FAQs
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What if I don’t RSVP?
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To help us with planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by the date provided on your formal invitation. If you are having trouble RSVPing, please contact the bride or groom. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline noted on the invitation, we will have to mark you as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but we do need to finalize our guest count for the venue and our vendors. We cannot make any exceptions. We hope you understand!
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Can I take pictures during the wedding?
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Our ceremony will be an "unplugged ceremony". This means no phones/devices! We ask that all our guests follow this. However, our hired professionals will be taking photos and videos during the entire ceremony and we would like to avoid any phones or devices in the background of said photos and videos. However, we strongly encourage our guests to take pictures/videos during the reception and even post on social media and tag us! You can even hashtag the photos with #ToHambyAndToHold
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Our wedding is strictly invitation only. If you have a plus one indicated on your formal invitation, then you are welcome to bring a plus one. Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate other extra guests due to venue capacity.
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We recommend wearing something comfortable, yet appropriate. No black tie attire is required, but please no blue jeans! Men, slacks/khakis and button-downs/polo shirts are requested. Ladies, a dress or pant suit is requested. I also advise that you do not wear stiletto heels, as there are grassy areas at the venue. I recommend flats, wedges, or chunky heels! If you have any further questions regarding the attire, feel free to reach out to the bride or groom.
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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Please refrain from wearing colors traditionally reserved for the bride. This includes white, ivory, or cream colors.
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When should I arrive?
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We recommend arriving 15-30 minutes before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is on time. We kindly ask that if arriving anytime after the ceremony starts, you head to the cocktail hour/reception area to decrease interruptions to the ceremony.
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Do you have a registry? Can I bring a gift?
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Your presence at the wedding is enough and a gift is not necessary. We do have a gift registry set up. Our gift registry is set up with Amazon under the ‘Registry’ link!