Have you ever been at the end of your rope and you felt like you couldn’t go any further but you kept going because it’s just what you were taught to do? Well that was me a couple of years ago when I met my dream come true. Just when I thought it was over for me this happened. I met this man after being at the lowest point in my life. He encouraged me and inspired me to try again. He said you have to first forgive yourself. I thought to myself here we go again, someone else who thinks he knows me. There were a lot of things I had never told anyone but I felt comfortable sharing with him. Lol I learned from that experience. However I fell in love and I’m here to say that I have never loved a man the way that I love him. Joseph is my heart. He can make me smile without saying a word or even touching me. He is incredible. God did not only show out when he placed me in the place to be chosen but he gave me the best he had just for me. I owe God everything cause even when I wasn’t good he kept protecting me. Thanks for keeping me and making me wait to be chosen by your son.

There was a songwriter who wrote the lyrics: “It’s so good loving somebody and somebody loves you back!” There are many different types of love and many ways to love. The precursor to me knowing any of this is the experience of love my life has shown me. False love, proclaimed love; puppy love (lol), love under selfish terms (lust), real love and most of all unconditional love. Having gone through all of the above phases of such at one time or another, none is more important or worthwhile than the last one. Unconditional love is what our higher power always has for us. It is why He writes in the scriptures that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing”. It means that you have found the one who can and will love you the same way he does. And it IS good! Quanda is my good thing. I can’t even imagine the love she has to be able to accept me for me good, bad and ugly. All the lessons I have had before her in what love truly is have all culminated to prepare me for receiving the a true gift from GOD. I love her as it should be; “as Christ loves the church”. Thank God for my rib!