FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! The dress code is Formal (Black Tie Optional). Some good examples are: mid-to-floor-length dresses, dressy pantsuits, dressy separates, and dark suit and tie. If you want to jazz it up with a tux and a floor length gown, we encourage it! Wear whatever you're most comfortable and ready to party in! The ceremony and dinner will be outside, so please wear shoes you are comfortable wearing on grass.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kids, however, we have decided to make this an adults-only celebration.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation envelope states your name followed by "and Guest," then yes, you may bring someone as your plus one. If it does not, we kindly ask that it be just you in attendance. When in doubt, please clarify with Victoria & Julian.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and dinner are planned to be outdoors. Perfect for a warm summer Sonoma night in September! The dancing reception will be held indoors.

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Will transportation be provided to the ceremony?

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We will be providing transportation for guests staying at the El Pueblo Inn and Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn only. Please see the Travel page on our website for the schedule. For those not staying at either hotel, the venue is a 10 minute drive from downtown Sonoma, and there is plenty of parking available at our wedding venue. Sonoma also has most rideshare options available at reasonable wait times.

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Will transportation be provided from the reception at the end of the night?

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We will have a shuttle departing from the Sonoma Golf Club to take guests to the El Pueblo Inn and Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn only. The shuttle will have four scheduled departure times at the top of each hour beginning at 9pm.

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Will either of you be changing your names?

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Nope! We are keeping our names as Victoria Ayeni and Julian Day.