Good question. Turn at the big Bellrive signs off of Ladue road and follow the super long driveway. There will be a valet to park your car. When you walk in the front, turn right and follow all of the fancy people.
Whatever makes you comfortable. Please no tuxedos, the groom will be wearing a suit and he doesn't want to feel not fancy.
Something everyone wants to know. You'll be getting cocktails after the ceremony with some snacks, and for dinner, we'll have a mixed grill plate so no need to order ahead.
It's St. Louis, so who really knows? I'm hoping it will be in the 60s. We have an indoor plan if it's too cold or rainy.