Between the two of us we've attended hundreds of weddings and festivals. Some were fun, some were weird and awkward and some were life-changingly delicious. But why? When we peeled back the layers, we discovered that our best times at gatherings were when we felt involved, when we knew what to do and how to plug in and we had deep, real chances to connect, bond, play and get to really know people. Sometimes we experienced this because we were organizers or in service somehow, but we are always on a team, and had the wonderful, fulfilled feeling of being part of something wonderful and meaningful. We compared those meaningful gatherings with the ones where we were only spectators and we had a hard time even remembering the only spectator ones because we weren't really fully present or involved. So! We've decided to do a fully collaborative wedding! Where each of our skills, joys, genius and enthusiasm get to be threads in a woven tapestry celebration of the love that unites us all. When you RSVP you'll learn more.