In January of 2017, Elise messaged Derek on the dating app, Match. Just over a week later, the two had their first date (Panera and a Parks & Recreation marathon until 6am). Since that first date, the pair became inseparable. Although they spent nearly every day together, the couple officially moved in together 6 months later. After Elise graduated from college in 2019, the two began looking for a home of their own. In September 2019, they closed on their first home. Just two weeks later and in the midst of moving chaos, the pair added four legs to their family. On April 4th, 2020 the couple was preparing for a virtual brunch with friends. The pandemic was in full swing and the pair was eager to spend time with loved ones. While Elise was putting away dishes, she turned around to find Derek on one knee. Celebrating their engagement with loved ones virtually was never how they imagined their union would begin, but at least Derek wouldn't have to hear Elise ask any more questions about the impending engagement.