We love your kids--we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! We do understand certain circumstances require you to bring your child and we respect that!
If your invitation says "and guest," then yes, if not we would prefer if it was just you.
Black Tie/Formal Leave the cowboy boots at home please :)
NO! This is an INVITE ONLY event. If you were not invited, please do not show up. If you show up uninvited you will simply be asked to leave. It is rude to show up to events you aren't invited to.