It never crossed my mind that the random boy I met online would become my partner for life. I was showing Matthew around San Diego on our first date, as he was new to the city. San Diego became his new home and he became my new home. We learned to love each other and be patient with each other even when we were oceans apart for eight months (thank you US Navy). I am so happy I swiped right and made the first move, we would not be here today.