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Whitney & Jarred

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Why is the wedding in Excelsior Springs?

Answer

Excelsior Springs is special to Jarred’s family and is his mom, Carla’s, hometown. Whitney fell in love with The Elms when visiting to celebrate Jarred’s grandmother’s 90th birthday (it helps the hotel is haunted 👻)

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What’s with the date?

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The dates of our wedding weekend is in honor of Whitney’s beloved late Grandmama’s birthday, November 4. And who doesn’t love a little celebration on Bonfire Night. Remember, remember the 5th of November.

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Plus ones?

Answer

Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. See your invite/RSVP for more information.

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Does the wedding have a theme?

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Yes! Dark, glamorous and romantic with bit of pop punk\emo style thrown in as an ode to the couple’s fave music and a nod to the song Jarred proposed to: First Date by Blink 182.

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What should I wear?

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We kindly ask our favorite people to join us in wearing cocktail attire within our wedding color palette: wine, burgundy, magenta, amethyst, plum, mauve, dusty rose, hunter green, black & gold.

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Where do we stay?

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Rooms for guests are available at the venue, The Elms Hotel and Spa. Please see the “travel & accommodations” page for more information.

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