FAQs
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What should I wear?
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Weddings are a perfect excuse to take photos that will last a lifetime! Our photographer will be taking pictures of us with guests during cocktail hour, and we would love for everyone to dress according to our nature-inspired color palette: sage green, olive green, navy blue, and blush pink. Women in flowy dresses, and men in suits. However, cocktail attire you already own is perfect; please don't feel like you need to buy something special! The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place on grass, so stilettos may not be the best option. Make sure to bring your dancing shoes and show off your best moves on the dance floor!
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What should I bring?
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A picture is worth a thousand words, especially as we get older! If you want to help us create a memory board of all our experiences with our favorite people over the years, please bring a printed photo (or more) of you with the bride and/or groom. You can pin your photos to our memory board during cocktail hour.
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How do I RSVP? By when?
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By May 6th, copy and paste this link into your browser and follow the prompts: https://www.zola.com/wedding/trokey/rsvp
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Can I make a special request for food or music?
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Yes! Please indicate if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP. You can also let us know if you have any song requests for our DJs, Alra and geez Louise. However, we’ve specifically instructed them NOT to play classic wedding songs ;-)
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Is everything at one location?
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Yes! From 3-11 pm, everything is located at the DeLair's County Road Farm (15839 West Doyle Road in Manhattan, IL 60442).
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive at the DeLair's County Road Farm located at 15839 West Doyle Road in Manhattan, IL 60442 by 3:00 pm. You are welcome to sit on either side, but we ask that all front seats are filled before moving to the back. Thank you for making us feel loved on our special day!
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Is there parking or transportation?
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Parking is available at the wedding venue, but please do not drink and drive! We're unsure of Uber/Lyft options in remote Manhattan, so we will have a party bus that will take guests to and from the wedding venue and our hotel block. If you are planning on using our shuttle, please let us know on your RSVP!
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Do you have a wedding hashtag?
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Even though we're not on social media, Gina came up with the hashtag #TrokeyToMyHeart over 10 years ago! We would love for you to use it when posting pictures and videos :-)