he has provided for you in every way that he could, and most important I have seen how he has led you spiritually and drawn you closer to our Lord Jesus Christ. I want to thank you for this Ogo Nwoke as my sister is the most at peace when she is with you; May God bless you Charles. I pray that God continues to bless your union. Love Your Sister"
Kelechi Joe-Nweke
Bridesmaid
"Somai and I met during our first corporate jobs out of college. It wasn't a good experience, but having Somai there was the one good thing that came out of it. We would talk for hours and explore downtown Bethesda together, and that was the beginning of the purest friendship I've ever had. I feel so privileged to have witnessed Somai in various stages of life. We've cried, laughed, danced, and shared so many celebrations and milestones, as well as trials and difficulties, as is the nature of life. I can truly say she is like a sister to me. When Charles entered Somai's life, I was fortunate enough to witness their relationship from the beginning. He truly embodies what I've always imagined a partner should be, accepting Somai for who she truly is. I'm so excited that we get to celebrate such a beautiful couple, both inside and out. I feel like neither of you gets to celebrate yourselves enough, and I'm praying that your union will be filled with laughter, joy, and all the blessings that your hearts desire. May you both always find strength in each other during difficult times, and may your journey together be rich with love, adventure, and the fulfillment of your shared dreams."
Onyinye Iwelunmor
Bridesmaid
"Somai and I have known each other for two decades now - a testament to the strength and resilience of our friendship. We first met as young girls at church, both seeking to deepen our faith and navigate the complexities of life. Over the years, our bond has only grown stronger, weathering the changes and challenges that come with growing up. Somai has been a constant source of support and encouragement through it all. She is truly a unique individual, blessed with the rare ability to radiate positivity and calm. It is no surprise, then, that Somai has found her perfect match in Charles. Their union feels divinely orchestrated, a coming together of two beautiful souls. Charles entered Somai's life at just the right moment, and their love is a shining example of God's blessings. As Somai and Charles embark on this new chapter of their lives, I am honored to be a part of their journey. I wish them a future filled with an abundance of love, joy, and happiness. May their bond only grow stronger with each passing day. Much Love, Onyinye "
Amanda Nnachi
Bridesmaid
"Yooooo my favorite girl is getting married!! I’m beyond excited for this journey. I met Somai through a friend in 2019, it's funny because the first time we met, we were both sleepy and tired and didn’t hit it off immediately. But we eventually hit it off in the coming days and since then we have grown from strangers to friends to now Sisters (I dare say twinnies ….because we get the comment “you guys look alike” alot). I am super excited for Somai and Charles as they start this new chapter of their life, I pray that God’s Love and Blessings radiate over them and that they experience nothing but God’s supernatural guidance as they journey through life together ❤️❤️. I have been around them and seen how they treat one another and I have no doubt that they would always ride for one another. Happy Marriage Life Somai and Charles….super excited for what the future has in store for you two❤️❤️ Wish you guys the very best Love, Amanda"
Adun Adeleye
Bridesmaid
"I first met Somai back in middle school, but it wasn’t until high school (grade 10) that we truly became close. We sat next to each other every day, and with her being one of the few girls in our class, we naturally bonded. Even after she switched schools, we stayed in touch, and I’ve always admired how our friendship stayed strong despite the distance. I love our friendship because no matter how much time passes, we always pick up right where we left off. Somai is one of the sweetest and most genuine people I’ve ever known, and it’s amazing to see how beautifully Charles complements her. Seeing Somai and Charles together, it’s as if everything has fallen into place. Their love is so palpable, you can feel it in every little moment—they don’t even need to say it because it radiates from them. Their connection is clear, strong, and effortless, and it’s so obvious they’re meant to be. I wish them a lifetime of love, happiness, and endless adventures. Your home is truly blessed, and I can’t wait to keep celebrating you both! You deserve all the joy the world has to offer. Love, Adun"
Tochi Madueke
Bridesmaid
"I met Somai twelve years ago during my first year in the U.S., where we both lived in Valdosta, Georgia, for undergrad. Our paths crossed through family connections—our fathers are longtime friends and business partners. We lived just steps from each other, and though she was closer to my sister at first, once I arrived, we quickly became inseparable—more like sisters than friends. We shared so many memories during those early years that I continue to cherish. Seeing Somai with Charles reminds me that life (through Christ) leads us to where we need to be. Charles has been her rock, embodying the kindness and stability she’s always desired. It’s wonderful to see her with someone who values and uplifts her. Here, I am reminded of kintsukuroi, the Japanese art of mending pottery with gold, creating something even more unique and beautiful. It is not so much about brokenness as it is about how life’s experiences come together to create the richness and strength of who we are and who we become together. In the same way, God, in His perfect timing, brings everything together in a way that makes us whole and even more beautiful. I believe that God’s perfect timing brought Somai and Charles together, and I’m excited to watch their love continue to blossom into a gold-filled masterpiece. Somai and Charles, I pray that your journey together is filled with endless joy, love that ripens like sweet fine wine, and golden moments that continue to light up your lives and story. AMEN."
Adaeze Okwu
Bridesmaid
"Somai is my big sister in love! Somai and I met through my her husband, aka my favorite cousin! Funny enough I heard so much about her but the first time I met her was over dinner and he wasn’t even there. Fast forward a couple of years, there’s no better person I could wish for my cousin. Somai and I laugh, joke, workout, vent, and even go to church together. I even see her at work from time to time. She is such a sweet soul and though cliché, to know her really is to love her. I am honored to be apart of this union and I pray God continues to elevate you two individually and as a unit. I pray you see all your prayers for life and your family come true, and I pray God will bless you two and keep you safe for years to come. I am here for you two 5ever, love you always!"
Jessica Ijebor
Bridesmaid
"Somai and I are cousins, and I have lots of fun memories with her both from when we both lived in Lagos and even when she came to visit me when my family moved abroad. She's always been a kind and fun person, and I wish you all the best in this next chapter of your life! Congratulations, Somai and Charles, on your big day 🎊. I pray your marriage will be one full of joy, laughter, and peace. Best wishes on this wonderful journey as you build your new lives together!"
Kingsley Odimegwu
Best Man
"Charles is my older brother, meaning we have been inseparable for years now. We have seen up’s and down’s and by God”s grace he has brought us to the moment currently. Charles is that person everyone calls and he always knows exactly what to say. He has had my back for years and I am so happy to be standing next to him as he crosses this bridge. Seeing Somai and Charles together showed me the importance of partnership, the true meaning of loving someone the necessary sacrifice that must be made in other to build up a home. I wish them nothing but the best, I wish them long life and prosperity. I wish a sound and peaceful home and I can’t wait to experience this next chapter of life with my newly found sister in law. You both deserve nothing but happiness and joy as we get closer to the big day. - Love your little bro Dr. Kingsley Odimegwu. "
Alpha Odimegwu
Groomsman
"I met Charles once I popped out my mother’s womb, my fondest childhood memory was us watching anime in his room late at night and watching anime on Saturday mornings with waffles after playing Call of Duty all night they day before. Since he is grown up now, I’m happy to see him as a grown man pursing a love life I wish to pursue I met Somai on Fourth of July in 2021. She was quiet, but asked subvert questions about my outlook towards life. At first I was pretty annoyed and felt pretty judged but as time went on and I saw her more and had more talks with her, I realized it was a front to protect her sweet loving raw energy. Going to her house in Lagos and seeing her relatives also gave me more insight on the type of family she comes from, and all I can say is that I am happy to know her as much as I do and I can’t wait to know her more. Wishing Charles and Somai a happy married life filled with love and laughter."
Xavier Avery
Groomsman
"I met Charles while we were both pursuing our undergraduate degrees at the University of Oklahoma. What I quickly learned from observing Charles is that he cares about people—regardless of whether that person can help Charles or not. We became friends and then brothers. Charles is a strong-minded person, but he’s also willing to adapt his thinking based on the circumstance—something that I admire about him. I was so excited to meet Somai because I knew how much she meant to Charles. Within ten minutes of speaking with Somai, I realized why Charles loved her: caring, confident, and funny. Somai exhibited so many traits that Charles (and frankly anyone) should appreciate. Seeing Charles and Somai together as a couple is even better than seeing them individually. The way they make each other more kind, more patient, and more funny is evident. Kindness, we all need to receive it, and deliver it—Charles and Somai always do. Patience, a foundational piece to any successful relationship—Charles and Somai are so patient. Funny, we need to laugh in our lifetime, and Charles and Somai laugh so much with each other. Charles and Somai simply make each other better, while loving each other every moment of the way. I wish Charles and Somai the happily ever after they both deserve! With love, Xavier"
Steve Ogbeide
Groomsman
"Charles and I met in 2009 through kachi ezerike! Kachi brought charles to houston during the holiday break and we have been friends ever since! My best memory with charles is honestly playing Madden with him and catching up with him about life! My most favorite thing about charles is his wisdom! There has been a lot of things I have learned from about life and in particularly, being in relationships! Overall, I wish Somai & Charles all the best and may God bless you guys union with love, money, understanding, laughter, peace, and many many many many children!"
Elochukwu Chukwuma
Groomsman
"I met Charles through our mutual friend Steven one random evening at a bar, sparked by casual talk over random events that night. What started as small talk quickly grew deeper—we bonded over family, life, and the challenges of balancing it all. Soon, we were swapping tips on the stock market, sharing career advice, and laughing/crying about our biggest financial blunders. What felt like a chance encounter turned into a strong friendship, built on shared values and life goals. Now, I’m honored to stand by him on his wedding day. Somai and Charles are truly perfect for each other. From their very first meeting, their connection was effortless and full of joy. Somai’s adventurous spirit complements Charles’ calm, steady nature, creating a beautiful balance in their relationship. Together, they navigate life with love, laughter, and unwavering support for one another. It’s clear to everyone who knows them that they’ve found their perfect match. As they start this new chapter, I couldn’t be happier for them and wish them a lifetime of happiness, love, and beautiful memories. "
Kachi Ezirike
Groomsman
"As you both prepare to embark on this beautiful new chapter together, I just want to take a moment to celebrate the love, joy, and adventure that lies ahead. Charles, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing your kindness, loyalty, and heart over the years, and I can confidently say Somai is marrying one of the most incredible souls I know. Together, you two make an unstoppable pair—rooted in mutual respect, compassion, and a deep understanding of one another. Your journey together is only just beginning, and I know it will be filled with countless moments of laughter, growth, and love. Somai, thank you for bringing out the best in Charles and for the beautiful bond you’ve both created. Watching you two together is truly inspiring. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness, cherished memories, and an ever-deepening connection. Wishing you both all the love in the world as you step into this exciting new adventure hand in hand. With love and joy, Onyekachi"
Vince Mason
Groomsman
"I met Charles in college back in 2011 after becoming his fraternity brother and we quickly bonded over our shared (nerdy) interests, road trips, and many difficult engineering classes together. As we’ve grown older, he has consistently been inclusive, accountable, and faith-driven, offering unique perspectives during tough times. He’s truly one of the most reliable friends I could ever ask for. The admiration and respect between Charles and Somai are evident and rare. I wish they lived closer so I could visit them more often, but I’m honored to celebrate their union today. I’m incredibly happy for both of them and wish them a lifetime of love and happiness!"
Kwame Mensah
Groomsman
"I met Charles during our freshman year at OU and we quickly developed a friendship. Our bond grew even more once I also became a member of Alpha Phi Alpha. Throughout the years we’ve maintained that brotherhood. One thing about Charles is that he always shows up. Whether it’s as simple as giving you a ride because your cars in the shop or flying halfway across the country for a short event and flying out that same night. Somai shows up for Charles the same way that Charles shows up for everyone else. The Bible says “He that finds a wife finds a good thing.” But I can certainly say that Charles and Somai have both found a good thing. I look forward to seeing their growth together and I'm excited to expand my family as Somai is now my sister. Wishing you both many blessings. - Kwame"
