We’re getting MARRIED y’all!!

We initially met over social media. Although Bobby (BJ), knew a couple of my siblings, I knew nothing about him. I made a post that I wanted Mountain Fried Chicken(MFC). He sent me a picture of him there already and asked me what I wanted. Not taking him seriously, I told him. Well he bought the food and then asked me for my address. I paused. I was in shock. Then I laughed and I stalked his FB to see how we were friends and who he knew. Due to his affiliates and associates being people I knew and a couple of my siblings, I asked my siblings about him and my sister’s bf knew him as well so he got the all clear as a good dude, so then I sent my address and he brought my food. I wanted my food, he wanted to talk lol we stood outside and talked for awhile about 30 minutes, nothing was forced. I wasn't even looking for anything at the time although I knew he most likely was given the gesture lol. However, I was impressed that he could hold a meaningful, funny but intellectual conversation but I had to go eat my food and tend to my toddler who was now up from a nap and wanting to play with a ball. I followed up with a “thanks again” message. He followed up as well that week and thereafter. We were both Dallas Cowboys’ fans and talked about a game. Later, he asked me on a date. We scheduled it and he was almost an hour late picking me up and I should’ve cancelled on him. I normally do. I've never been the girl to give second chances so that was new for me. My family will and friends will tell you!! I did threaten to cancel Lol I understood he was late off work or something. Turns out at the time his job was demanding and not the best. I’m glad I didn’t cancel because we had an amazing first date. Neither one of us were ready to go home, the natural energy and conversation that just clicked. We left dinner and went to walk downtown after we were first headed home to call it a night after dinner until we both discovered neither of us were ready to cut it short. So, we drove downtown, we walked around and talked for hours without realizing. (Yes we found a cute relaxing place to sit because I had on heels). Luckily my kids were not with me this particular weekend because I got home after 2:00 AM. We just clicked like that. The rest is history. We dated like EVERY week for awhile after that for like 4 months straight lol ridiculous like who does that. We did. We figured it out because we both wanted to. Sometimes on him and sometimes on me. Sometimes dinner at my house or just lunch or breakfast somewhere quick before a game. He was a coach, my bonus son played football.. I didn’t miss a game. I supported the both of them. We didn’t care. We were realistic about dating every week adds up but we were honest and we wanted to be in each others presence, so we made it work. Because if you want to, you will, right?! So again, sometimes on him, sometimes on me. So it worked. And sometimes just cooking and watching a movie together which didn't really cost. The rest is history but it all started because I made a post about wanting Mountain Fried Chicken years ago. And here we are getting married on our anniversary :)