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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
June 12, 2021
Durham, NC
#AlwaysAndForIrvin

Sidney & Michael

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

April 1, 2021 - we have to have a final count the week prior to our wedding day so let us know if things change between now and June 4, 2021!

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! The country club is very particular about their dress code. I’ve highlighted what can and cannot be worn there on the main page. We know it’ll be hot and want you all comfortable as our ceremony will be outside. The only thing they ask is that we don’t put any holes in the golf course!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

We have a block of 10 rooms (right now) with Aloft Durham Downtown. Please mention the Irvin & Jackson Wedding to get the group rate. We can increase if needed! Every hotel is about 20-25 minutes from the venue.

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Are you registered? Where?

Answer

Yes! We are registered here on Zola! Your presence is more than enough but if you’re feeling generous we will appreciate every gift.

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Will there be COVID Restrictions?

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Unfortunately yes, we still have to wear masks and social distance but with our ceremony being outside we will be able to seat everyone comfortably. As of now, there can only be 10 people on the dance floor at a time so if your song comes on, tell your friend to tag you in!

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes I’ve gotten this question! And yes there will. We will have an open beer and wine option during the entire reception. There will also be a cash bar for those who would like something different (stronger).

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Food Preparation!!

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For all guests who ordered steak, the chef will cook all of them medium!! You will have to specify during dinner whether or not you need yours cooked any further and they will gladly slap yours back on the burner!

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For those 21+

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Please bring your I.D. or Drivers license if you plan to drink. The bartender will serve those who have wristbands!

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