FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by December 1st, 2024 on our wedding website under the RSVP tab. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate it if you still let us know at the soonest opportunity. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a "no" in order to determine our final headcounts - you will be missed!
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Can I bring a guest/date?
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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests. Your invitation will be made out to "(Your Name) and Guest" if a plus one has been given to you.
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Are kids invited?
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Due to a limited budget, we hope you understand that we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adults-only event with the exception of immediate family. Your invitation will be made out to "The (Your Name) Family" if your children have been invited and "Mr. and Mrs," if only you and your significant other have been invited.
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love to have our friends and family see this as an opportunity to get dressed up with us to celebrate our big day! Dress code is Cocktail (semi-formal) Attire for our wedding.
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What should I definitely NOT wear?
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We kindly ask that you refrain from wearing jeans, sneakers, fluorescent/neon colors, and colors traditionally reserved for the bride - whites, ivories, and cream. In order to keep the appearance of the day cohesive, we do hope that you understand and respect this request. Thank you so much!
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Where should I park?
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The ceremony and the reception will be taking place at the same location, and there will be plenty of parking available to accommodate all of our guests on-site.
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What time should I arrive?
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Guests may start arriving to the venue 30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time, so as early as 3pm. However, please arrive no later than 3:25pm to ensure you can find a seat before the doors are shut at 3:30pm. The doors will be closed for the duration of the ceremony once it has begun.
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How does seating work?
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The ceremony will be open seating, so sit wherever you'd like! However, we do ask that you avoid sitting in the first 3 rows on each side of the ceremony space to ensure those seats are available for our immediate family. For the reception, we have arranged tables so that our guests are seated with those that they know as best as possible.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We are having an "Unplugged" ceremony, so no phones or cameras in use until after the ceremony has ended. We have hired professionals to help capture this moment for us, and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you like!
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What is café hour, and is it different from cocktail hour?
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Café hour is our version of cocktail hour! We will have a coffee and hot chocolate bar with all of the toppings and add-ins, plus sweets and pastries to go along with it. We are having a dry wedding and kindly ask that no outside alcohol is brought to the celebration. We're excited to enjoy a beautiful day filled with great company and memorable moments, and we appreciate your understanding and support in honoring our wishes for this special occasion!
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I have a question not answered here, how do I contact you?
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If you still have any questions that are not answered here or on our website, feel free to text either of us! We appreciate you taking the time to read through everything first, and we hope to help alleviate any questions/concerns you may still have.