The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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16 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000
  • Offer

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Awarded Best of Zola
We are so glad we picked Westbury Manor for our June wedding! The grounds were absolutely beautiful, the food was great, and everyone had a wonderful time. Special shout-out to my bridal attendant, Susan, who was so calm, cool, and collected, and there for me whenever I needed her. She had the perfect energy for what could be a hectic day. I also highly recommend using Gary, the in-house florist; he did a phenomenal job with the floral arrangements and my bouquet. Everyone at Westbury Manor is so professional and easy to work with. If you like beautiful gardens and historic manor vibes, Westbury Manor is the place for you.
David P., a year ago
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Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 3 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Awarded Best of Zola
I had my wedding on 7/15/23 at Bourne Mansion and I don’t think I could say more glowing things about the entire experience. From the second we sat down the Miriam, we knew that this was the venue. She was beyond helpful and available for all of our questions big or small from the start. She had amazing suggestions and wonderful vendor choices. I don’t think our wedding would have been the same if we didn’t listen to almost everything she told us to do. Steve was also incredible from our meeting the week prior to the day of, he was right there for anything we needed and was like a drill sergeant making sure everything went on time which was much appreciated. There was a chance that there would have been rain which would have ruined our firework show and Steve made sure that the kitchen rushed the food out so we could get the show started before anything happened. All our guests have raved about the food and how there was enough to feed a small army. As anyone who gets married knows me and my husband weren’t able to indulge in everything but what we ate was AMAZING and I literally can’t stop thinking about the sushi. I could go on and on about how Miriam, Steve and the entire Bourne staff made our night incredible!! I highly recommend choosing Bourne for your wedding!
Kim C., a year ago
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Tiki Boat Long Island 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 29 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $1,769

At Tiki Boat Long Island, our mission is to create fun, enjoyable, and memorable experiences for all our guests. We are dedicated to ensuring that every cruise is not just a trip, but a celebration of life and camaraderie. Tiki Boat Long Island offers Unique Long Island Booze Cruises. Complete with Full-service bar, Spacious dance floor, VIP seating, Restroom, Sound System, Lighting System, USB ports and Misters (for hot days or nights). This vessel is perfect for bachelorette parties or any other celebration. Create one-of-a-kind memories that last for a lifetime. Catering is available upon request. Included is a USCG Master Captain, Bartender, and Host/Hostess to serve your needs. We accommodate from groups of 2 people up to 29 guests.

The smoothest ride on the water I’ve ever been on. The ease of getting a drink and food from the bar was fantastic as we celebrated our engagement. The party was so fun with the music, misters and views of the local area from the water. 10/10 recommend for any couple/family/friends
Brandon & A., a year ago
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Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Everything was great! The staff was amazing and so easy to work with at every point in the process. No one was ever pushy or anything like that. Our maitre d Matt was an absolute gem and my bridal attendant Emma was an absolute angel. Loved the option to get married inside or out. We wanted outside but it was windy and cold so we got married inside in front of the beautiful fire place. We couldn’t have asked for anything better. ️
Erin R., 8 months ago
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Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

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Windows on the Lake 

5.0

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias
Ana V., 6 months ago
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Essex Club 

5.0

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Awarded Best of Zola
The food was amazing Wish there was a bathroom in the bridal sweet. Everyone that works there definitely loves working there! Not one person seemed unhappy or grumpy.
Sansia D., a year ago
James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 4 years ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Stonebridge is an amazing place to have your wedding! From the beautiful grounds and spaces to the great people, we could not have been happier to have booked Stonebridge. Gregg was amazing throughout the planning process, he was very helpful and always answered any questions we had almost immediately! On the day of the wedding, Terrence went above and beyond to make sure the evening ran as smooth as possible, and he truly succeeded! Alex, our bridal attendant was also awesome and was by our sides when we needed her! The food was amazing, we are still hearing from our guests how good the food was compared to any other wedding they have been to. Our guests kept saying it was the best wedding they have ever been to! That speaks volumes about Stonebridge and the staff who go above and beyond to make sure your special day is the best day ever. Don’t hesitate to book Stonebridge, you will not regret it!
Marisa C., 3 months ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.2

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

The Watermill brought our wedding dreams to life! Nick, Jessica and Dom were incredible and made sure our wedding was so smooth. Their service and organization is impeccable. We are so grateful to them and had the best time at our wedding!
Rebecca K., 2 months ago

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About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Oakdale, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Oakdale, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $10,000.

What types of venues can I find in Oakdale, NY?

Oakdale offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Oakdale, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Halyard at Sound View Greenport, Bourne Mansion and Stonebridge Country Club. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Oakdale, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (52% in Oakdale do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Oakdale do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Oakdale, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Oakdale, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Oakdale can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Oakdale, NY offer?

The venues in Oakdale, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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