We're getting married!

We've officially set a date for our intimate civil marriage ceremony. While this occasion will be shared with our immediate family, we're also dreaming about a larger celebration that includes all the amazing friends and family members who have been a part of our lives. Your presence, love, and support have meant the world to us, and we want to make sure that our future celebration reflects the warmth and joy you've brought into our lives. This website will be our hub for keeping you in the loop about all the wonderful details as we prepare for our upcoming marriage and celebration. Thank you for sharing in our happiness. We can't wait to celebrate with each and every one of you!

As we reflect on our incredible journey, it's impossible not to feel overwhelmed by the depth of our connection and the twists of fate that brought us together. Our story is one of Love, Friendship, and Destiny that has unfolded over the passing years, defying all odds and challenges. Our paths crossed at the Roadhouse, a popular club in Carson, California, during the late 1990s. Little did we know that this chance encounter would lay the foundation for a bond that would remain unbreakable. That night, Vanessa danced the night away with her friends, lost in the music and the moment. Little did we know that as the night unfolded, fate had something special in store for us. I entered the scene alongside my brother. In a twist of destiny, my eyes were drawn to Vanessa on the dance floor. At the close of the night, I mustered the courage to approach her best friend, inquiring about Vanessa. We never could have predicted that such a seemingly ordinary moment would be the catalyst for a beautiful chapter in our lives. After some consideration, she eventually decided to share her pager number with me. Over the course of a week, we both engaged in conversations, getting to know each other better. Then, in a delightful turn of events, she chose to celebrate my birthday by going on our very first date together. This was the beginning of a chapter that would forever change our lives. Throughout our journey, there were moments when we questioned whether the depth of our friendship could evolve into something more profound. Life's unpredictable paths led us to different cities and even different countries, but our connection was steadfast, always finding a way back to each other. We celebrated milestones side by side—graduations, promotions, and every victory along the way. We became each other's confidants, sharing our dreams, fears, and secrets without reservation. Our friendship became a sanctuary where authenticity and vulnerability were cherished. Then 20+ years later, on one fateful day, everything shifted. It was a moment that found us engrossed in a deep conversation at the “Positive Palace”, my cozy apartment, that opened a door to a new understanding. As seconds turned into minutes and hours, something remarkable occurred. A subtle shift in the atmosphere revealed a newfound understanding between us as if we both simultaneously realized that what we shared extended far beyond mere friendship. With trembling hearts, we decided to take a leap of faith and explore the romantic connection that had been quietly brewing beneath the surface for so many years. It was as if all the stars aligned, and we finally understood that our unique history had led us to this very moment. From that day forward, our love story unfolded with a beautiful intensity. We discovered new depths of love and passion, intertwined with the familiarity and comfort that only a longtime friendship can provide. We learned to navigate the challenges that come with transitioning from friends to lovers, and we did so with grace and patience. Our journey together has been filled with adventure, laughter, and growth. We've traveled the world, creating memories that will last a lifetime. We've supported each other through triumphs and failures, celebrating victories and offering solace during difficult times. Today, we stand united, partners in life and love. Our unique history, rooted in friendship, has blossomed into a love story that defies time. We are grateful for the road that led us to each other and excited about the future that lies ahead. As our story continues to evolve, each passing day brings us closer together. The memory of that fateful night at the Roadhouse will forever remain etched in our hearts, a night when destiny intervened to set us on a breathtakingly beautiful path. Our journey is a testament to the power of love, friendship, and destiny, and I'm incredibly thankful to share it with you.