FAQs

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When/How should I RSVP?

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We will collect your "official" RSVPs along with your menu selections, dietary restrictions, etc. (via an "RSVP" tab that will be added to the website) once we send out our formal invitations. However, if you'd like to reach out beforehand to confirm or decline you can email Dana at djlindsay90@gmail.com - we're always happy to hear from you!

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Is there a dress code?

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Wedding Day Attire is "Cocktail & Warm Coat". The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors (in the case of inclement weather we will communicate our alternative indoor plans). We want you to be comfortable, so please come prepared with a warm coat just in case - it might be 70 or 27 degrees and that's just fall in New England for ya! Please refer to the "Schedule" tab for detailed descriptions of the various wedding weekend events and suggested attire.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at 3:30pm. Please plan to arrive 10-15 minutes early so you can grab a seat and settle in.

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Can I bring a date?

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Please only bring a plus one (age 21+) if indicated on your invitation.

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Are children invited?

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While we love your children, we respectfully request that our wedding is adults only.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, please refer to the "Registry" tab at the top of this website.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know of any dietary restrictions or food allergies when you RSVP. If you have already submitted your RSVP, please contact Dana directly: djlindsay90@gmail.com

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there will be parking available behind the Main Inn and Phelps Barn. If you are staying at the Inn, you will park in whichever lot is closest to your lodging and it will be a short walk to the ceremony and reception sites (parking is included in the cost of your lodging).

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony and reception?

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If you are staying at The Grafton Inn the ceremony and reception sites are within walking (in heels) distance. If you choose to stay off-site, you will need to arrange your own transportation to The Grafton Inn for all wedding weekend events. The village of Grafton does NOT have Uber or Lyft, so please plan accordingly.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Yes, please refer to the "Schedule" tab at the top of this website.