FAQs
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Where is the ceremony?
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The Anand Karaj (Sikh wedding ceremony) will take place at a gurdwara (Sikh temple) on May 18th at the Guru Nanak Foundation of America at 12917 Old Columbia Pike, Silver Spring, MD 20904
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Where is the reception?
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The reception will be held on May 19th at Belmont Manor at 6555 Belmont Woods Rd, Elkridge, MD 21075. We encourage folks to explore the mansion and the grounds - they are beautiful!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes! There is a large parking lot at gurudwara so there should be no issues finding parking there! The staff at Belmont Manor will be doing valet parking.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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The Anand Karaj will be indoors and the reception will take place outdoors at the Belmont Manor garden. You can also go inside at any point if you need a breather or want to explore the mansion!
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What happens in a Sikh Wedding Ceremony?
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A Sikh wedding ceremony is called an Anand Karaj or "blissful union" of two souls. The wedding takes place in a gurdwara or Sikh place of worship. The wedding will begin with the arrival of the "baraat" or groom's wedding party to the gurdwara. It's a fun way to start the events with dancing and a dhol (indian drum). Then, outside of the temple is the "milni" or introductions. This is all about two families coming together where everyone meets each other! Inside the gurdwara, the Anand Karaj will begin with an "ardaas" or prayer before the two people getting married are seated in front. The most significant part of a Sikh wedding is the lavaan or phere. These are four rounds the bridge and groom walk around the Guru Granth Sahib (holy book) each signifying a commitment to their new life.
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Rules for entering a Gurdwara
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The ceremony will be held in a Gurdwara or Sikh temple. Traditional Punjabi outfits are encouraged if you feel comfortable wearing them - although there is no pressure! Generally, you can wear anything as long as your shoulders and legs are covered. Everyone takes off their shoes when entering a Gurdwara (there is a separate shoe room at the Gurdwara to store them!). Everyone must also cover their head with a bandana, scarf or turban.
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What should I wear?
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You can truly wear anything that makes you feel comfortable! Punjabi weddings are a joyous occasion and you can go all out for colors, jewelry, make up - anything! Traditional outfits are definitely encouraged if you would like to wear them!
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Where can I buy traditional Indian outfits?
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If you're excited to wear something traditional to any of the events, check out some of these websites: https://www.kalkifashion.com/ https://www.perniaspopupshop.com/ https://www.utsavfashion.com/ If you're looking for feedback or other suggestions, feel free to reach out to Gagan via text or at kyleandgagan@gmail.com!
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes! Check out the "Registry" section at the top for more information :)
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What type of food will be at the events?
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All the events will have Indian food and the menu for each event will be a little different served buffet style. There will be a variety of gluten free, vegetarian, dairy free options for each event. Meat will be served at all the events except the wedding ceremony because meat is not served at the Gurdwara (Sikh temple). If you're worried about a food allergy please email us at kyleandgagan@gmail.com! Food is a HUGE part of Indian weddings and we're so excited for folks to eat and drink lots!
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by April 1st! You can click the "RSVP" tab at the top of the website. If you're having trouble navigating or searching for your name, please reach out to us via text or at kyleandgagan@gmail.com.