Wedding Party
Duane Crooks
Best Man
Duane Crooks was born in Mandeville, Jamaica. He attended the University of Miami Honors Program and graduated cum laude. After a brief moment in Washington D.C, where Duane Crooks enrolled at Georgetown Law, he then decided to return to Florida and attend University of Florida Levin College of Law. Mr. Crooks practices is an attorney practicing in the area of personal injury, with his partner, as well as good friend, Shawn Hairston. Shawn & Duane comprise the infamous Hairston & Crooks Legal Group. Together their firm has reached Millionaire Advocate status, have been mentioned in “The National Top 100 Trial Lawyers” and continues to grow and thrive as it expands from Miami to various legal markets. Duane met Shawn while working at a firm in Coral Gables. They became very close friends having a lot in common, including poker and game theory, entertainment and travel, as well as an overall love and passion for life. Along with being his business partner Duane Crooks is Shawn Hairston's Best Man and looks forward to continuing to being there however he is needed in his business and life. A warm welcome to Shawn, his new wife, and his family.
Lonnie Scales
Groomsman
I met Shawn in college while attending Indiana University of Pennsylvania (IUP). I was Shawn’s Dean while he was being initiated into our fraternity the Xi Sigma Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. We became roommates shortly afterwards. Through college and today, we’ve always been able to remain close friends/Brothers for one another. Fun fact about Shawn? Whenever we go out to eat he’s always able to get a free meal from the establishment… It burns me up every time!
Everett Stephenson
Groomsman
The network of Black Attorneys in Miami is small, and Shawn has been a leader and mentor amongst them. Our friendship developed through work and friendly competition with a focus on succeeding in the industry and living life to our full potential against all odds. Knowing Shawn has been an unpredictable journey that keeps getting better as we grow older. One thing about Shawn is he loves hard and from time to time he even works hard too (lol). The love he has for his fiancé serves as a great example of a modern day love story. I’m excited to see how God will continue to bless them. Can’t wait for the festivities. - Everett Stephenson
Eric Hammond
Groomsman
"In 2009, the corridors of Capitol Hill became the backdrop of a lasting friendship when I first met Shawn. As staffers navigating the vibrant political landscape, our bond formed swiftly and naturally. Shawn stood out not only for his cool demeanor but also for his spirited, 'crazy' side that made every day an adventure. Our camaraderie blossomed over shared experiences, especially enjoying the simple pleasure of free food at lunch briefings. Remarkably, it was during one of our laid-back summer gatherings in 2018, atop my Washington DC rooftop, that Shawn's life took a beautiful turn. There, he met Amilca, his soon-to-be fiancé, and the rest, as they say, is history." -Eric (Courtesy of ChatGPT)
AJ Custis
Groomsman
I met Shawn in Maryland, in the townhomes called Metro Pointe. I was introduced to Shawn through his fiancé Amilca and honestly since that day we realized we have a lot in common from hanging out in nightclubs to being great fathers to our kids and much more. We’ve honestly became super close and I call him my brother/ sheesh he even has my location lol. Fun fact about Shawn, him and I both hate paying retail for things so bad that we will look for deals to try to avoid paying full price for items.
Justin Roberts
Groomsman
Shawn and I have been friends for over 20 years. We went to high school, college, and law school together. We even lived together as grown men in our 30s! He’s one the most consistent people I know. When I disagree with his thought or approach to something it’s never a mystery how he got there. He’s someone who I can have uncomfortable personal conversations with. We can be honest with each other without sugar coating. It’s refreshing because a lot of people will just agree or say ‘oh yeah that’s hot’ when they don’t like something. Shawn doesn't do that with me. In many regards our personalities are opposite. That has given our friendship strength, forcing us to grow and evolve over the years maintaining the relationship. I know he’s pushed me to do and experience things I never would have done if he weren’t in my life. And I know I’ve helped him view things from different perspectives. I’m thankful for him as a friend and the impact he's had on me. I'm excited for Amilca and him to celebrate their union and look forward to our friendship growing as they embark on life together.
Tristan Wilkerson
Groomsman
Shawn and I first crossed paths on Capitol Hill, embarking on our careers with big dreams and bigger aspirations. Two presidents, a couple of passports, a couple seven figure businesses, and a genius kid for each of us later, we found friendship growing fast. In Shawn, I have a brother in three ways: 1) as fraternity brothers (06); 2) as permanent plus ones to our respective future Mrs. (who happen to be long time bffs - or whatever the call it these days); and 3) most importantly, as best friends. While Shawn is known in Miami for his stellar (or clandestine? lol) legal work with the urban elite, it’s his role as an incredible dad and one of the most rational minds I know that truly defines him. Shawn is that rare kind of friend who’s always there, whether it's talking through life and fatherhood, firing up the finest Cuban cigars. As he steps into this new chapter with his wonderful bride, I'm honored to stand by his side. Here’s to a lifetime a brotherhood, faith, and family!
Noel Paulino
Groomsman
A few years back in Miami, I crossed paths with Shawn, initially as his barber, but we swiftly forged a strong friendship. Our connection extended to our children—his son SJ, and my son Noel and daughter Niyah—forming a bond that led to frequent sleepovers, where at 2 am, I'd find three kids hollering at a computer screen while immersed in online games. Even after SJ moved away from Miami, our kids have remained in touch. Shawn introduced me to the term "Jawn" as a versatile reference for people, places, or things. As both of our passports get put to use as much as possible, we've explored numerous countries together, his penchant for first-class flights, top-notch dining experiences, and booking penthouse beachfront properties serving as inspiration for me to seek life's finer offerings. I extend heartfelt wishes to him and Amilca for a future filled with blessings.
Clifton Williams
Groomsman
As a Capitol Hill staffer on a modest salary, free lunch receptions were a popular choice for us to attend. One day at a briefing, I found myself seated at the same table as Shawn. By the end of the lunch, we both felt a sense of familiarity. After a few questions, we discovered that we were, in fact, fraternity brothers. What began as a chance encounter at a lunch reception has evolved into over a decade of shared trips to Atlantic City and Las Vegas (before he became an international traveler) and countless unforgettable stories that remain confidential. I am looking forward to celebrating Shawn and Amilca's new chapter in North Carolina. I am thrilled that both of them have "found the one whom their soul loves." May the bridal party help in creating new memories that will be just as cherished and kept close to heart.
Kimberly Johnson
Maid of Honor
Amilca and I first crossed paths in the spring of 2000, back in our 5th-grade days at Fred A. Smith Elementary School. It was one of those magical moments where our 11-year-old selves just knew we were meant to be friends forever. Fast forward 24 years, and here we are, still as close as ever. From dancing at Lil' Bow Wow concerts to navigating high school dramas and the excitement of getting our learner's permits and driver's licenses in North Carolina, we've been through it all together. As the years passed, we pursued our dreams and found ourselves building our careers in Washington DC, exploring the world, and sharing countless adventures. Through thick and thin, we've been each other's rock, supporting one another through every triumph and tribulation. Now, as Amilca prepares to embark on the next chapter of her life, I couldn't be more thrilled to stand by her side as her maid of honor. Our journey together has been nothing short of incredible, and I can't wait to continue making memories as we celebrate this momentous occasion. Here's to saying goodbye to the streets, the next chapter and many more years of laughter, love, and friendship.
Regan Hales
Bridesmaid
Amilca and I's journey began at JJ Johnson’s Bible Camp, nestled in Laurel Hall, NC. Shout out to Cabin number 3, where our friendship sparked into something more. From those humble beginnings, our path led us through Southeast Raleigh High School, where we shared countless laughs and memories. We navigated through the vibrant nightlife of Hi-5 and Pi-Bar, making memories that still bring smiles to our faces. Our journey continued as we pursued higher education at Winston-Salem State University, cheering on the sidelines and forming bonds that would last a lifetime. Becoming Line Sisters deepened our connection, solidifying our friendship into sisterhood. Now, as she embarks on the journey of marriage, I couldn't be more grateful for the incredible moments and experiences Amilca has brought into my life. With her infectious personality and unforgettable voice, she has always been the friend you can't forget. Cheers to the Hairston’s and may this next ride be the best ride of both of your lives.
Errin Little
Bridesmaid
As first cousins born a year apart, Amilca and I we were each other’s first friend and playmates. We fought like siblings and even dressed alike as babies. Over the years I have watched Amilca conquer every obstacle and goal she has ever set, solidifying herself as a role model. She has become a strong thread to keep her family and close friends together, and her take charge attitude is something I have grown to love over the years. Amilca loves with all of her heart. To watch the way she adores Shawn and SJ has not only unlocked a new chapter, but a new level of admiration. I am so excited God saw it fit to allow these two to build a life together. I cannot wait to see what next adventure the new Hairston family is blessed with.
Joi Dixon
Bridesmaid
I don’t quite remember the exact moment when I met Amilca, but from the very beginning, our friendship was unmistakable. Introduced by her then-roommate Kimberly, we quickly discovered our shared roots as Southern belles, former HBCU queens, and fellow classroom teachers, now navigating the bustling streets of Washington, DC. Together, we traversed the globe, exploring over 10 countries and even teaching in southern Brazil for a summer. Through the highs and lows of our early 20s till now, Amilca has become more than a friend – she's a sister, a constant source of wisdom and support. They say that people come into our lives for different reasons and seasons – some as leaves, fleeting yet beautiful, others as branches, helping us bear fruit, or as roots grounding us and nurturing growth. Amilca is both a branch and a root in my life, a stabilizing force that continues to nurture and help me grow. I am grateful for the blessing of her friendship. As she embarks on this journey of marriage, I couldn't be more honored to stand by her side, championing her as she says 'I do' and steadfastly supporting her in this new chapter of life.
Jasmine Sweet
Bridesmaid
It was love at first sight for Amilca and me. We were twenty-somethings living out our dreams as interns for the Congressional Black Caucus Foundation. It was a Sunday afternoon, and we were moving into our "real world house" with the other interns. We recognized each other immediately as we boastfully carried our Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. paraphernalia into our new home. We ran to each other with open arms as if we'd known each other our entire lives and, in some sense, of the way - we had. Even after I left D.C., our long-distance relationship was still budding, and I'd call her for anything, and she'd have an answer! She's my voice of reason. Amilca is my soul sister, and for 14 years, she's stood by my side through love, loss, and legacy. On my wedding day, she was there, and she wiped my tears when my father went to heaven, and she saw me through when I became a mother. Ironically and not in the same order, I have done and will do the same for her. God has ordered our steps, and I am honored to have a friend like Amilca. She is loyal, authentic, and, best of all, FUN! May she and Shawn live their sweetest lives yet.
Subria Jackson
Bridesmaid
I’ve known Amilca my whole life. No literally, I’ve known her since I was born. Amilca is my big cousin, honestly she’s more like a big sister, we were always close. She’s the fun cousin, the cousin you could talk to, and the cousin you looked up to. Fun fact about Milc, she used to think I was her life size Barbie doll. She would do my hair, dress us in matching outfits and take me everywhere with her. I used to want to be just like Amilca as a kid! My whole life Amilca was that girl and now she’s gonna be that wife!!
Chloe Jordan
Bridesmaid
Our journey began in the bustling city of Washington, DC, shortly after we graduated from our respective alma mater in 2011. Both deeply committed to the field of education, our paths converged as we embarked on our careers within DC Public Schools, driven by a shared passion for empowering young minds. Over thirteen years, our bond has grown stronger, enriched by countless cherished memories and unwavering support. Amilca, fondly known as "Milc," has not only been a dear friend but also a guiding light and sister (1908). Her presence in our lives radiates beauty, grace, and a profound connection to something greater than ourselves. Amidst the hustle and bustle of our lives, Amilca graciously welcomed me into her circle of childhood friends, where I had the pleasure of meeting her lifelong confidante and soon-to-be maid of honor, Kimberly Johnson, whom I have adopted as one of my closest friends.
Blair Segrue
Bridesmaid
Amilca and I met through a mutual family friend, Jacquim Curtis, our freshman year of High School. There was something about Amilca that was different than girls our age. Amilca was independent, confident, and driven! These characteristics have not changed in Amilca. She and I became fast friends! Throughout our friendship, we have traveled many places together, a privilege we both hold in high importance. When I went to the University of Maryland, Amilca asked to sublet my apartment in the summer, so she could work in DC. Again, Amilca was doing BIG things before many others, she knew she wanted to live in DC! And nothing was going to get in the way of that, she thought outside of the box and always figured out a way to make things happen. Living in a big city is not always easy, but we served as a Raleigh lifeline for each other. Fast forward to now, Amilca in one of our many "catch up calls" told me she met the man she wanted to marry. After meeting Shawn briefly, I knew that she met her match. I am so happy to be by your side as you walk into this next chapter of life!
Amber Perry
Bridesmaid
I couldn't be more thrilled to be standing beside Amilca on her big day. We've been friends since our high school days, sharing life memories and adventures along the way. Amilca is not only an incredible friend but also someone I deeply admire for her honesty and wisdom. I cherish our conversations, knowing that she'll always tell me the truth, even when it's not what I want to hear. Now, as she embarks on this beautiful journey with her soulmate, I am honored to stand by her side and witness the start of their forever love story. Here's to a lifetime of happiness and endless love to the future Hairstons!