FAQs
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RSVP deadline
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April 23, 2023
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Can I/we bring the kids?
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Humblest of apologies but, no. We invite you to view this evening as a date night out and away. We assure you we lovely them dearly, and mean no disrespect, it’s just not the vibe.
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Can I bring...*insert random human's name*
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Did you have a plus one on your invite? No? Then no. Thank you so much.
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What’s the attire?
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Please wear whatever makes you feel comfortable, feeling your best, ready to dance the night away. We’re not fancy people so don’t feel like you need to be swanky - but by all means, if you want to bring it, serve it up spicy baby.
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Outdoor/Indoor wedding
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Should the weather be kind, the ceremony will be outside! And there will be space to wander in and out of the venue during the reception. Please remember your sunscreen/sun protection!
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Dude, where’s my car?
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Majestically our venue has a plethora of FREE parking. And, should the beer/wine carry you away, there will be permits available for overnight parking. (Yes, also for free)
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What’s on the menu?
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Well. In the spirit of lesbians, pride month, me being from AZ and them generally being one of the best food groups known to those who eat - tacos. GF and vegetarian options available!
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Open bar?
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It will be an open bar! There will only be beer and wine available, no hard liquor.
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What’s the wedding #
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#duckduckmooni 🦆🌙♥️
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Exactly how gay is this wedding about to be?
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Hella. A lot. Very. Mucho. Grande. We're getting married in Pride month, across a bridge that will have the Pride flags flying, oh and - we're two women getting married that identify as lesbian. If, for any personal reason (which we do not want to hear about), you cannot support our marriage and relationship because we're gay we invite you to not attend the wedding. A significant number of our friends and family are LGBTQIA+ and we will be maintaining a completely inclusive, nonjudgemental space for them to happily celebrate with us.
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Can we take photos during the wedding and post to social media?
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Absolutely, just don't be obnoxious about it or get in our photographer's way! And please use our hashtag, #duckduckmooni
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When does it transition from PG to R/X rated?
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After the 8:30pm it's going to be an open party. Booties and tittites are shaking everywhere and it's all a dance fest that will not be held to any sort of guidelines. If 'raunchy' music and twerking offend you, we advise you see your way out before this hour.