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WHOM SHOULD I CALL WITH QUESTIONS?

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If you have any other questions other than what we’ve listed here, please reach out to our wedding planner, Victoria, at 301-996-1736.

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CAN I COME IF I DO NOT RSVP?

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We want each of our guests to receive a warm and special welcome. In order for us to properly plan, we require that you RSVP by June 1st, 2023. Thank you.

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ARE KIDS INVITED?

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We love your kids! But we want our wedding to be your night off, hence, this is an adult-only events.

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CAN I BRING A DATE?

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If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.

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WHAT HASHTAG CAN I USE?

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#ADecadeOfLove

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What should I expect at a Nigerian (Yoruba) Wedding?

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Traditional Yoruba weddings are large and lively. The ceremonies are hosted by two MCs known as alagas. They are usually older women and there’s one from each side of the family. The alagas are boisterous, charismatic characters that add humor to the day. They are accompanied by a talking drummer for the entirety of the event, who pumps in additional vigor and excitement with each beat. Yorubas have a greeting custom known as Ìdobálè whereby males prostrate, placing their full bodies on the ground as a sign of respect. The groom and his groomsmen must prostrate before the bride’s family and the chest must touch the ground completely for the greeting to be complete.  Once the men prostrate on the ground, the bride’s family asks a few questions, the groom is seated and then the bride enters with her ladies who are all wearing matching aso-ebi. After this, she places a hat on the groom's head and then he carries her. This is known as Igbeyawo. He then places a ring on her finger and they are pronounced married. “Spraying” is the highlight of the Nigerian wedding reception. Guests spray the couple with cash on the dance floor as a way of showering them with blessings and to keep them dancing on. There’s usually a DJ playing afrobeat, hip-hop, traditional, and contemporary music. Please see more details below: Article: https://www.myhotelwedding.com/6-things-expect-nigerian-wedding/ Videos: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=yoruba+traditional+wedding+

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What should I expect at a Jewish Wedding Ceremony?

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Jewish weddings are full of traditional elements, that are both meaningful and emotional, but also celebrate the joy of a couple’s union. Traditionally Jewish weddings are held outside with a canopy (chuppah) covering the bride (kallah) and groom (chatan). A chuppah has four corners and a covered roof to symbolize the new home the bride and groom are building together. The ceremony includes two distinct rituals, the betrothal (kiddushin) and the completion of the marriage itself (ni'usin). Shouting "Mazel tov!" is one of the most well-known Jewish wedding rituals. Once the ceremony is over and the glass is broken, you will hear guests cheer "Mazel tov!" Mazel tov has a similar meaning "good luck" or "congratulations." The direct translation is actually closer to wishing the best for the future, a great destiny, or a pronouncement that the person or people have just experienced great fortune. There's no better time to say "mazel tov" than at a wedding! The hora is a traditional dance performed at Jewish weddings where the newlyweds are lifted into the air while their family and friends dance in circles around them. During the hora, the couple each holds one end of a handkerchief or napkin to signify their union. When it comes to gift-giving etiquette for Jewish couples, guests usually send registry gifts to the couple in advance, or bring monetary gifts to the reception. “Regarding a monetary gift, the number 18 figures importantly in Jewish culture,” says Nancy Goldstein. “The Hebrew word for 18 is 'Chai' which means 'alive' or 'life'. It is traditional to 'Give Chai' or to determine gifts in multiples of 18 (i.e. 54, 72, 108, etc.).” Please see more details below: Article: https://vinesoftheyarravalley.com.au/what-can-i-expect-at-a-jewish-wedding/ Videos: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=jewish+traditional+wedding+

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