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The Wedding Website of Shelby Joseph and Matthew Lemke
If you have any other questions that are not listed here, don't hesitate to reach out to Matthew and Shelby!
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Can I bring a date?

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Each invitation is specifically addressed to whomever is invited. If there is a space on your invitation for a guest, then yes. If not, please do not bring additional guests as we do not have the capacity for more people.

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Are children allowed?

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If your child's name is listed on your invitation- we cannot wait to see them! We kindly ask that children be escorted out of the ceremony should any crying or excessive talking occur during that time. We appreciate the courtesy!

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Will there be a bar?

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Absolutley.

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What is the dresscode?

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We ask that all of our guests wear Semi-Formal Attire. That means wear the nicest outfit you have at home. Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. Dress to impress! Please, no jeans, tennis shoes, and of course no white or cream.

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Is there parking?

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Yes! There is free parking at the venue and cars can be left overnight if needed. Cars left over night must be picked up by the next morning. For guests attending from out of town our blocked hotel provides free shuttle transportation to & from the venue!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes! If you are staying at the Chicago Marriott Northwest there is a complimentary shuttle to take you to & from the venue.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We suggest arriving no earlier than 30 minutes prior and arriving no later than 15 minutes prior. We will begin the ceremony promptly at 5:00pm. Guests that arrive late will be asked to wait outside until the ceremony is over.

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Am I allowed to take photos at the wedding?

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During the ceremony we kindly ask that no cell phones are used during this time. We want our guests to be present and attentive as this event only happens once! We have hired a wonderful photography team to capture those photos while you watch. After the ceremony, feel free to take all kinds of photos and videos! We encourage our guests to capture all kinds of memories and send them to us when the night is over!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 1, 2025. Should we get no response from you, we will assume your response is not attending.

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