We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! If they are listed on your wedding invitation then yes, but if not please enjoy this double date night we have planned with you!
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.