FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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ASAP!
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Is there a dress code?
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Formal attire! Dress to impress! We would love to get a picture with you looking good! "We see you!" lol.....P.S. Don't forget that it's hot in August!
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What time does the wedding actually start?
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4pm Sharp! The ceremony will not be delayed because of guest lateness.
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Is the ceremony/reception indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors (weather permitting). The reception is indoors with plenty of AC!
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What if it rains?
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No worries! The ceremony will be moved to the beautiful historic chapel on site!
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Can I change my "no" RSVP to a "yes"?
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Unfortunately, not at this time. Please only give a "no" RSVP if you absolutely can't make it. Feel free to contact us in the event of emergency or unforeseen circumstance.
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Is the venue handicap accessible?
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Yes, of course! Ramps are present, along with closer parking. Upon arrival, please communicate to the Milton Ridge staff on site so you may be accommodated in every way possible.
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Parking questions?
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Please refer to the parking tab above.
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What are the wedding colors?
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Plum purple, lavender, navy blue and sparkly silver. You are more than welcome to match the décor if you desire.
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Am I allowed to bring plus one?
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Unfortunately and respectfully, no. If your name alone is on the invite, the invite is for you alone. (i.e. if only Bert is invited.. he can't bring Ernie!)
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I have a plus one that can't come. Can I replace them?
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No surprise guests please. Please contact us if your plus one can't make it. (i.e. don't bring a friend in place of your hubby. please let us know first.)
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Can I bring my children?
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Naw. We appreciate the difficulty of being away from your kids for a wedding, but there is a capacity limit at the venue which includes even babies.
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Will there be an open/cash bar?
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No. But there will be a variety of non-alcoholic drinks available. If you need alcohol to have fun at a party, please drink before or after. But let us remind you of Ephesians 5:18 - "Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit" :-)
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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
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Yes, of course. But please do not stream the wedding. Also, please do not disrupt the wedding or stand in front of guests for a picture.
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Can I forward the invitation to others?
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No. If someone has not received an invite please ask the mother of the bride :-)
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I have more questions. Who do I ask?
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Anyone but us :-D
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What's the closest hotel to the venue?
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Holiday Inn Express Hotel and Suites Germantown (11 mins from venue) 20260 Goldenrod Lane Germantown, MD 20876 301-428-1300 1 king bed or 2 queen beds are blocked for our wedding! The rooms will be provided at a discounted rate under "Benton/Mayah" wedding reservation code EG3. The rooms will be discounted for 8/17-8/20, though you may book for any date within this range. One day is fine. Please book by 7/16 to secure discounted rate.