FAQs

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What will the weather be like?

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In May, the average temperature lies between 71-84 degrees. It can get slightly chilly at night if there is a breeze, so bring a light jacket or sweatshirt! Hurricane season runs June- October.

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What is the attire for the ceremony and reception?

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Erin likes to say "it's not a beach wedding, it's a wedding that happens to be near a beach." Cocktail/semi-formal wear. Women in dresses, men in slacks and nice button-up tops or dress shirts. No flip flops please. No Tevas (DAD!).

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Should I bring a gift?

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NO! Your presence is the gift! We are so excited to see and celebrate with everyone!

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What do I need to pack? (STJ Specific Things)

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- Sunglasses and hat— Essentials! - Sunscreen, coral reef save— more expensive on island, but make sure you check this if oversized - Buy spray (for being on the deck at night, on the beach at dusk) - Cash (tips, taxi, ferry, some cash only establishments) - Passport if plan to do boat day as we may go to the BVI (British Virgin Islands) - Shoes to hike in— sneakers or sandals (i.e. Tevas, Chacos) are fine, but can get dirty - Beach bag - Reusable water bottle and reusable cup for beach - Small speaker for the beach (let’s coordinate so we don’t have 20 of these) - Dramamine if you get boat or car sick (ask Morgan for details)

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I'm a girl and/or anxious-- what do I need to pack?

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All above things plus... - Toiletries - Make-up - Hair things- brush, headbands, hair ties, pins, clips, straightener, blow dryer, curler (let’s coordinate) - Bathing suits- will be wearing one every day most likely, pack at least a couple for when one is wet - Cover-ups — Not a fashion show ladies, we’re taking gym shorts and oversized t shirts - 1-2 cute outfits for going out to dinner/bars - Wedding day outfit— dress and shoes, bridesmaids, highly recommend a short dress to change into for after the wedding! - Boat day things: bathing suit, cover up, long sleeve sun shirt, hat, sunglasses - Flip flops - Sneakers or sandals for hiking as above - PJs!

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Where should I book a house?

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The wedding party and family will be staying in Rendevous Bay, which is about a 10 minute drive from downtown Cruz Bay. There are several villas in this general area! There are also hotel and condo type accommodations in and around Cruz Bay. Coral Bay and East End would be a farther drive from our home base for the week— about 40 minutes or more.

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Where should I get groceries?

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There are a few grocery stores on the island. The closest to the villa is Dolphin Gourmet Market near the Westin. Other nearby are Pine Peace Market (small), Starfish Market, Dolphin Market (Cruz Bay). There is also Dolphin Market and Love City Market in Coral Bay. Grocery stores cell liquor, wine, and beer. They do take credit cards, but tend to have a minimum!

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You drive on the left side of the road??

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Yes! Be mindful of this! See above for more "Rules of the Road" by Captain Jack!

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How long is the journey to the island?

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From Philadelphia, the flight to St Thomas takes about 4 hours non-stop. From Boston, the total travel time to St Thomas is about 7 hours including a layover. From the St Thomas airport, you take an approximately 25-30 min taxi ride to the ferry. The foot passenger ferry is about a 15-20 minute trip, while the car ferry is about 40 minute trip. From the Cruz Bay, St John ferry dock, the drive to Rendevous Bay is about 10 minutes. Traveling to and from the island takes a full day!

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Do I have to stay the whole week?

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Short answer: NO! Long answer: There is lodging and events planned for the wedding party and family between Tuesday, May 2nd to Tuesday, May 9th, 2023. As stated above, traveling to the island takes a full day, and therefore we would recommend against traveling for a 4 day weekend, as this would only give you 2 days to enjoy the island. That being said-- we love and appreciate any time you can dedicate to our celebration!! The main planned events can be found on the "Schedule" page on our website. These "big" events include the wedding ceremony and reception on Friday, May 5th, and a boat day on Sunday, May 7th. Any more specific questions-- don't hesitate to ask us!