We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off.
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail / Formal, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
No alcohol or firearms to be brought to the wedding from home there will be welcoming drinks and a cash bar available for the evening.