FAQs

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When do I RSVP by?

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After our official invitations go out, we will update you here.

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What should I do if I can’t make it?

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You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "will not attend", so we can plan accordingly

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, we are opting for formal attire. Please do not wear a white, pale colors that appear white, or tan suits. Please no jeans or sneakers (sneakers are okay for children). Click the link to see the inspiration here! https://bit.ly/3NTTclY

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best pictures which we will share with you Once the ceremony is over feel free to take as many pictures as you'd like and don't forget to share them with us!

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Are kids welcomed?

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Invitations will be specific and will include the names of the children who are invited. For those of you that will be bringing children, please be sure to watch them closely.

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Can I bring a date?

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After many months and a ton of consideration, we have finalized our guest list. Only named invitees and plus ones will be able to RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Do you have a registry and if so, where?

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Yes, thank you for asking! Your presence is our present, but if you feel inclined, we have both a honeymoon travel fund and a traditional registry. Please see the following link: https://www.zola.com/registry/vliettobe2025

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There will be valet parking for our guests.

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What do I do if I am late to the ceremony?

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If you are late to the ceremony, please do not walk down the aisle and try to find a seat. While we want all of our friends and family there, we would appreciate if you would either stand off to the side or wait to join us until the reception. We thank you for understanding :)

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Can I post pictures of the wedding on social media?

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We would appreciate if all photos and videos are not shared until the day after the wedding. We hope everyone will be present and too busy enjoying the day to post anything.

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Where is cocktail hour?

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Outside on the Pelican Club's outdoor deck.